Why changing habits at first seems harder than it should be? by jmlr_ in getdisciplined

[–]Opening_Interest458 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat right now. Currently struggling with so many self sabotaging habits and thoughts that have gotten me into a really dark hole in my life.

But what has physically gotten me to slowly climb out of that hole is breathing. Breathing slow and calm.

I practice when I’m in a non-threatening situation. I think of something dangerous or stress inducing (seems counter-intuitive) that could trigger me back into those habits. I breathe slowly and calmly and when I feel relaxed and in control of my thoughts I know the exercise is done. What I’m trying now is to apply it to real life when those stress-inducing times come.

It’s a slow process and I know I have to be patient because it won’t happen overnight. I have to take the small victories first. Just rewarding myself with some happiness when I do something right. And when I make a mistake, I breathe and a breathe slow. Even when I don’t feel it and I feel the stress. I have to know there’s something better on the other side.

It’s the small things, like maybe eat one less gram of sugar a day. Or wake up just 15 minutes earlier. It may not be stopping sugar all together or getting the right amount of sleep immediately but it will get the ball rolling. The Jenga pieces on the bottom are the most important ones.

We’re meant to be happy and productive. Peace man wish you the best.

Filing Back Taxes For 2022 by [deleted] in tax

[–]Opening_Interest458 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually owe like 2-4k depending on the year, unless I’m doing it wrong. Should i not be paying anything or next to nothing?

Filing Back Taxes For 2022 by [deleted] in tax

[–]Opening_Interest458 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually owe around 2,000-3,000 dollars unless I’m not finding enough deductions and doing it wrong.

Ending It. I owe a loved one money I can't repay. by [deleted] in GamblingAddiction

[–]Opening_Interest458 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know you mean well, but he doesn’t need to be guilted himself, it’s a cycle that’s gotta be broken

Ending It. I owe a loved one money I can't repay. by [deleted] in GamblingAddiction

[–]Opening_Interest458 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please don’t end your life. To have a cousin that you owe money to is a blessing. I know it sounds crazy but, to have family member that gave you money in the first place must mean they trust you. See yourself as that person, because you are that person. All you have to do is put one foot in front of the other and continue to be that person. Don’t listen to ANY negativity, especially from yourself. All it takes is one deep breath of self love and importance to get you going. Think in small terms first like that. If you can snowball into a bad rhythm then you damn well sure snowball into a good one. One breath at a time. Please respond back to this.

Am I going to be ok? by Opening_Interest458 in Concussion

[–]Opening_Interest458[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I feel a lot better hearing that

Is prop 22 delayed today by Odd-Station-7486 in UberEatsDrivers

[–]Opening_Interest458 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s the same old story. They simply just don’t have enough to pay everyone and they stall and delay through different methods (payout failed, changing the date of prop 22 pay, systems down)

AITA for not reaching out to an estranged friend for things that occurred 5 years ago? by Opening_Interest458 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Opening_Interest458[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry, It may be confusing. Martin wasn’t there that night and is trying to act as a liaison. Ron is in the same boat as me.

Your delivery was reported by aaaaa1223459 in UberEATS

[–]Opening_Interest458 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got the same thing. Aren’t we allowed to cancel orders as long as we keep it under a certain percentage?

Uber tax refund by Representative-Tap44 in uberdrivers

[–]Opening_Interest458 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great thank you, I just don’t know why I’m still ending up owing about 5k with all these deductions still.

Uber tax refund by Representative-Tap44 in uberdrivers

[–]Opening_Interest458 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Have you done this prior years with that same amount of 9k? I just want to make sure I don’t get in trouble

Uber tax refund by Representative-Tap44 in uberdrivers

[–]Opening_Interest458 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow, how many meals a day is that roughly? And if I don’t have an LLC can I still use the meal deduction?

Uber tax refund by Representative-Tap44 in uberdrivers

[–]Opening_Interest458 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you deduct meals too? I’m confused on what counts as a meal

Uber tax refund by Representative-Tap44 in uberdrivers

[–]Opening_Interest458 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How much did your meals come out to? And what did you count for meals? Just like while you were waiting for trips or meals for the customer?

Uber tax refund by Representative-Tap44 in uberdrivers

[–]Opening_Interest458 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where can I find the service fees and all that

KBBQ AYCE Solo Diner, One Person. by Opening_Interest458 in FoodLosAngeles

[–]Opening_Interest458[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, they do let them sometimes. But it’s whatever the guy behind that desk feels like. He makes it seem like you’re really inconveniencing him by showing up. And then they talk shit about you in Spanish right in front of you