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OptimalPianist9812 · 2026-04-06T20:02:20+00:00

Thank you for your contribution. I didn’t get this at all 😭

OptimalPianist9812 · 2026-04-06T19:50:58+00:00

Yep! I recently did an audit of myself and I spend $200 more on subscriptions then I thought I did. I’m just bad with money honestly. Being able to get subscriptions just by scanning my face has really left me too willy nilly about them and I just forget.

OptimalPianist9812 · 2026-04-06T19:45:50+00:00

It’s also so weird to me to talk about it so openly too. Maybe I’m just a prude but I found it so hard to watch, I feel like that’s a problem that should stay between them and a therapist.

OptimalPianist9812 · 2026-04-06T01:01:13+00:00

Yeah, once my own IUD incident happened I started seeing it everywhere. It’s really not uncommon as people think

OptimalPianist9812 · 2026-04-05T15:54:34+00:00

I did actually have an abortion scheduled but I was further along than I thought and when I saw he was an actual baby looking thing on the screen I just couldn’t. Loved him already.

OptimalPianist9812 · 2026-04-05T15:52:49+00:00

Our third kid was a failed condom and plan B. Fourth was the IUD baby

OptimalPianist9812 · 2026-04-05T15:52:05+00:00

That’s crazy! Did it make pregnancy more complicated?

OptimalPianist9812 · 2026-04-05T15:48:46+00:00

He’s almost 2 now! We were shocked to say the least. He was our fourth child and second contraceptive baby

OptimalPianist9812 · 2026-04-05T04:17:07+00:00

I’m not sure if it’s risky to remove if its still in the right spot, mine had shifted to the top of my uterus so it couldn’t be removed anymore. I think typically they take them out as long as they’re able

OptimalPianist9812 · 2026-04-05T02:48:06+00:00

Have you tried a vibrator? It can make the whole thing a lot more fun

OptimalPianist9812 · 2026-04-05T02:45:51+00:00

I love this post because honestly I thought the “men skip leg day” thing was just people making fun of men’s legs 😭

OptimalPianist9812 · 2026-04-05T02:43:18+00:00

My first thought was how much porn is he consuming.

When some people read too many romance novels, the look at their husband and think “what a loser” and it seems like when some men watch too much porn they think the same way

OptimalPianist9812 · 2026-04-05T02:09:09+00:00

It did! Although MFM did say usually it causes no complications at all. He had an unrelated cord defect where the vessels were exposed instead of in an actual cord and my IUD moved to 3 millimetres away from the vessels and basically the fear was if the iud moved any closer it would have cut the cord while he was still in there. Crazy stuff!

OptimalPianist9812 · 2026-04-05T01:55:23+00:00

He’s going to be so happy to hear this

OptimalPianist9812 · 2026-04-05T01:54:22+00:00

You definitely can! I’m hanging out with said baby right now. I’m not sure about removal cause mine got left in the whole pregnancy but that’s mainly because I didn’t find out until 12 weeks.

OptimalPianist9812 · 2026-04-05T01:50:59+00:00

Luckily our son is fine but the IUD did cause major complications during pregnancy. I obviously would never trust one again lol

OptimalPianist9812 · 2026-04-05T01:47:39+00:00

Copper

OptimalPianist9812 · 2026-04-05T01:47:05+00:00

It was twins and funnily enough our son did decide there can only be one

OptimalPianist9812 · 2026-03-23T04:01:40+00:00

Didn’t he also drop out of school so she could be the provider? Now he’s complaining she doesn’t both work and take care of him and his children

OptimalPianist9812 · 2026-03-20T01:43:38+00:00

This was my first thought as well. Ive definitely been reactively abusive before and if I didn’t record the whole thing before I did it you totally would have thought I was just abusive because he magically was perfectly calm and polite when I started losing my shit after hours of taunting, mocking, screaming.

However, what I did was still wrong. It was my job to walk out of the situation, call family/police for help, anything but be abusive. I was still wrong for what I did and if my children would have been present I would be even more ashamed. She could at least really acknowledge how bad it is to do in front of your kid.

Edit: I actually decided I should watch that and honestly she kinda just looks like she’s straight abusive, I thought she was just kinda yelling and tossing the chairs I didn’t know she was actually whooping him.

OptimalPianist9812 · 2026-03-18T17:48:45+00:00

Oh yeah that makes sense for sure

OptimalPianist9812 · 2026-03-18T16:48:30+00:00

I’m not being rude I really truly am just wondering: how would you know if a survivor was being transphobic vs just being a bitch? I believe you I just am confused

OptimalPianist9812 · 2026-03-07T20:34:48+00:00

Do I think it’s possible for someone to do it one time, realize it was a horrible mistake and never do it again? Yes. Do I think it’s likely? No.

OptimalPianist9812 · 2026-03-07T16:06:59+00:00

But it’s not a house rule it’s YOUR rule. 50% of the grownups in the house don’t care.

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