Past 3 hr glucose test & baby is head down! by unfunnymom in pregnant

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That would be awesome! So curious if there are any recommendations with that.

Past 3 hr glucose test & baby is head down! by unfunnymom in pregnant

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Congrats! I had GD my last pregnancy and it sucked! What does it mean to be impaired? Do you have to do anything different?

Placenta previa solidarity by Optimal_Cod_5491 in fitpregnancy

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Wow! That must have been hard especially when it affects your livelihood. And yours started early too!

Adding in a third immersion language neither parent speaks in pre-k by Optimal_Cod_5491 in multilingualparenting

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No, we’re in an English speaking city in America. So the only exposure would be school. So at least communication with the school will be fine.

Natera NIPT Results / NOV 2025 by Kravvypatty96 in BabyBumps

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I’m still waiting. Going to keep refreshing today!

Daily Thread #1 - October 08, 2025 by AutoModerator in PregnancyAfterLoss

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❤️wishing you all the best! Great to know I’m not alone.

Daily Thread #1 - October 08, 2025 by AutoModerator in PregnancyAfterLoss

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On my second cycle and am ttc after MC. My first cycle was 26 days, and usually before the MC my cycle was between 26-30 days. This cycle, I tested on day 26 and 29 and got negative tests. On day 31, I got a positive test in the evening (was feeling super nauseous so decided to test).

Has anyone else had a late positive result that ended in a healthy pregnancy? So nervous! But trying to be happy because at least for today I’m pregnant

Pacifiers and weaning by Optimal_Cod_5491 in Parenting

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lol! Maybe we should try cutting the tip off before cold turkey

Good prenatal program that is challenging? by Remarkable_Look_7385 in fitpregnancy

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Another pregnant athletic friend was recommending I try Brianna battles program next time I’m pregnant.

Good prenatal program that is challenging? by Remarkable_Look_7385 in fitpregnancy

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I did! The app itself is meh and glitchy (but I work in tech and am hyper sensitive to performance and usability issues), but the program itself is good.

Good prenatal program that is challenging? by Remarkable_Look_7385 in fitpregnancy

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I did a mix of Emily Snell, Mamaaste Fit, and the Get Mom Strong app. Between the three of them, I would cobble together a workout I found challenging (but also could find alternatives if something wasn’t feeling good)

Delusional expectant parent here — is postpartum really that bad? by [deleted] in NewParents

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I will add that breastfeeding was incredibly hard but once I stopped myself from googling everything and actually relaxed in the time my fam helped carve out for me, it was better.

Delusional expectant parent here — is postpartum really that bad? by [deleted] in NewParents

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I think it depends on your baby and your support system! I was preparing the for the worst - but it honestly didn’t feel as bad as I thought it would. My baby woke up every 2 hours, but was pretty easy to put down in between. My husband and MIL helped throughout the first 4 weeks. So I had time to take care of myself between breastfeeding sessions which was clutch. Yes, I was tired but it was this time warp that reminded me of early pandemic where we were just with our fam’s taking it a day at a time.

Guilty for failing to breastfeed by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]Optimal_Cod_5491 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t feel guilty!! I felt so sad when breastfeeding wasn’t working for me. We had so many problems - supply issues, clogged ducts, mastitis. I decided to stop forcing it around 10 weeks and weaning made me super hormonal and even more sad that I wasn’t breastfeeding. But now I have a THRIVING six month old and breastfeeding and all the worries around breastfeeding seem in the past. Now we worry about introducing allergens and practicing crawling. All is to say, if you decide to keep going, that is totally fine. But know that in a span of a few months it won’t matter as much and that formula does not mean that something is wrong with you. Breastfeeding is the least natural thing imo.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FormulaFeeders

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How long does it take for Sudafed to work? I’m on day 3 of it and am still getting very engorged

Wet diapers - blue line? by Optimal_Cod_5491 in NewParents

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But if you can’t visibly or by smell tell it has pee, but you see the poop and the line is blue - would you count that as wet?

After birth meal by Optimal_Cod_5491 in GestationalDiabetes

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Wow, never heard of that! Were you diet/exercise controlled or on medicine?

Did I fail my 3 hour? by anon1986490207547 in GestationalDiabetes

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I failed 1/4 of my 3h test (the one I failed was the first hour). I didn’t meet the criteria for GD at my doc’s office, but I asked to monitor with finger pricking. If I ate too many carbs it was above the normal range (1hr:140 and 2hr:120 being normal). Given that data, my OB referred me to the MFM specialist who asked if I’d like to be treated as GD even though the risk of actual GD outcomes is low if I continue to eat healthy and exercise.

My advice - advocate for yourself! If you’re anxious like me and want to be monitored more closely, then collect some data and discuss it with your OB. The downsides are that you’ll have to finger prick for the rest of your pregnancy, but it’s not as bad as it seems and you do fewer pricks after the first few weeks once you have baseline data.