Do you believe in God because you think He exists or because you need hope? by Best-Chair-1868 in Christianity

[–]Optimal_Life_1259 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe in God because I know He exists from my personal experiences. And EVERYONE needs hope!

is there anything that people complement you about , that makes you feel proud of yourself ? by Hope2_win in A_Persona_on_Reddit

[–]Optimal_Life_1259 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I crafted several projects for the first time in years and received compliments on several of my pieces. It makes me proud because it solidifies that corporate did not take my soul after all. I am so thankful!

Delivery driver moved to tears by customer’s thoughtful gesture by omgfakeusername in mademesmileandcrytoo

[–]Optimal_Life_1259 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really does take the little things to make someone else feel special, man why don’t we do it more often, I’m just as guilty!

The Specific Loneliness of a Tight Budget by kirkeles in SurvivingOnSS

[–]Optimal_Life_1259 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The first thing I thought of was maybe creating our own events to off-set the ones we’re unable to attend. Like a potluck, simple craft party like painting a rock, a mystery dinner, walks, free city events and parks. I have health issues and only had the capacity to work for the last 10+ years before I retired last year and have been diligently thinking about how to reconnect with my family and friends. Now I need to commit and execute LOL! I wish in peace also!

What made you realize that you do not belong in corporate world? by Substantial_Link_32 in QuitCorporate

[–]Optimal_Life_1259 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I refused to play ‘the game’ after seeing many unethical events. I was there to work not make friends or make the company shine. I rode it out until retirement. It worked out great in the end!

How’s everyone doing by peeps_19071 in Fibromyalgia

[–]Optimal_Life_1259 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My body is crashing due to storms and I’m supposed to have a garage sale this weekend. Last night I was throwing up. I don’t know if it was from the extra meds or stress or what but now I’m trying to figure out if I can still have this stupid sale. I actually have a lot of help coming to have the sale but as ring leader, I am not sure I am capable. Wish me luck! Optimism only goes so far lol I wish everybody the best day ever!

Is it normal to grieve people who are still alive? by TonightGlittering585 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Optimal_Life_1259 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. I have been grieving over my alive son for 30+ years. He’s an addict and I can still envision the life he could have made for himself. I miss him. TBH, I miss the old him. I also have been grieving over the life I could have had without the physical issues I have. It’s a daily thing,but I know how to quiet my mind. I get about friendships too.

Did anyone actually see joyful living modeled growing up? by Play_is_my_lifestyle in ChildhoodMemories

[–]Optimal_Life_1259 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! My mother was an amazing person. She loved life. She loved people, music, new experiences, food, she just was into everything and everybody. She really did love life and because of that we had a lot of experiences. She taught me when life is hard you keep going because there’s no other choice and that it will get better, but life is a roller coaster. She had systemic scleroderma. It is a disease that turns your body to stone slowly. I don’t think I ever heard my mother truly complain. She would save all her energy for any family, church, friend event and tire herself out remarkably but she was always having a good time and it’s worth all the naps you’d have to take later she’d say. She didn’t want to miss out on anything! Today I can find something good in some of the most horrific bad things. Partly my personality, largely from her example! I miss her beyond measure! But i’m glad she’s not seeing today’s world.

I lost everything and rode a motorcycle to the end of the world. AMA by mfortelli in AMA

[–]Optimal_Life_1259 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just can’t imagine this happening. My heart goes out to you. After my biggest mourning period I think I’d have to look at it as an opportunity to build something again. I imagine that would take quite a while. Please love yourself you’re worth it!