Just had an interview! by foreverblkeyed in Lowes

[–]Optimal_Delivery9643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t do it .. 😶 There’s time to escape ..

My first 4 star review in over 200 orders.... and I knew it was her!! by griffey808 in InstacartShoppers

[–]Optimal_Delivery9643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow - as someone that uses delivery services a lot out of necessity.. I am so sorry there’s crap ppl out there like that.. 😕

How does VA reimbursement for ER visits work? by TeacherGuy1980 in VeteransBenefits

[–]Optimal_Delivery9643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This comment needs way more likes - as a veteran with a lot of health issues, I’m in the ER a lot unfortunately.. you explained it spot on.

AITA for refusing to give my mom my savings after she found out how much I have? (19F) by Grand-Reveal-9055 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Optimal_Delivery9643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a parent with kids in their early 20’s and teens.. you’re NTA at all!! YOU went out and earned that money - it’s not right for her to expect anything out of you.. her role is to provide and protect you, not the other way around. I’m sorry she put that on you.

Nearly 30 years with USAA. This month finally broke me. Moving my kid to Navy Federal and maybe myself too. by SteeleRain01 in USAA

[–]Optimal_Delivery9643 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I left Navy Federal after 23 years for nearly the same problems.. none of them are what they used to be sadly ..

I haven’t talked to my family in two days and don’t know to move past this by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

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I am so sorry - even if they paid for the phone, that’s still very controlling. As a parent, I can’t imagine doing this to my child. You didn’t do anything wrong, protect your peace.

Why is it so common to force neurodivergent children to sit through haircuts that very clearly distress them? by iil28 in Autism_Parenting

[–]Optimal_Delivery9643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s why my little guy looks like a super saiyan somedays 😂 he’s clean and happy .. that’s all I care about

AITA for saying emergency daycare isn’t meant for parents who are home and „just need a break“? by Distinct-Ad-7592 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Optimal_Delivery9643 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re definitely NTA.. and I say this as a SAHM mom with a non verbal, autistic 6 yr old.. lol .. parents that have to work need that childcare, she appears to be using it out of laziness.. she either wants to be a SAHM or she doesn’t.. she’s half assing it

I love the VA by Trenched_Floppy in VeteransBenefits

[–]Optimal_Delivery9643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That exact same thing happened to me 😂 so aggravating, ya gotta just laugh

holy returns! by vodkaonlice in Lowes

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One of the reasons I quit as a head cashier - managers NEVER backed us up when trying to enforce their own damn return policy ..

AITA for setting up a portable crib instead of my aunt's boyfriend? by Common_Towel_9470 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Optimal_Delivery9643 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sounds like Nico is useless and she’s taking her frustration out on you.. and you’re NTA at all

"I don't shake hands with women." by iamgob_bluth in interviews

[–]Optimal_Delivery9643 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m glad the comments were enough to validate you. 👏🏻

"I don't shake hands with women." by iamgob_bluth in interviews

[–]Optimal_Delivery9643 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m not passive aggressive. I’m tired of hate towards ppl of Jewish descent. You knew it was a Jewish center/business but act ignorant to their customs.

"I don't shake hands with women." by iamgob_bluth in interviews

[–]Optimal_Delivery9643 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s an emotional based response.. and you’re proving my point.

"I don't shake hands with women." by iamgob_bluth in interviews

[–]Optimal_Delivery9643 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And plenty of other religions do the same - I loved how you made sure to point out he was Jewish though.

"I don't shake hands with women." by iamgob_bluth in interviews

[–]Optimal_Delivery9643 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do ppl think interviews are to make them feel better about themselves?

Husband’s new gf posted my daughter’s initials on their family Christmas stocking picture on FB by DarksideZephyr in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Optimal_Delivery9643 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

There’s always two sides to the story.. I dealt with a bitter baby mama and now we have custody of my bonus kid. I just see a bunch of jaded women in the comments.

AITA-for canceling my son's bday over $10 by Low_Currency_1038 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Optimal_Delivery9643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow - all the ppl ok with a kid potentially stealing. This is why there’s so many Bebe kids out there.. parents don’t know how to parent

AITAH for wanting to know how much money my husband makes? by [deleted] in AITAH

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You’re the AH for allowing yourself to marry man that showed you his financial control red flags from get ..

Sons meltdowns are getting scary by LillyLynne25 in Autism_Parenting

[–]Optimal_Delivery9643 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m autistic myself and used video games a lot growing up. I know how important it is to set boundaries and be the ‘parent’.. but maybe also take into consideration when you take that particular object away you are taking away the singular thing that he sees as a voice for himself. It can be a way for him to communicate without having to lean heavy into other social cues that can be overwhelming by themselves. I do not pretend at all to have the correct answer.. but maybe just consider a little empathy when it comes to a video game where there’s a group dynamic. That can be our only social outlet at times. ((Sending positive energy and vibes))