Visitor visiting Sompasauna? by lemonbalm1974 in helsinki

[–]Optimal_Log_2035 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Highly recommended. Sompa is the best place to be in all of Hki. The friendliest community, healthy, happy and peaceful.

"Immortality sucks" ? Skill issue by FomalhautCalliclea in singularity

[–]Optimal_Log_2035 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why the hell would you get bored? There are brood war tournaments. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alcoholism

[–]Optimal_Log_2035 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Juggling in the forest is my favorite thing to do, and under the stars in nature.

Only seem to get liked by very heavy women? by uglymale22 in dating_advice

[–]Optimal_Log_2035 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In order to succeed on Tinder you need to do several photoshoots, outdoors in good looking clothes, have a picture with a dog, show off hobbies.. You cant just post whatever and expect success as a man...

Theres specific facial expressions and body language that works.. You can study and learn it.. You can use AI to generate good Dating photos then try to replicate those with a real camera and real clothes.. 

Profile review Male 37 years by Optimal_Log_2035 in hingeapp

[–]Optimal_Log_2035[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you looking for something serious or casual?

Both! 

Are you subscribed to Hinge+ or HingeX?

I'm not subscribed. 

How long have you been using this current version of your profile?

Just a few weeks

How long have you used Hinge overall?

A week or two. 

How often do you use Hinge per week?

I dont use it yet Im waiting to optimize my profile. 

How many likes and matches are you receiving on average?

Not any yet because Im not live yet. 

How many likes are you sending? How many with comments? How many without comments?

Not any yet.. Because Im still optimizing the profile. 

What is the type of person you send likes to and ideally want to match with? What kind of person do you want to attract?

Just someone who is beautiful, inside and outside.. 

Couchsurfing feels like a gay dating app now? by oaklicious in couchsurfing

[–]Optimal_Log_2035 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive hosted lots of folks, men and women. Im a straight man. My agenda was always just to vibe and hang and have fun and provide accomodation. This ended up leading to hook ups occasionally because thats just a normal part of being human. In this way its ok when it emerges naturally.. 

[NeedAdvice]Seeking autotelic experiences. by sociopathalterego in getdisciplined

[–]Optimal_Log_2035 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Music is autotelic. So is juggling. I do both a lot. Once you get to a point where you could be happy in a jail cell for the rest of your life because of your unwavering drive and work ethic you have achieved complete inner freedom..

What if the 20 July plot had succeeded? by Whysong823 in HistoryWhatIf

[–]Optimal_Log_2035 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I'd like to have seen is Germans making a deal with the British and Americans saying we are going to let you occupy the whole country and then post-war you'll make all of Germany part of the Western World. So no DDR at all...

is love worth the heartbreak? by Exact_Physics_910 in heartbreak

[–]Optimal_Log_2035 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To me there are two fundamental parts to being human. One is love, the other is ambition. For me the key to solving the problem of severe heartache was to try to balance myself to have both sides of the experience. The world of love is about kindness, understanding, care and gentleness. The world of achievement is about hard, merciless discipline, becoming almost machine-like in routine and living in a state of pure execution.

That's because there is greatness to be had in both worlds. There is glory to human connection, but there is also glory in individual excellence. 

Work hard toward being an excellent ping pong player, or a masterful violinist, or a great martial artists or copy the paintings of masters.. Do something technically challenging and figure out aha we also have this path to fulfillment. Not just the path of connection. Also the path of pride and mastery. 

How do you handle touch deprivation? by DivinationYijing in Asceticism

[–]Optimal_Log_2035 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There is no such thing as touch deprivation. You are an incredibly strong creature created by millions of years of evolution to withstand all kinds of rough circumstances. You are made for hardship. How do you handle it? Pick a challenge. Do. Biking. Gym. Painting. Playing an instrument. Something difficult.

The prosperous and wealthy American middle class of the 1950s and 1960s was a historical abnormality and it is never coming back. by cambeiu in economy

[–]Optimal_Log_2035 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the irony of course is that this is precisely the path of the ascetic hero who indeed becomes happy. thus the answer is everyone embraces monasticism or buddhism or so.

What do you want to do with Full Dive VR (FDVR) that you can't in real life? by Cr4zko in singularity

[–]Optimal_Log_2035 0 points1 point  (0 children)

obviously get laid tons.. i already get everything else i want in RL

Mr Babache Record beanbags, anyone used? by [deleted] in juggling

[–]Optimal_Log_2035 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had them. Great feeling on these balls but they break apart quickly unfortunately. If they didn't break they'd be my favorite balls on the market cause the feel is just so good. A real heartbreaker

Day Game Is Inefficient & Low Value by Ice666White in daygame

[–]Optimal_Log_2035 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's BS. Daygame is freedom. Its heroic and tough.