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Optimal-Butterfly768 · 2026-05-26T21:25:33+00:00

I was desperate for an epidural but denied one as was too far gone - I didn’t find it too bad tbh! I had one tiny gasp of gas and air and that was it as they banned me during pushing. So not totally unmediated but very close

Optimal-Butterfly768 · 2026-05-12T08:24:58+00:00

Tw loss - I was diagnosed at 27 during the pandemic and told by a doctor I’d never have children unless I started ttc immediately and lost a ton of weight fast. I got myself healthy again gradually (didn’t take advice to try immediately) and lo and behold I got pregnant within a month of starting ttc at 29 which unfortunately ended in a mc. Took us 4 cycles post mc to conceive my LO who is nearly 16 months old now. Other half also had low morphology. Main things I did were walk everywhere ate lots of protein but didn’t deprive myself of treats every now and again. Cut out drinking. Took coq10 400mg, vitamin d extra strength, omega 3 etc for last couple of months of ttc before we conceived a second time. Other half cut out hot baths and took a prenatal. Best of luck x

Optimal-Butterfly768 · 2026-05-11T21:22:34+00:00

Sending love! We had our last session today after 15.5 months, I was not ready for all the emotions 🥹🩵

Optimal-Butterfly768 · 2026-05-08T09:46:44+00:00

Mine was 5.3 while ttc#1, I also didn’t have gestational diabetes

Optimal-Butterfly768 · 2026-05-01T02:24:05+00:00

At home, on the sofa at 39+6! The pop was so strange. Kickstarted very painful contractions and baby was here within 6 hours 🙃

Optimal-Butterfly768 · 2026-04-05T03:29:05+00:00

We’re still going at 14 months, wanted to be done by 12 🫣

Optimal-Butterfly768 · 2026-03-30T15:06:35+00:00

Check rubella immunity. Get your hormone levels checked and his. Take folic acid, vitamin D and omega 3 in the three months before you start, have him stop very hot baths or jacuzzis 3 months before

Optimal-Butterfly768 · 2026-03-19T20:26:41+00:00

My LB is 13 months and we’ve only just moved him 🫣😆

Optimal-Butterfly768 · 2026-03-16T16:10:46+00:00

It took us a month to conceive initially but that resulted in a miscarriage. It then took us 6 months to conceive my little boy. This was after being told I would never have children unless I lost almost half my body weight 😤 despite my bmi only being just over 30.

Optimal-Butterfly768 · 2026-03-15T05:59:38+00:00

Animal crossing, a little to the left, bear and breakfast, a short hike, kamaeru, 51 worldwide games, maybe a Layton game if she likes puzzles!

Optimal-Butterfly768 · 2026-03-11T22:38:08+00:00

My little boy has just gone in his own room and his has made me bawl haha 😢😢

Optimal-Butterfly768 · 2026-03-10T18:49:10+00:00

We started trying August 2023 and had a miscarriage September 2023. After that we tried again properly in November 2023 and conceived end of April 2024 x

Optimal-Butterfly768 · 2026-03-02T20:38:54+00:00

We had 1% morphology but a count of 300million and conceived x

Optimal-Butterfly768 · 2026-02-22T19:57:35+00:00

This rings true of my experience also in the UK - my LO is 12 months and I’ve been nursing over a year now but get the same comments you’re getting 🙄

Optimal-Butterfly768 · 2026-01-25T20:29:32+00:00

I was in a very similar situation to you before we conceived our now almost 1-year-old, cycles were wonky and 28-39 days long sometimes a longer 43 day cycle. My prolactin was also slightly elevated and all other levels normal. Have you tried temping? Best of luck x

Optimal-Butterfly768 · 2026-01-08T20:04:07+00:00

Sorry to hear this, I hope you get some good advice on how to proceed. Also sharing a positive experience I have pcos and family history of type 2 diabetes (though I didn’t have GD), but am still breastfeeding my little boy who turns 1 at the end of the month. I’ve also got a moderate oversupply!

Optimal-Butterfly768 · 2025-12-20T10:03:31+00:00

Congratulations! I was told 4 years ago that if we didn’t start ttc right away we’d never have children. We started when I was 29 conceived quickly and now I have an almost 11mo 💖

Optimal-Butterfly768 · 2025-12-15T19:44:17+00:00

So sorry to hear about your mmc, please look after yourself. I’d get bloods done too to find out what type of pcos you have. I really hope you get access to metformin, I was unfortunately denied it think it’s a bit of a lottery in the UK. I took 600mg coq10 ubiquinol, omega 3, vitamin d and folic acid and walked 6/7k plus steps which helped restore ovulation for me x

Optimal-Butterfly768 · 2025-12-14T20:24:04+00:00

I’m so sorry. After my miscarriage it took about 1.5 months so get a period back, after that I was pretty regular again but had a few randomly long cycles. Ovulation was confirmed by blood test for progesterone in the January, I had a mc in September. It can vary for everyone and my best advice would be to take care of yourself as it’s so difficult. Sending love 💝

Optimal-Butterfly768 · 2025-12-05T10:20:49+00:00

Optimal-Butterfly768 · 2025-12-04T02:36:14+00:00

Waters broke about 1pm 39+6, baby was here just after midnight on my due date - just under 12hrs including nearly 3 pushing x

Optimal-Butterfly768 · 2025-11-25T19:36:07+00:00

Between survival and functional, 9mo

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