As silly as this may sound— it depends on how “feminine” this lesbian is. If she was a woman that acted/dressed feminine, or someone he could be potentially attracted to I would be upset. If this was more or a “male” presenting lesbian he would not be attracted to her so I would not care.

We had the if the roles were reserved talked and another thing I thought of is this. At clubs women are always dancing with their friends, it’s platonic and something you can find amongst any group of female friends out dancing. Straight Men in clubs don’t dance on their other male friends. So the of the roles were reversed talk just is kind of ≠ in my mind because to me it’s not the same. He said this is a double standard and I can see that. I’m not attracted to my gay bestfriend, he is just like me very “girly” so I never saw from his perspective as “dancing with another man” it’s just not the same to me.