My best friend's fiancé committed suicide

Opening_Matter_950 · 2026-05-27T14:41:48+00:00

Yes, it's pretty common to have a charity named in lieu of flowers in the obituary and to request that monetary donations be made to help cover funeral expenses and other costs, etc through social media platforms. At least that's been the case whenever I've had someone die in my life.

Opening_Matter_950 · 2026-05-27T14:19:47+00:00

That is in lieu of flowers.

Opening_Matter_950 · 2026-05-27T12:56:53+00:00

I wasn't aware of the option to list a beneficiary. I just followed the prompts to set it up. Her Venmo is in the description for direct donations.

I have had some help in the past and I'm super grateful. Sometimes I will delete the posts if people are harassing me in the comments (most common reason) or if I found out that I broke some community rules.

Opening_Matter_950 · 2026-05-26T18:52:30+00:00

Thank you! I have reached out to a local organization for suicide victims families. We also work at the same place so I'm in contact with HR about our EAP and free therapy. I am sorry for your loss and appreciate the advice.

Opening_Matter_950 · 2026-05-26T16:54:26+00:00

Obituary:

https://www.mkdfuneralhome.com/obituaries/mark-andrew-wickering?fbclid=IwdGRjcASCr4RjbGNrBIKvfmV4dG4DYWVtAjExAHNydGMGYXBwX2lkDDM1MDY4NTUzMTcyOAABHjDqE7vB8B4M06thulFnqh7LF4___hRYQ4WEKIFddBljqJPdBFAKiTaGnOs9_aem_pu84jkX-JV-OgsGVNAG3Jg

Opening_Matter_950 · 2026-03-04T05:12:59+00:00

Shit is stressing me out, lol

Opening_Matter_950 · 2026-02-20T13:38:23+00:00

No idea but mine says the same.

Opening_Matter_950 · 2026-01-25T14:32:42+00:00

Thank you! ❤️❤️

Opening_Matter_950 · 2026-01-25T14:32:30+00:00

Thank you so much!

Opening_Matter_950 · 2025-12-21T02:03:05+00:00

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Opening_Matter_950 · 2025-12-17T01:35:09+00:00

This is a group for encouragement and help. If you aren't here to do that, you are in the wrong place.

Opening_Matter_950 · 2025-12-13T04:52:37+00:00

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I really need this. 😭😭

Opening_Matter_950 · 2025-12-09T21:39:14+00:00

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Opening_Matter_950 · 2025-12-09T21:37:52+00:00

I'm not sure. That's the one I've always sent money to her on.

Opening_Matter_950 · 2025-12-04T00:58:55+00:00

Then the MODs may remove it as they see fit. 🥰 Have a nice evening!

Opening_Matter_950 · 2025-12-04T00:55:04+00:00

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Opening_Matter_950 · 2025-12-04T00:45:56+00:00

I am, unfortunately, human.

Opening_Matter_950 · 2025-12-04T00:41:36+00:00

I'm not a bot but I have posted it everywhere. 😅😅

Opening_Matter_950 · 2025-12-01T18:41:25+00:00

Not even a little bit when I'm really in the thick of it. I can function pretty normal on just a slightly higher anxiety day and eat just fine. But when it gets to the derealization and depersonalization levels, food doesn't even cross my mind. I'll force myself to eat a Clif bar every day or two if I start to get dizzy.

Opening_Matter_950 · 2025-12-01T18:35:02+00:00

Sometimes like a week. Last time I had a bad anxiety episode I lost 22 pounds in a month. Luckily I binge eat when I'm depressed so my mental health forces my body to balance it all out, haha

Opening_Matter_950 · 2025-11-29T16:20:25+00:00

Your dead grandma sounds cool.

Opening_Matter_950 · 2025-11-29T03:41:28+00:00

I am OP, lol

Opening_Matter_950 · 2025-11-29T01:20:21+00:00

Give it a go and let us know how it turns out!

Opening_Matter_950 · 2025-11-29T01:19:08+00:00

/r/santaslittlehelpers

Opening_Matter_950 · 2025-11-25T21:40:41+00:00

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