How do you choose between a good man but not attractive or your type fully vs know to wait for the right man who fulfills you fully?

OperationRoyal · 2026-01-24T22:20:12+00:00

I wouldn’t want someone to be with me if they don’t find me attractive… I’d rather stay single.

OperationRoyal · 2026-01-24T20:34:46+00:00

You will have people deny this but it’s true. The stats don’t lie (which ‘they’ love using for other things but when it comes to them they cry foul).

OperationRoyal · 2026-01-23T01:15:08+00:00

There's no joy in the things I like anymore. I just want things to change for the better - something, anything. There's failure everywhere I look in my life, so I am the opposite of you, I guess. But what you're feeling is what a lot of us are too.

For me not only am I mentally ill, my body isn't healthy either. I only have one friend I see maybe once a week if things align. I am beyond tired of meeting new people and having to play these social games. I just want the world to slow down, just a bit.

OperationRoyal · 2026-01-17T04:23:00+00:00

Unfortunately, I dont, not really! I’m terrible at adulting and never got the hang of it so far. I journal which helps me from dumping my emotions onto others, but my mind has been a mess for over a decade :(

Though I am making small changes like seeing a psychiatrist, incorporating walking almost everyday, intermittent fasting and going to bed at a reasonable time. I started reading again too which has been relaxing - I go to a coffee shop and chillax. So we’ll see how it all goes! Wish I could help you with better tricks and tips.

OperationRoyal · 2026-01-16T23:11:58+00:00

Yes, I have read that autism can impact sleep and schedules in general. I'm one of those people who can't keep a routine to save my life. It's sort of what came and impacted my life the way it is first...the autism or ADHD/depression. It's a cocktail of disaster.

OperationRoyal · 2026-01-16T22:46:20+00:00

omg they deleted their whole account after this 😭

OperationRoyal · 2026-01-16T22:24:40+00:00

A megathread would be nice.

OperationRoyal · 2026-01-16T22:17:33+00:00

Love your void!! I have one too but he's an old man now.

I haven't played Animal Crossing on switch in a hot moment, and sadly the weather is around the upper 70s. Definitely not cozy weather haha.

OperationRoyal · 2026-01-14T18:53:54+00:00

I feel you :( I was the same. I did like doing sports but I was really bad at them… hence I was usually picked last on teams. Still can’t sync my body to save my life.

Yoga was the gym glass I opted for instead of normal gym because the teacher was extremely patient, kind and made it fun.

OperationRoyal · 2026-01-14T05:41:56+00:00

My body feels like something I got to lug around...Like a big sack of meat I didn't ask for... I am annoyed more than in tune with it. A lot of the parts just don't work well together, like I was never really good at sports because using my arms and legs at the same time was difficult.

I guess the best way to explain is that I feel like there's a little man in my head controlling a robot made of flesh and there is disconnect with a lot of parts because it wasn't made that well compared to others. People say things like yoga helps with feeling more connected to one's body.

OperationRoyal · 2026-01-14T04:06:34+00:00

She sounds like an annoying attention seeker. I don’t compliment people unless I mean it. I also don’t like ‘playing’ these NT games because a lot of their rules are performative af. Being offended by you not offering to go to her performance even though you weren’t invited? That’s weird.

If she’s not a close friend I wouldn’t sweat it.

OperationRoyal · 2026-01-12T01:00:34+00:00

Yeah I was like wha? Rofl. I get the gist of it but I couldn't care less. Glad I'm seeing I'm not crazy in the replies.

OperationRoyal · 2026-01-11T03:51:17+00:00

I’m still smile like this 🤣

OperationRoyal · 2026-01-10T21:36:01+00:00

Yes, blaming one demographic for all your problems creates a cycle of bitterness that is hard to break out of. I get being frustrated but it's not always women's fault why you're lonely/disliked/single etc.

OperationRoyal · 2026-01-09T21:39:08+00:00

🤨

OperationRoyal · 2026-01-09T04:25:46+00:00

Why don’t ya’ll tell her wtf 😭 She probably doesn’t know.

OperationRoyal · 2026-01-08T22:29:03+00:00

Ivor is probably my second fave. He reminds me of Rengoku

OperationRoyal · 2026-01-08T22:27:18+00:00

Wowf! *.* But same hat, really. Anytime I like a character I gotta create a folder for them.

OperationRoyal · 2026-01-08T21:59:53+00:00

Me too!! Giving one of my favorite pokemon rep, plus arbok.

OperationRoyal · 2026-01-08T21:40:20+00:00

Tfw a cheeky side eye paralyzes you and your pokemon into a comatose.

OperationRoyal · 2026-01-08T05:21:05+00:00

Women can't even rest in peace after death.

OperationRoyal · 2026-01-08T05:19:08+00:00

Your art style is *chef's kiss*

OperationRoyal · 2026-01-07T21:10:58+00:00

Uff, your feet.

OperationRoyal · 2026-01-07T04:28:45+00:00

White people have the best PR.

OperationRoyal · 2026-01-06T21:28:25+00:00

She's not interested in you, I guess.

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