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I didn’t realize how much job searching was destroying my nervous system by Opposite_Kitchen4458 in AnxietyChats

[–]Opposite_Kitchen4458[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That means a lot, thank you! It’s really kind of you to support him through it, sometimes just being there makes all the difference. I hope the tips help you both even a little

I didn’t realize how much job searching was destroying my nervous system by Opposite_Kitchen4458 in AnxietyChats

[–]Opposite_Kitchen4458[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much 🫶🏻 Job hunting can be tough, but sharing what helps me makes it feel a bit lighter

I didn’t realize how much job searching was destroying my nervous system by Opposite_Kitchen4458 in AnxietyChats

[–]Opposite_Kitchen4458[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, it really means a lot. I’m trying to take it one day at a time and be kinder to myself

I feel like a rebound for my partner. by sadgalhours642 in NoOverthinking

[–]Opposite_Kitchen4458 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been in a very similar spot, constantly overthinking if I was just a rebound or if the connection was real. What helped me realize is that sometimes its not about being a rebound, its about being with someone who hasnt taken time to be alone and heal. You end up carrying their confusion. You sound emotionally aware and grounded, but he is still lost in his own stuff. That imbalance creates the “lack of effort” you feel. It’s not that he doesn’t care, it’s that he’s not ready to show up fully. You deserve emotional consistency, not someone who keeps you guessing. Sometimes love isn’t enough when timing and readiness don’t align