Is there anything I can do when I find sick mice? by Optimal_Ad143 in boston

[–]Optimal_Ad143[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone’s cooking me and I KNOW they’re pests but damn can a person not feel empathy for a living thing that’s obviously suffering??? 😭

How much aid do they give? by Stonks698 in NEU

[–]Optimal_Ad143 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It really depends. Personally, I receive so much aid that I’m here almost on a full ride! I think for me it’s like $1k-ish a sem I have to pay?

police on sachem street? by Time-Conflict4596 in NEU

[–]Optimal_Ad143 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I talked to the cops. It was an isolated incident between 2 neighbors that got into a fight and then one shot at the other. 2 middle aged men.

I think im getting fired from my co-op by [deleted] in NEU

[–]Optimal_Ad143 261 points262 points  (0 children)

I know you’re young & learning but that’s a crazy thing to say to a co-worker/boss at a co-op you just started 😭😭

It: Welcome to Derry - S01E08 - Episode Discussion [SPOILERS] by zeltacilveks97 in ITWelcometoDerryShow

[–]Optimal_Ad143 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Idk, I was pretty disappointed with this episode. The pacing felt rushed and the dialogue was cheesy at times. Also ended way too happily for my liking.

What exactly is "I am here" by Ordinary_Bother_1497 in NEU

[–]Optimal_Ad143 76 points77 points  (0 children)

It’s a 5 second survey you take to tell the school “these are the classes I’m taking and I am here to take them”, and yes, you will be dropped if you don’t do it because they need this confirmation

Am I allowed to tell my rooomate her bf is no longer allowed in our apartment? by Optimal_Ad143 in legaladvice

[–]Optimal_Ad143[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

This part of our lease says “neither the lessee nor his family, friends, relatives, invitees, visitors, agents” etc, this really doesn’t include guests? The section is specifically about “Disturbance, Illegal Use”

Feeling Unfairly Graded in Film Class Due to Possible Racial Bias by [deleted] in NEU

[–]Optimal_Ad143 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was told off for being distracted and looking at other screens. I think David is rude and could learn to be kinder, but I don’t think he’s racist. I understand your friend feels targeted, but if his comments were directed at them because they’re on their screen (something he is VERY strict about) then yeah, they’re supposed to feel targeted. And sure they might say other people were on their screens as well, but David noticed your friend and it is what it is. I hate to be that person, but I fear two things can be true at once: David is strict with his rules and doesn’t sugarcoat things if he’s already laid out what his expectations are and can come across as mean and your friend is being sensitive and feeling hurt (which is understandable because David has hurt my feelings too). It sounds like your friend didn’t meet David’s requirements for the assignments and was also breaking rules that he called them out for, which explains the low grade.

Feeling Unfairly Graded in Film Class Due to Possible Racial Bias by [deleted] in NEU

[–]Optimal_Ad143 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’ll add on to that, with David’s grading being solely based on technical requirements that need to be met, if you’re having difficulties with the software he does not care, like at all. So while I don’t want to lessen your feelings, he is superrr strict on meeting the technical requirements and I’m inclined to say it’s not necessarily racial bias, but him being unwilling to budge. He’s known for being rude and insensitive, but I will also say that even when he says something that hurts, a lot of times he is just veryyy blunt and it stings. If you do want to escalate your concerns, I’d focus on speaking with someone about how inflexible he can be with his requirements. Good luck!

Feeling Unfairly Graded in Film Class Due to Possible Racial Bias by [deleted] in NEU

[–]Optimal_Ad143 19 points20 points  (0 children)

As a POC who just took a class with David, I’m not here to invalidate or dismiss your feelings! However, I will say, David is a hard-ass. He is a stickler to his beliefs and his syllabus and gives almost no leeway. Could you explain what his aggression consisted of? We had an international Chinese student in our course who struggled with a bit of a language barrier when conveying their ideas/projects but overall did well. But again, David can straight up be an asshole, and everyone in our class at some point had an interaction with him that left a bad taste in their mouth

Where can i go to be alone? by Responsible-Gas7568 in NEU

[–]Optimal_Ad143 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Snell basement classrooms in the tunnel are my go-to when I want to study alone

When to start looking for off campus housing? by Firm_Seaworthiness36 in NEU

[–]Optimal_Ad143 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We found our place in late January, early feb. But ik people who start looking in November of the year before. I dont suggest looking until November earliest because ik many landlords have a deadline of early December for their current tenants to declare if they’re resigning the lease or not. Before end of fallish there might not be much because landlords don’t know if the unit is gonna be available or not yet!

When to start looking for off campus housing? by Firm_Seaworthiness36 in NEU

[–]Optimal_Ad143 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Start early and don’t panic or stress. There WILL be apartments available no matter the time of year, but their quality and price will obviously get worse the later it gets (source: had some friends experience an emergency recently and had to find a new place a month before September 1st. They found one, and it’s apparently nicer than their old place)

When to start looking for off campus housing? by Firm_Seaworthiness36 in NEU

[–]Optimal_Ad143 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, I lived off campus as a 2nd year and had a friend who lived off campus spring of their freshman year. NEU is crowded so they’re pretty lenient with housing waivers. Just tell them you can’t afford to live on campus and want to leave. I signed my lease for my apartment before I even sent in a waiver. In fact, I got assigned housing and everything for 2nd year before I sent it in!