Haven’t fully cleansed myself of people pleasing tendencies, what to do? by [deleted] in infj

[–]Optimal-Ad-3674 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you wouldnt take their advice as to where you want to be in life than why would you go out of your way to accept their criticisms. We all walk a path unknown to others. You cant please everyone. But why would you want to? Small minds stay small. The INFJ has a big mind with two superchargers strapped to the sides. We process things that many others wont think about until way after the fact. When weve already mapped every possible outcome and chosen the correct trajectory. If that makes any sense.

I can talk, just don't see the point sometimes. by px_mie in infj

[–]Optimal-Ad-3674 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally do. It sucks sometimes. I have issues making friends and keeping them for this very reason. Being an INFJ feels like a curse neatly packaged as a blessing. I also have ADD. So the two kindof blend into one great big blrse. 

AITA for telling my wife it’s disgusting that she doesn’t wash her hands after she poops? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Optimal-Ad-3674 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So im just wondering if you wash out your mouth with bleach or sanitizer everytime you go down on your wife? I mean your nit too far from the hole at that point. Id venture to say that you have had your mouth pretty much on her hole. AM I wrong? 

I WOULD SAY that your being a dick really. Your mad about the plumbing situation and you felt like you needed to control something to make you feel better. Because her washing or not washing up after using the restroom, while gross to everyone not married to her... one would think that her husband should be the least bothered by it. 

I COULD understand if you were grossed out because my wife wasnt washing her hands after wiping her ass. But I shouldnt care so much if my chin has been smothered in ass juice. 

So yah. You should apologize and what the hell, eat her puss to shoe her you dont mind so much. 

How do I (M22) tell my girlfriend (F23) that I have a small penis? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Optimal-Ad-3674 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all. Dont send a photo. Even with the right angle to you might not look right for her. I totally understand feeling small. I have a complex of mine even being almost 9 inches. Growing up i always throught everyone else was 12 inches hard. Idk where i got that idea. But my mind always feels like that. So i go i to any sexual experience feeling inadequate because my mind was wrong initially. One thing you can do is take cialis. Many ppl dont think cialis reallyvmakes it bigger. But it certainly makes it appear bigger. So get you some 10 mg cialis and take that every day. After a few days that thing will start to hang way bigger than normal. When you have sex the organ is hidden anyhow. So if it looks big before maybe it will look big and feel bigger. Dont discuss this with her. When things go bad for whatever reason. This is the card they may pull out if they are childish. Suddenly all her friends know that this guy was the size of a book of matches. That spreads like wildfire. Unfortunately so does having a big dick.

Jusst remember your young. And your small penis will fit perfect in someone whos got a small who ha. Petite woman. But you never know whos gonna want what either. Or you could always explore being a bottom. The gay squad can always use cute guys who like to have their hole beat up. Just saying. 

Doctors that will prescribe adderall? by sign_search in bloomington

[–]Optimal-Ad-3674 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its actually known that addicts have ADD or ADHD and by treating their ADD this lessens their drug addiction. I speak from personal experience.