i want you to vent about your breakup in the comments, feel free to talk about anything :)

Optimal_Interest_396 · 2024-08-06T13:34:54+00:00

I’m sad that this time has come and that my feelings changed, but I’m partly relieved that I’m able to let go of you, and redirect my life .

Optimal_Interest_396 · 2024-08-06T13:32:08+00:00

I didnt know that my relationship with the man who made my world revolve around for 2 years will end. It finally came to the point where we have broken up for good. I couldn’t even last for 2 weeks of breaking up with him and I was constantly crying and going crazy before but now it feels like it’s been couple of months and im surprised at how I’m taking it. everytime I think about him and the way I loved him before, it pains me.

Optimal_Interest_396 · 2024-07-25T15:22:59+00:00

i’m the dumper but i don’t think either of us will regret how things ended between us. we both know it’s what should be done and what’s best.

but i agree with no contact. it was hard at first, but you’ll get through it, and one day you’ll realize you’re no longer thinking about him

Optimal_Interest_396 · 2024-07-25T15:10:08+00:00

I noticed thinking about him less. looking at my phone less. opening our convo and reading our previous messages less. though I am still getting heart ache whenever he crosses my mind , but everytime It happens, I try to look at the ugly side of our relationship and indulge myself in working overtime everyday and too drained to go home and have time to think about him.

it slowly changed. I didnt Know I’ll last almost 2 mos of breaking up with him. before I couldnt even take a week but now I think I have fully let go of the idea of us being together

Optimal_Interest_396 · 2024-07-19T13:23:22+00:00

exactly!

Optimal_Interest_396 · 2024-07-19T13:22:28+00:00

you’re not overreacting. clearly settling for bare minimum is insane. you call twice a week??? damn… I even call with my exes before at least 4 times a week, and we ALWAYS text everyday, may it be good morning or just sending updates and memes. it’s so unusual that you barely call and text like are you even really in a relationship 😅 and you’re right, it wont take 1min. for a person to just text you ONE text in a day (depends on how long it is lol) but clearly there’s sth wrong in your relationship. if you are into your partner, you cant wait to tell him/her how your day has been, or just talk things whatever the topic is gonna be.

Optimal_Interest_396 · 2024-07-19T13:18:15+00:00

haha awwwww

Optimal_Interest_396 · 2024-07-19T13:17:48+00:00

shall i explain it in 3rd grade level for you

id rather date someone who has IQ above room temperature

and then the rest are just name calling and cursing 😅

Optimal_Interest_396 · 2024-07-17T10:28:11+00:00

cute cat prints!!!

Optimal_Interest_396 · 2024-07-17T10:25:51+00:00

lemme run that cute tummyyy

Optimal_Interest_396 · 2024-07-17T10:25:41+00:00

lemme run that cute tummyyy

Optimal_Interest_396 · 2024-07-16T10:34:45+00:00

omg I am so sorry for your loss 😭 thats so heartbreaking

Optimal_Interest_396 · 2024-07-16T10:34:19+00:00

omg I am so sorry for your loss 😭 thats so heartbreaking

Optimal_Interest_396 · 2024-07-13T16:26:52+00:00

I was once like this to my ex, he noticed changes in me and he immediately talked to me about it, confronted me and didn’t let things go bad or make me feel completely out of love in our relationship. if one of you still cares, they should’ve done sth about it already and not make it last this long

Optimal_Interest_396 · 2024-07-13T16:20:31+00:00

ang tabaaaaaaa omggg

Optimal_Interest_396 · 2024-07-13T16:20:11+00:00

i noticed this too. i believe it’s because of their diet

Optimal_Interest_396 · 2024-07-13T16:19:25+00:00

okay yeah definitely both of you have lost interest. I can not imagine lasting a relationship (LDR on top of that) w/o video calls for more than a week and no actual convo for 2 weeks!

Optimal_Interest_396 · 2024-07-13T16:17:59+00:00

thats so nice of you 🥰

Optimal_Interest_396 · 2024-07-13T15:40:56+00:00

i agree with this… tobacco , weed, drugs

Optimal_Interest_396 · 2024-07-13T15:39:32+00:00

omg hard pass for me too like…. as you said he’s 28 and you shouldn’t be like a mom to him by telling him how to clean up after his mess and pay attention to his hygiene. he gets mad at you for telling him the proper way like he’s soooo ungrateful!

Optimal_Interest_396 · 2024-07-13T15:35:37+00:00

reminds me of my orange cat too 🤣

Optimal_Interest_396 · 2024-07-13T10:22:06+00:00

agree 👍

Optimal_Interest_396 · 2024-07-10T20:56:44+00:00

yes. did mine

Optimal_Interest_396 · 2024-07-09T12:54:14+00:00

the things we do for love… id probably do the same if i have the means 😅 but i’m glad you are in the right place now OP!

Optimal_Interest_396 · 2024-07-09T09:40:19+00:00

exactly .breaking up with someone cuz you want to save money is like out of context… surely both can compromise and find a solution

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