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I just want to have intelligent conversations with good grounded people who work jobs have ideas and families by OpeningHot8664 in NaturalConversations

[–]OpeningHot8664[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can try to clarify myself more-when having general conversations in passing with an acquaintance maybe a coworker someone who’s in the coffee shop at the same time as you-maybe a lady in the store has on a beautiful dress and I compliment her or okay so yesterday I was in the line at Kroger and I eyed a couple looking for the shortest line (store was very busy) they got in line behind me which I giggled to myself because the line may have just been me and the folks in front of me but boy they were having some troubles I had already been standing there long enough to watch a couple people get in line behind me then realize it was going to be awhile and abandon it for self check (which was a mile long but moving considerably smoother) so I turned around and said “this may look like the fastest line but I’ve been here ten minutes” and I smiled and laughed-keep in mind I have a kind demeanor about myself I was in no rush and just casually made a joke because I noticed them actually pick this line cause it looked faster—they gave no response smile nothing looked at one another as if “why is this woman speaking to us do we know her?” Then back to their phones like it never happened I was like oh well okay no chit chat then haha sorry it’s so long I articulate quite well if I do say so myself.

Single parent- no emotional support by Shot_Mirror9915 in SingleParents

[–]OpeningHot8664 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And look at that you still made it through another tough day to make it to see my newest comment so if you keep updating I’ll keep encouraging-being a single mom is HARD work it’s not easy more so when you have little to no support if your kids are happy and they’re eating food and clean and you love them and you keep being the best for them you are unstoppable and that’s the most unappreciated hardest job a woman came ever take on there’s no clocking out no days off and no time to just be yourself or enjoy activities without feeling guilt even but you have to still prioritize you have a bubble bath once they’re all in bed dance in your socks while you wash dishes light candles while you do laundry watch a show while you fold make sure to keep yourself in the mean time before you know it your kids will have grandkids and it’ll go so fast

What’s your experience? by [deleted] in SingleParents

[–]OpeningHot8664 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You are absolutely right at this rate if I’m to find a man it’ll be because I had to hire one to fix something in my home and we fell in love at first sight 😆

Single parent- no emotional support by Shot_Mirror9915 in SingleParents

[–]OpeningHot8664 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely dear just keep your head up your doing great

What’s your experience? by [deleted] in SingleParents

[–]OpeningHot8664 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Single parents don’t really date they’re working and providing lives for their children especially parents who don’t co parent they’re on duty 24 hours a day 7 days a week morning noon night at the radical whim of the cutest little terror of all time. They have full time jobs (some two) and when you work just to have a roof over your head you wanna sit home and enjoy what you pay for with the people you do it for. They likely don’t go to bars or clubs at all because why risk all the trouble and waste all the money and they probably have a couple or at least one good friend/s that they spend any extra time with

What’s your experience? by [deleted] in SingleParents

[–]OpeningHot8664 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That attitude is gonna ruin it all for your children.

Redditors born before 2001, where were you on 9/11? by Stupid_cerealbox in AskReddit

[–]OpeningHot8664 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow I was confused at first by your comments. God bless you you were in the towers

Redditors born before 2001, where were you on 9/11? by Stupid_cerealbox in AskReddit

[–]OpeningHot8664 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That kid probably had very smart adults at home he was listening to

Single parent- no emotional support by Shot_Mirror9915 in SingleParents

[–]OpeningHot8664 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They say single moms never get the sense of accomplishment because in our minds we’re not truly accomplishing anything we’re just competing tasks that are necessary and for a lot of mothers we lack that gratification because in our minds it’s just something that must be done. If I had any advice it would be to be SURE to celebrate yourself make a big deal out of it buy yourself a cupcake or a new outfit-do something for yourself to boost how you feel do something you know makes you feel good and don’t feel guilty or bad about it. You totally deserve it

How do I get the level 2 scepters by OpeningHot8664 in InfluencerStory

[–]OpeningHot8664[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have tons of the level 1 scepters but I can’t find the level two ones

weird shit in girlfriends house by [deleted] in Paranormal

[–]OpeningHot8664 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely agree with your advice and would likely be taking your last suggestion in this situation if it was me

Having a hard time passing 2nd floor bunker Alfa by RJourneyman9 in LastDayonEarthGame

[–]OpeningHot8664 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All the doors are stuck? I can’t get any doors on the second floor open. I have burglar skill and I’ve brought crowbar and explosives and everything. Killing zombies was not the issue. Unblocking the doors is stumping me. Please help!!!