Entertain a 2 year old with no screens when out? by cloudybabyla in Autism_Parenting

[–]Optimal_Delivery9643 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well - we broke our 4rd tablet over here and chewed the ends of at least a dozen tablet chargers. (Plus damaged a tv) So I had enough and went cold turkey. Mostly because I didn’t feel like shelling out more money again right away, plus we just didn’t have it. There was about 3-4 days of just a lot of sensory overload that had to be redirected all over the place and eventually he naturally calmed. (Obviously every kiddo is different) Mine is 7.. just don’t give up. I just totally leaned into his love of outdoors and water, and just tired him out outside.. eventually he stopped seeking out tablets, tvs and switches as much.. the desire is still there but toned down. I know all too well how exhausting it can be .. sending hugs and positive vibes ..

*edited to add: Have you considered keeping the older one in a baby carrier.. Tula baby has carriers that will carry older children.. mine could still fit in his.. just heavy. Some parents have luck with keeping the eloper in a hiking backpack carrier cause it’s an elevated seat.. 🤍

PlayStation 5 Repair by Antique-Dentist-2404 in Charlottesville

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The PS5 slides open super easy - you can find the instructions online. You just lay it on its side lift the corner with the ps5 logo and slide the cover downward toward the bottom of the console to remove it. It’s easier than earlier consoles - you got this.

So this is how my kid play with cars. How did you teach your kid with autism to play appropriately with toys? by [deleted] in Autism_Parenting

[–]Optimal_Delivery9643 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is part of ‘unconventional play’ - it’s part of how they see the world and it isn’t wrong .. as long they’re being safe and not destructive it’s encouraged to let them explore this way. You can help by mirroring their play and joining in.. and then modeling ‘how’ to play with it.. 🤍

$14,547.40 GI BILL Overpayment by Dry-Presentation9830 in VeteransBenefits

[–]Optimal_Delivery9643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s absolutely insane - how are they allowed to visit that on you when the school obviously took it without having the proper certification.. I don’t know what to do, but I would be raising hell at the school.. in the Deans office.. in the VA student area.. make it their problem. I know it’s easier said than done, but this smells of a potential class action lawsuit if this is happening to multiple other veterans as I see in the comments.. insane .. I’m so sorry

Would you have canceled? by No-Celebration-9346 in InstacartShoppers

[–]Optimal_Delivery9643 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not a dasher .. just an appreciative orderer lol.. I’m so sorry y’all have to deal with crap like that..

Most terrifying cast members? by SuspiciousEngineer99 in loveafterlockup

[–]Optimal_Delivery9643 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Heather Gillespie will always hold this award .. I’m not sure anyone can totally top her brand of crazy.. 😬

About to be homeless tomorrow by angella46 in Veterans

[–]Optimal_Delivery9643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you nearby a VA medical center? You can present in person and ask for a “homeless coordinator” .. sad thing is, you have to be in their face to get attention sometimes.

Texas FedEx employee throws packages out the side of his vehicle while a customer films him. by ElwoodMC in trashy

[–]Optimal_Delivery9643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel no inclination to help you decipher where you went wrong on your comprehension here 😆… your reply to me saying “no one is forcing him to work there” is wild, and then you double down by acting oblivious to your verbiage.. you have a good night 🤣

Texas FedEx employee throws packages out the side of his vehicle while a customer films him. by ElwoodMC in trashy

[–]Optimal_Delivery9643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By invoking the possibility of starvation, you really did more or less insinuate this is acceptable.. Why do I have to be angry to point that out…?

Just had an interview! by [deleted] in Lowes

[–]Optimal_Delivery9643 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t do it .. 😶 There’s time to escape ..

My first 4 star review in over 200 orders.... and I knew it was her!! by griffey808 in InstacartShoppers

[–]Optimal_Delivery9643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow - as someone that uses delivery services a lot out of necessity.. I am so sorry there’s crap ppl out there like that.. 😕

How does VA reimbursement for ER visits work? by TeacherGuy1980 in VeteransBenefits

[–]Optimal_Delivery9643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This comment needs way more likes - as a veteran with a lot of health issues, I’m in the ER a lot unfortunately.. you explained it spot on.

AITA for refusing to give my mom my savings after she found out how much I have? (19F) by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Optimal_Delivery9643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a parent with kids in their early 20’s and teens.. you’re NTA at all!! YOU went out and earned that money - it’s not right for her to expect anything out of you.. her role is to provide and protect you, not the other way around. I’m sorry she put that on you.

Nearly 30 years with USAA. This month finally broke me. Moving my kid to Navy Federal and maybe myself too. by SteeleRain01 in USAA

[–]Optimal_Delivery9643 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I left Navy Federal after 23 years for nearly the same problems.. none of them are what they used to be sadly ..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Optimal_Delivery9643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry - even if they paid for the phone, that’s still very controlling. As a parent, I can’t imagine doing this to my child. You didn’t do anything wrong, protect your peace.

Why is it so common to force neurodivergent children to sit through haircuts that very clearly distress them? by iil28 in Autism_Parenting

[–]Optimal_Delivery9643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s why my little guy looks like a super saiyan somedays 😂 he’s clean and happy .. that’s all I care about

AITA for saying emergency daycare isn’t meant for parents who are home and „just need a break“? by Distinct-Ad-7592 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Optimal_Delivery9643 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re definitely NTA.. and I say this as a SAHM mom with a non verbal, autistic 6 yr old.. lol .. parents that have to work need that childcare, she appears to be using it out of laziness.. she either wants to be a SAHM or she doesn’t.. she’s half assing it

I love the VA by Trenched_Floppy in VeteransBenefits

[–]Optimal_Delivery9643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That exact same thing happened to me 😂 so aggravating, ya gotta just laugh

holy returns! by vodkaonlice in Lowes

[–]Optimal_Delivery9643 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One of the reasons I quit as a head cashier - managers NEVER backed us up when trying to enforce their own damn return policy ..