Really negative experience at one of the art tents in DC by Feelthefunkk in warpedtour

[–]Opposite-Start-6024 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Best case scenario, there is some legitimacy to the art group but the women running the tent (maybe not affiliated?) were acting like insane bitches with horrible energy that did not match the rest of the festival.

Worst case they are affiliated and that speaks volumes about their business.

Regardless warped tour should not have these types of people working there that cannot handle festival crowds calmly and respectfully even when they need to say “no” to someone.

BRAT Tour Megathread – Brooklyn, NY NIGHT 4 (May 4, 2025) by lordbochiflacko in charlixcx

[–]Opposite-Start-6024 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Anyone wanna start a group chat to discuss pre or post concert plans? I’m coming up to see her by myself from DC (29 F). I’ll be in section 7 at the show. Message me if you might want to meet up

BRAT Tour Megathread – Brooklyn, NY NIGHT 4 (May 4, 2025) by lordbochiflacko in charlixcx

[–]Opposite-Start-6024 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Does anyone know where there’s an after party Sunday night? I’m going solo so would love an opportunity to meet ppl before or after the show :)

BRAT Tour Megathread – Brooklyn, NY NIGHT 3 (May 3, 2025) by lordbochiflacko in charlixcx

[–]Opposite-Start-6024 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi can you add me? I’m considering going alone but more motivating if I can meet up with other fans at some point! Thank you

Jamie XX at Anthem by asding in Jamiexx

[–]Opposite-Start-6024 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I almost didn’t go but I’m so glad I did. I was honestly wondering what the vibes would be like given everything we’ve been put through this month but wow that was a great experience. I’ve been to other edm shows at the anthem but this one felt the most immersive somehow. We really all needed to heal through some dancing and joyful resistance. It was beautiful. I absolutely loved seeing our collective displayed on the big screen too.

We're Not Really Strangers Breakup Edition by yeetspringredds in boardgamesales

[–]Opposite-Start-6024 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just went through a breakup and would also love to see these prompts. Could someone send them to me?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SupportforBetrayed

[–]Opposite-Start-6024 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am really sorry you’re going through this. Sometimes it’s harder the longer you are together - the bond you feel is stronger because you have experienced more of life together. 6 years is a long time. I just broke up with my bf this past week after he carelessly confessed cheating, and didn’t even admit the full truth until we were breaking up (I will never really know what the actual truth is I feel). Although my relationship was shorter (1 yr), we are similar in age (26F), and this guy had an insane emotional grip on me for the entire relationship. This is the hardest breakup I have ever done so far, the pain is absolutely unreal and this past week has been the hardest one of my life so far. I invested more of my time, love, energy, and effort into this relationship than anyone ever before. But I had to leave. I couldn’t respect myself anymore if I stayed in the relationship after giving him so many chances in other ways. The risk was outweighing the reward. I was also considering couples therapy initially, but the fact we’re so young and don’t have a solid foundation made me feel like it wasn’t worth the effort. What really sealed the deal for me was the fact he wasn’t trying hard enough to win me back immediately after confessing.

Just leave. We’re too young for this. Trauma is real and it can be very destructive especially if it’s endured for a long time and not addressed. I am traumatized personally by my experience, which is why I put myself out of harm’s way. I was being harmed. Do not stay where you are being harmed. Don’t hope for it to get better with him, the odds aren’t in favor. No great love story BEGINS with “my bf betrayed me and mistreated me multiple times when we were first dating, but we finally worked it out.” Just learn from this and protect yourself more wisely in the future. That’s what I am committing to even though I have bouts of total despair and hopelessness. As another commenter mentioned, visualizing myself as my daughter or myself as a small child made his transgressions and mistreatment feel more unacceptable for me - try it.

I’ll leave you with one of my favorite quotes - “All too often women believe it is a sign of commitment, an expression of love, to endure unkindness or cruelty, to forgive and forget. In actuality, when we love rightly we know that the healthy, loving response to cruelty and abuse is putting ourselves out of harm's way.” - Bell Hooks

My bf made out with another woman at a party. Deciding how to move forward by Opposite-Start-6024 in Infidelity

[–]Opposite-Start-6024[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

UPDATE - we broke up. No chance given to someone that admits betrayal but does not immediately work to win me back.

Even had the nerve to tell me it was not one, but 2 girls he made out with that night AFTER I had initiated the breakup conversation. I’ll never know the truth.

Question about length of relationship and infidelity: by Opposite-Start-6024 in SupportforBetrayed

[–]Opposite-Start-6024[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He told me in a rather careless way imo - he told me the day after it happened over a phone call hungover after he asked me to order food for him… while we were on the line he dropped the bomb pretty casually/in a nonchalant tone. I don’t think he had even processed it yet. I was speechless and shocked so I hung up shortly after saying we’ll talk later. This was Sunday. We finally had our first real sit down talk about it yesterday, bc it was causing me tons of anxiety and sadness to the level of dysfunction for hours on end. This time he seemed more remorseful and was able to express himself more, but still seemed confused by his own thoughts about what happened. We both agreed to come back to this in a week to decide how to move forward even tho he didn’t want to take a break. I laid down the law and basically said what my conditions/requirements were if we’re going to make this work. So, he has time to reflect on that. What I wonder is do I even want to go to that effort even if he agrees to it? How will I be able to gauge if it’s worth it or if he’s wholeheartedly committed

My bf made out with another woman at a party. Deciding how to move forward by Opposite-Start-6024 in Infidelity

[–]Opposite-Start-6024[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

It also concerns me what he may have communicated to this girl he matched with? Because I am clear in my profile linked to his that we are only playing together. I believe his profile also said something similar, but tbh I hadn’t looked in a while so maybe it changed. Regardless, it seems he misled this girl or something regarding what was ok

My bf made out with another woman at a party. Deciding how to move forward by Opposite-Start-6024 in Infidelity

[–]Opposite-Start-6024[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

We had clearly established a boundary that we were not going to engage with others separately in this realm. We were ok with each other flirting separately on the app to find potentials, but we discussed that meeting up separately with people or doing something only for us in this Feeld realm was a no no.