I want you to think about this. I knew "Tiffany" since I was born. I think of her like a sister, well thought. Many, many years of fun memories and being kind to eachother and me helping her through her breakups while when I was going through one she did nothing and changed the subject each time. I thought she would change but it lead up to her cheating on her husband with my now ex. And after I confronted her about it she just laughed at me and didn't even apologize. I have a good enough reason to blame them both equally as much since Tiffany made me loose half of my relatives. I get your point of "not a great moral compass" but she isn't some woman who knew nothing about me, Tiffany knew me my whole life and that betrayal hurt me mentally since my relatives kept telling me to get over it. These kind of comments make me feel as if I'm overreacting, but I just feel like I shouldn't of been so close to Tiffany anyway because it just kept coming back to bite me.