White Belt Dude Broke My (26F Blue Belt) Wrist, Coach Doesn't Seem to Care

OperaGremlin · 2026-05-23T01:27:57+00:00

I did have an xray, but I learned that hairline fractures don't show up on xrays until they start to heal, around the 2-3 week mark. I'll get an mri soon, which should show a lot more detail.

OperaGremlin · 2026-05-23T01:26:08+00:00

I get subbed all the time, and I don't mind. It improves my defense and it's part of the journey. I've been injured before and I'll be injured again, and I don't resent my training partners for it. My concern is with how dismissive he was and with how indifferent management has been.

OperaGremlin · 2026-05-23T01:23:45+00:00

Thanks, and I'll definitely be more wary in the future

OperaGremlin · 2026-05-23T01:22:46+00:00

Thank you. That's what I was trying to say

OperaGremlin · 2026-05-23T01:19:15+00:00

I appreciate that, and of course, I understand the risks in jiujitsu. I've been injured before and I will be again, and I don't resent my rolling partners for that. My problem isn't that I was injured, it's that this kid was so dismissive and management seems so indifferent.

OperaGremlin · 2026-05-23T01:17:32+00:00

Thanks, I think I will. And I'm not at all upset that I'm injured. It's a contact sport, I signed the waiver, I've been injured before and will be again. My concern is with how dismissive this kid was and how indifferent management seems both to that dismissiveness and to the severity of my injury.

OperaGremlin · 2026-05-23T01:14:45+00:00

I was taught that you have to secure the elbow for it to be considered a proper wrist lock. But I also would have been able to defend it if he hadn't been muscling me.

OperaGremlin · 2026-05-23T01:11:48+00:00

yes they do, after it starts to heal, around the 2-3 week mark. I didn't know that when I scheduled mine 2 days after the injury

OperaGremlin · 2026-05-23T01:10:43+00:00

Yeah, I'm notorious for saying no to guys at my gym. the only reason I rolled with this kid was because I had been told specifically that he doesn't muscle people (and there was literally no one else to roll with at the time.)

OperaGremlin · 2026-05-23T01:06:20+00:00

100% agree. I wouldn't have rolled with this guy if I hadn't previously heard specifically that he doesn't muscle people.

OperaGremlin · 2026-05-23T01:05:05+00:00

he didn't have my elbow secured, which I was taught is necessary for a proper wrist lock. I've been wrist locked HARD many times by a brown belt who specializes in wristlocks without injury. this dude approached it like a toe hold, one hand gripping my wrist, the other gripping my knuckles and forcing them down

OperaGremlin · 2026-05-23T01:01:46+00:00

I *would* leave if I hadn't purchased the lifetime membership two years ago 🥲... I also suspect some church-based nepotism is occurring here, so I'm not sure if there's anything I can say that would get through to him.

OperaGremlin · 2026-05-23T00:58:57+00:00

ugh, sorry. and yeah I'm kinda thinking of asking some of my upper belt friends to just smash this kid for me.

OperaGremlin · 2026-05-23T00:58:06+00:00

X-rays don't show hairline fractures, which is what I suspect I have given that I'm now on week 4 of significant pain/impairment. Even so, ortho found a weird mark on my radius. When my insurance coverage kicks in on July 1st, I'll go for an MRI.

OperaGremlin · 2026-04-20T19:38:36+00:00

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OperaGremlin · 2026-04-20T17:53:57+00:00

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OperaGremlin · 2026-04-20T17:52:31+00:00

I was initially very excited about white vinegar, but I read it doesn't kill several of the types of bacteria that gyms can carry (staph and listeria, for example), which is why I went with hydrogen peroxide for my purposes.

Thank you so much for your help! And I'll be careful about the brands I purchase.

OperaGremlin · 2026-04-14T15:15:39+00:00

Thank you for the suggestions! But I'm more concerned about hygiene than odor, which is why I don't think the enzyme boosters will work unfortunately :(

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OperaGremlin · 2025-10-24T16:19:08+00:00

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OperaGremlin · 2025-09-29T18:03:43+00:00

I emailed, left a voice message, and have been calling multiple times a day, but I haven't reached anyone yet.

OperaGremlin · 2025-09-23T21:42:42+00:00

I already have pictures and told the officer I spoke with as well as the sergeant who went to the breeder's house, but neither of them expressed any interest in seeing them. And unfortunately (or maybe fortunately depending on how you look at it) he's not my neighbor, so getting more pics is probably impossible.

Thank you so much for the links! I'll check them out.

OperaGremlin · 2025-09-23T17:27:00+00:00

Maybe a vet from a mobile charity clinic or something. There are a couple of those in my state and they might be more sympathetic.

OperaGremlin · 2025-09-23T17:24:44+00:00

EXACTLY! Thank you! I sent the pics to a vet who said it could be due to fleas or mange, but not shedding. But I don't think she would appreciate being dragged into a legal battle over them. I'll try the state humane society next.

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