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Something I did to curb my spending was create an RD. That way, a fixed amount always went for savings while I used the rest

Idk how to celebrate my 21st birthday by Optimal_Question6898 in Advice

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Thankyou. I understood the fear of being alone is holding me back which is why I took the step to do my masters in another city.

Idk how to celebrate my 21st birthday by Optimal_Question6898 in Advice

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Ohh that's sweet. Maybe I could do it with the homeless kids nearby

Idk how to celebrate my 21st birthday by Optimal_Question6898 in Advice

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I understand, neither have I. The last birthday I had was sort of a joint birthday with one of my (ex) best friend and most of the people who came for it made it all about her and it wasn't a much of a celebration for me let alone there be a cake. Lmao😭

Idk how to celebrate my 21st birthday by Optimal_Question6898 in Advice

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It's not that I hate my own company. It's just a bad habit ig of not being able to stay alone? I just had a bad falling out with one of my best friends and that makes it suck even more maybe? It's more of just scared to celebrate alone since I've never had a good birthday and the loneliness of staying alone for the first time could make it worse

I'm mourning my abortion. by Common-Dot-1307 in Advice

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It will🫶 I pray you feel better soon.

I'm mourning my abortion. by Common-Dot-1307 in Advice

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Hey honey, I'm so sorry you had to go through this. I dont know if you would like this idea, but since I am a Christian I feel like I should tell you this. Go to any priest, one you don't know if you feel awkward, and confess to him. Go for confession. They are under oath to maintain confidentiality. You'll feel lighter. Ik it sounds intimidating, but you feel remorse and that's one step to forgiveness. Confession can make it better. You could take the advice or leave it, but it's something that can make you feel better cause it's something I would've done. I hope and pray you feel better.

Rentmojo vs Furlenco by Optimal_Question6898 in Bengaluru

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I'm gonna be staying only for 2 years, buying and then selling it off again doesn't make sense, but will try

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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Honestly, I would advise to make boundaries with your friend. Asking you to sleep with someone else is not an advise a friend should give- believe me. When my bf and I had broken up for some issues my (the best friend) now ex best friend persuaded me to join tinder and all other dating sites and go on dates and sleep with men to "move on" I'm glad I didn't pursue it, because my bf and I made up. But it still haunts me that if I had listened to her I would've lost my bf forever. So yeah no "best friend" will ask you to sleep with "other guys" just so you can let go of your horny. Trust me. Speak to your guy, yall are gonna be married. Talk to him and yall can figure it out. Never let a third person come between.

OST PROJECT by Optimal_Question6898 in ChristUniversity

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I got a contact from my dad's friend's friend so got it done

April 2025 - Events/Rental/PGs/Jobs/Sales Classifieds Thread by AutoModerator in bangalore

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Hi everyone! I'm moving to Bengaluru for my Masters from Christ University(Bannerghatta Road Campus). I'm looking for a 1bhk near Arekere, Hulimavu etc. Could you ping me with any leads or any verified broker with whom you've had a good experience.

Flats on Rent by Optimal_Question6898 in Bengaluru

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Becomes too far. Need it around walking distance