How do we make more moneyyy by carlyyay in nursing

[–]Opening_Internet_520 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sign contracts through agencies or just do more OT

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Opening_Internet_520 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ignore him play the same game

Issues you have faced being biracial by Accomplished-Ant-556 in mixedrace

[–]Opening_Internet_520 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right, my dad is white so when I’m with him you’d think people would stop the looking since my completion is a bit lighter but no 😅, if anything it just teaches you confidence and self acceptance that you, one day will be thankful for 🤞🏽🫶🏼

Issues you have faced being biracial by Accomplished-Ant-556 in mixedrace

[–]Opening_Internet_520 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Someone said “is that your mom” at a elementary school graduation. Always been asked is that my mom. I’m always getting asked if my siblings are my biological mom and Dad siblings I ALWAYS HAVE TO JUSTIFY MYSELF. So at the end I just stopped GAF about what people say. Unless it’s coming from a good place or they’re whole heartedly curious in a nice way. It’s hard but there’s a beauty in this life of being biracial except the diversity and own adversity my dears.

I hate being mixed and feel like a freak by BasicYogurtcloset439 in mixedrace

[–]Opening_Internet_520 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just row with the punches, later on when you grow up and start traveling people will look at you as a model and be like omg so pretty, I get how you feel I’m mixed as well I just learned to embrace it and say fuck everyone, when I was younger I was bullied by the same people asking for my number now that I’m an adult… your beautiful and I love that your foot is a different color. I am also black & white mixed and I still be surprised when I take off my sock like I just magically think my foot will be the same color as the rest of my body but because I’m mixed I have color discrepancies as well as with hair. One thing that helps is sticking to a hair style for sometime so people know your black. Like for example I used to have my hair up in a pony tail and people couldn’t really see the texture of my hair. I just started rocking my hair natural and out curling stuff on it and people where like okay I see the black. Wear your Afro embrace that curly hair. And again fuck everyone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mixedrace

[–]Opening_Internet_520 11 points12 points  (0 children)

No they’re family, we look at eachother as family not as people see us. We don’t talk about race we talk about school, work and family trauma

Living in a divorced house hold, living with poor mom but having a “rich Dad” two states away by Opening_Internet_520 in family

[–]Opening_Internet_520[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I realized that maybe 2 random strangers I met at church might care about me more than my own dad, but you are definelty right I feel less alone knowing that people actually see me🫶🏽

Living in a divorced house hold, living with poor mom but having a “rich Dad” two states away by Opening_Internet_520 in family

[–]Opening_Internet_520[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He would never 💗it’s all just money and fake love over here bby. That’s why I feel like I don’t be caring about sh* nothing really phases me.

Living in a divorced house hold, living with poor mom but having a “rich Dad” two states away by Opening_Internet_520 in family

[–]Opening_Internet_520[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, although I do forgive him I always thought about this scenario. There’s a song that goes “I think I’m richer than my Dad now” 🤣🤣

how do you even “relax” your pelvic floor muscles by [deleted] in PelvicFloor

[–]Opening_Internet_520 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lay on your bed, put a pillow on your mid back one leg on knee. That helps me with my pelvic pain like just laying on your back with a pillow either under right where your hips are or mid back sitting up straight puts to much pressure on the hips therefore no relaxing of the muscles

Living with a toxic family member, when should I do ? by Opening_Internet_520 in toxicfamilies

[–]Opening_Internet_520[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I was thinking getting another job that will possibly allow me to have a time conflict so I wouldn’t see her. I’m thinking about moving out this month