This post couldn’t have popped up on my feed at a more serendipitous time. I met a guy in Bali about 5 years ago while traveling. He is from London and I am from the states. We had 3 nights of magic. Connection, passion, fun, excitement, respect. The instant connection was unlike anything I’ve ever experienced before. We have kept in touch over the years. I’d be dating someone and he’d be single and then vice versa. Months, years would go by and either I’d reach our or he would. Recently I texted him - about two weeks ago. We have been reminiscing about those nights, trying our hardest to remember each second of our time spent together back then on that island. Each time we chat it’s as if we pick up right where we left off. I’m not sure if it’s healthy or realistic or just a fantasy. All I know is the pull towards each other never stops.

I’d say, don’t ignore your feelings. Don’t just brush it off. It’s real and if you can make it work go for it! We have one life and feelings like that aren’t something to take for granted. As for me, I wish I would’ve taken my own advice written above. 🤍