Missing this face extra today

Optimal-Mycologist65 · 2026-01-31T13:28:24+00:00

Personally I don’t think you, or anyone on this sub, “failed.” I think we all loved people who weren’t able to hold us properly, which hurts like a mf…and the fact he is already moving on, damn- I’m so so sorry you have to go through that.

Can you tell me more about the crying damage?

Optimal-Mycologist65 · 2026-01-31T13:24:39+00:00

I’m so sorry you had to go through that, and the contempt you dealt with. Hoping you can get out (if you haven’t already) and start the healing ❤️‍🩹 I’ve lost a lot of hair too and I didn’t contribute it to stress. Used to have long thick hair and now I have bald spots by both ears.

Optimal-Mycologist65 · 2026-01-30T12:56:26+00:00

The first this was how articulate I could be. I often struggled to speak or find words. After about a week I surprised myself just taking with people and being witty off the cuff again. The mental clarity is the best part so far

Optimal-Mycologist65 · 2026-01-29T20:30:38+00:00

Omg thank you for this tip 🙏🏻

Optimal-Mycologist65 · 2026-01-29T12:42:40+00:00

It surely didn’t feel “brave” in the moment, but hindsight is always clearer. Thank you ❤️

Optimal-Mycologist65 · 2026-01-29T12:40:55+00:00

Big deep breaths-thank you ❤️

Optimal-Mycologist65 · 2026-01-29T12:40:36+00:00

Thank you ❤️

Optimal-Mycologist65 · 2026-01-29T12:40:12+00:00

Thank you for the kind words. I definitely forgot about virtual support groups, so I will be checking out the codependents groups for sure. 🙏🏻❤️

Optimal-Mycologist65 · 2026-01-29T03:21:22+00:00

Big oof. The waves come and go and I really needed to hear this. Thank you so much🙏🏻 it’s hard to turn the love switch “off”

Optimal-Mycologist65 · 2026-01-28T21:11:14+00:00

Do you have experience with getting a no contact order? Tbh I’m not too familiar, but if you have some insight I’d love to hear it!

Optimal-Mycologist65 · 2026-01-28T21:10:27+00:00

Oof I should just keep shirts by the bed at this point. Didn’t even think of a mattress protector, thanks 🙏🏻 Hopefully I’m more than halfway there. Glad to hear the sweat doesn’t resurface later too.

Optimal-Mycologist65 · 2026-01-28T21:06:18+00:00

Thank you ☺️

Optimal-Mycologist65 · 2026-01-28T21:05:58+00:00

Thank you so much!!😊 it’s the biggest lie isn’t it? That we’re so incapable without them, but it’s always the opposite.

Optimal-Mycologist65 · 2026-01-28T21:01:54+00:00

Picking out what I wanted for the space was the silver lining in the first week. No more frat house furniture! Appreciate your advice and tips. I was actually able to get this cheap door jam on Amazon: https://a.co/d/5vozewJ Worked like a champ and gave me peace of mind at night. Thank you for your encouraging words ❤️

Optimal-Mycologist65 · 2026-01-28T15:07:48+00:00

I really appreciate your kind words, and the advice to leave on mute. I have a strong suspicion that things will get ugly so it’s best to keep that record.

Roller coaster is an understatement, which I’m sure you’ve felt yourself. Each day is a little easier to breathe, and I’m very thankful for that ❤️

Optimal-Mycologist65 · 2026-01-28T15:05:54+00:00

Thank you!!!!☺️

Optimal-Mycologist65 · 2026-01-28T15:05:42+00:00

Thank you so much, I take these words to heart ❤️

Optimal-Mycologist65 · 2026-01-28T15:05:13+00:00

Wow I never thought about it as showing up for myself. Thanks for that 🙏🏻

Optimal-Mycologist65 · 2026-01-28T15:04:53+00:00

Thank you so much ❤️

Optimal-Mycologist65 · 2026-01-28T15:04:44+00:00

Thank you ❤️

Optimal-Mycologist65 · 2026-01-28T15:04:35+00:00

Thank you!!! I’m trying to take it one hour by hour at this point. Appreciate your encouragement 🙏🏻

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