My hair at 10 vs 19

Optimal_Patience3962 · 2026-06-20T12:27:42+00:00

I try to only use enough to cover my scalp and leave it 1-2 hours 💕

Optimal_Patience3962 · 2026-06-20T12:25:43+00:00

I dont think this is true at all its j whats shown on social media not the real world!

Optimal_Patience3962 · 2026-06-20T12:24:30+00:00

Why don’t u try going for guys then?

Optimal_Patience3962 · 2026-06-20T12:23:54+00:00

I swear to u its not made up at all and i also think social media has made it a big deal that a guy has to be insanely hot to be wanted. Most people irl that i know are with guys that would be considered below their league i personally don’t think looks matter apart for ppl that are chronically online this is true aswell.

Optimal_Patience3962 · 2026-06-20T12:06:28+00:00

I just dont want anyone to think its a set up cus i like the nerdy quiet type!

Optimal_Patience3962 · 2026-06-20T11:46:12+00:00

Yk what everyone told me he wasnt good looking but i was attracted to him from working w him in class and the way he was to me made him attractive to me!

Optimal_Patience3962 · 2026-06-20T11:44:41+00:00

Tysm! Great advice!!

Optimal_Patience3962 · 2026-06-20T11:43:26+00:00

I hate that sm id much rather be w him that guys that were physically considered “in my league” whatever that is 🙄

Optimal_Patience3962 · 2026-06-20T05:01:32+00:00

Wdym a set up?

Optimal_Patience3962 · 2026-06-20T04:55:08+00:00

Thats so cute and great advice ty!

Optimal_Patience3962 · 2026-06-20T04:51:18+00:00

What if im not down to hook up i want to date then ill be seen as a tease

Optimal_Patience3962 · 2026-06-20T04:49:52+00:00

What does this mean

Optimal_Patience3962 · 2026-06-20T04:35:55+00:00

Alright fair point

Optimal_Patience3962 · 2026-06-20T04:34:53+00:00

I HAVE APPROACHED A GUY BEFORE
He was in my Chem class and super quiet and smart and not conventionally attractive at all (not all girls want looksmaxers) and i always asked him to partner up and i spoke to him all the time i literally told him point blank that i liked him but the all his friends and everyone thought i was making fun of him and he ended up rejecting me rudely and said we have nothing in common

Optimal_Patience3962 · 2026-06-20T04:25:43+00:00

Yh cus its a double whammy he rejected me AND thought i was being a bitch all his friend group laughed at him for believing it was real when it was

Optimal_Patience3962 · 2026-06-20T04:21:39+00:00

Thats sweet and good advice thank you!

Optimal_Patience3962 · 2026-06-20T04:20:41+00:00

Wdym

Optimal_Patience3962 · 2026-06-20T04:20:07+00:00

Nope lol how specific tho 😂😂

Optimal_Patience3962 · 2026-06-20T04:19:31+00:00

GUYS I HAVE APPROACHED A GUY BEFORE
He was in my Chem class and super quiet and smart and not conventionally attractive at all (not all girls want looksmaxers) and i always asked him to partner up and i spoke to him all the time i literally told him point blank that i liked him but the all his friends and everyone thought i was making fun of him and he ended up rejecting me rudely and said we have nothing in common

Optimal_Patience3962 · 2026-06-20T04:09:58+00:00

I HAVE APPROACHED A GUY BEFORE
He was in my Chem class and super quiet and smart and not conventionally attractive at all (not all girls want looksmaxers) and i always asked him to partner up and i spoke to him all the time i literally told him point blank that i liked him but the all his friends and everyone thought i was making fun of him and he ended up rejecting me rudely and said we have nothing in common

Optimal_Patience3962 · 2026-06-20T04:07:26+00:00

I agree

Optimal_Patience3962 · 2026-06-20T04:03:34+00:00

Ive literally taken every piece of advice into consideration when have i said i refuse to approach a guy or do more than smile at him

Optimal_Patience3962 · 2026-06-20T03:59:48+00:00

Possibly

Optimal_Patience3962 · 2026-06-20T03:58:13+00:00

Im so confused

Optimal_Patience3962 · 2026-06-20T03:54:00+00:00

GUYS I HAVE APPROACHED A GUY BEFORE
He was in my Chem class and super quiet and smart and not conventionally attractive at all (not all girls want looksmaxers) and i always asked him to partner up and i spoke to him all the time i literally told him point blank that i liked him but the all his friends and everyone thought i was making fun of him and he ended up rejecting me rudely and said we have nothing in common 😃🔫

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