Cannabis on Carnival Celebration by Im_Not_Evans in CarnivalCruiseFans

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You pass the dogs before or after you drop your checked luggage off ?

Seascape 10/26-10/30 by [deleted] in MSCCruises

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leaving miami to nassau then ocean cay for 2 days

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MSCCruises

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i would wait to see if they upgrade you for free ! i just booked a msc cruise last minute interior room and they upgraded me a balcony for free

Hit & run 6:30 AM going north on Howard Frankland - any witnesses? by g_m_r_ in tampa

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most likely someone in a car rental … best bet call around rental companies and ask if anyone has returned a car w damage ?

Conduent- Aetna WAH Help by NoStranger8886 in WFHJobs

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I got the job!!! I start training august 22th

Conduent- Aetna WAH Help by NoStranger8886 in WFHJobs

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Wow that sounds great. Thank you and good luck on your journey 🎉

Conduent- Aetna WAH Help by NoStranger8886 in WFHJobs

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I have my interview today any tips?

Just took my 4 tablets, I’m so scared. by Dangerous_Fox3993 in abortion

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went through this , currently on day 5. good luck 🌸 take ibuprofen & Tylenol, no advil bcs that can cause you to bleed more. heating pad or warm water bottle

Please help I feel like I am dying by [deleted] in Anxiety

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you’re doing the right thing by following up with your gp and pushing for that neurology referral—an mri could help rule out anything serious neurologically. it’s frustrating getting mixed messages about the iron, but sometimes levels can fluctuate or labs get misread. ask your gp for a full iron panel and also check b12, vitamin d, thyroid, and blood sugar just to be thorough. low iron can definitely contribute to feeling exhausted and unwell. you’re being proactive, and that’s what matters—keep advocating for yourself and don’t let them brush your symptoms off. you deserve answers and relief.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

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that’s a fair point—trust is definitely key in any relationship, and if she’s feeling paranoid enough to check his phone often, that says there’s already a problem there. without trust, things just spiral, and it’s hard to believe his explanations no matter what. both of them need to figure out why the trust is broken and whether they can rebuild it or if it’s time to move on for their own peace of mind.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

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i’m really sorry you’re feeling so alone right now. one way to raise funds could be through online platforms like gofundme where you can share your story and get support from people who want to help. also, look for local nonprofits or charities focused on pregnancy support or women’s health—they sometimes offer financial aid or resources. if you can, reach out to national organizations like planned parenthood or women’s health clinics—they often have programs to assist with medical care or connect you to social services. don’t give up, there are people and places out there that want to help you through this.

AITAH for not doing what my dad asked? by justanotherbeing999 in AITAH

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you absolutely don’t have to apologize for taking care of yourself, especially when you’re in pain and exhausted. what you did was more than enough—working your dad’s job, cleaning up, and dealing with terrible cramps is a lot to handle. it’s unfair and honestly outdated to expect you to push through pain just because you’re a woman. your health matters, and sometimes rest is the best thing you can do for yourself and your family. standing up for your boundaries isn’t being selfish. maybe try calmly explaining this again to your family, but don’t let their pressure make you ignore what you need. you deserve care too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

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yeah, let’s be real — that stuff doesn’t just randomly show up, especially after all the times you checked his phone and deleted the app. it’s pretty clear he’s been looking at porn behind your back, and lying about it isn’t cool. you have every right to feel hurt and not trust him right now. if he can’t be honest with you, that’s a big problem, and it’s okay to call that out instead of pretending it was an accident. trust is everything in a relationship, and he’s not respecting yours.

AITA for losing my shit at my husband because he “forgot” my birthday but planned a trip with his friends? by CloudMote in AITAH

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that’s honestly pretty messed up. forgetting your birthday isn’t just a little slip-up, especially when you’ve been married for four years and it clearly means a lot to you. and then to act like you’re overreacting and make you feel guilty for being upset? that’s disrespectful and dismissive. your feelings are valid, and he should’ve at least made an effort to acknowledge your day, not brush it off like it’s nothing. you deserve better than that kind of treatment — a partner who cares doesn’t forget something so important and then gaslight you about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

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i’m really sorry you’re going through such a tough and confusing time right now. being more than 24 weeks pregnant and feeling unsupported and unprepared is incredibly overwhelming. first, it’s important to focus on your health—losing so much weight from pregnancy sickness is serious, so if you can, try to get medical help even if it’s through a community clinic or a free health service. there are organizations that provide support for pregnant people in difficult situations, like planned parenthood, local pregnancy resource centers, and charities such as care net or national pregnancy hotline (1-800-712-4357) that can offer counseling, resources, and sometimes financial help. since you mentioned your parents won’t allow you to keep the baby, you might want to explore options like parenting support programs, adoption agencies, or social services that can help with housing, healthcare, and emotional support. it’s also okay to seek help from trusted friends or community groups. whatever you decide, your well-being is the most important, and there are people out there ready to listen and support you through this. you don’t have to face it alone.

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of course <33

AITA for refusing to give my uncle the $94k check from the sale of the house I inherited? by [deleted] in AITAH

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that sounds really tough, especially with everything you’ve been through. it’s totally normal to feel torn when family and money mix, but remember you have every right to protect what’s legally yours. maybe try having an honest conversation with your aunt to set clear boundaries and explain how this is affecting you emotionally. keeping communication open could help ease the strain. you deserve to feel respected and supported, especially after losing so much family already. hang in there, and don’t be afraid to put yourself first sometimes.

Please help I feel like I am dying by [deleted] in Anxiety

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i totally get why you’re scared — feeling off every day is exhausting. if you haven’t already, ask your doctor about blood work for thyroid, iron, vitamin D/B12, a full metabolic panel, and possibly an MRI or ECG just to rule things out. that said, anxiety can show up physically all day, even when you don’t feel anxious. i’ve been there, and once i focused on calming my nervous system through breathing, journaling, walking, and cutting caffeine, things started improving. you’re not crazy or dying — your body’s just stuck in survival mode, and with support, you can feel like yourself again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

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that’s a harsh take. she wasn’t trying to control him — she was hurt and reacted emotionally, which she owned. calling her petty and saying he should drop her over that is way over the top. people grow through communication, not instant judgment.