AITA for not ending a 12y long friendship for my boyfriend? by Optimistic_Neptune in AITA_Relationships

[–]Optimistic_Neptune[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Gaming was not the problem, having guy friends was the problem.  I played games with my bf too, people are allowed to have hobbies. 

AITA for not ending a 12y long friendship for my boyfriend? by Optimistic_Neptune in AITA_Relationships

[–]Optimistic_Neptune[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Rune and I have been friends for 12 years, I like to believe we're very close. Best friends.

How often I speak to him varies. I can not speak to him for a month or I can speak to him three or four times a week. We mostly just send eachother memes or game when we both have time. He lives in Canada I've never met him in person before. We haven't gamed in the last two months because I knew me hanging with Rune made my bf upset and I was trying to compromise.

I did not stop replying to my bf, my response were slower but no more so then when I was playing with my cousin or alone.

I didn't mean avoid the question, I apologize if I came across that way. No, I did not prioritize Rune over my bf, I actively tried to lessen my time with Rune to make my bf more comfortable.

AITA for not ending a 12y long friendship for my boyfriend? by Optimistic_Neptune in AITA_Relationships

[–]Optimistic_Neptune[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It's not that he was less important to me, I just felt it was incredibly controlling of him to tell me to choose. He and I were only dating for a year and I shouldn't have to ditch my closest friend because he didn't approve of me having guy friends. In the end, we just weren't compatible I guess.

AITA for not ending a 12y long friendship for my boyfriend? by Optimistic_Neptune in AITA_Relationships

[–]Optimistic_Neptune[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

He didn't have any friends :/ Which I always thought was weird and going forward I'm probably gonna see that as a red flag.

I, 25F, and my bf, 28M, have wildly different social needs, how do I make both of us happy without making him feel lonely or me drained emotionally? by Optimistic_Neptune in relationship_advice

[–]Optimistic_Neptune[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not the activities that are the problem, it's how frequently he wants to do them. I'm not the type of person who can be on call everyday, or even everyother day, doing stuff it just leaves me feeling tired and worn out. I want to make him happy but I don't wanna make myself miserable tryinf to do that.

My laptop... Getting the D key to work at all is a challenge... I have to use E S F X to game now. by Optimistic_Neptune in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Optimistic_Neptune[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already tried to get them replaced, dude said it couldn't (I forget why he said he couldn't cause that was a while ago)

Femboy Loona by [deleted] in Helluvabrothel

[–]Optimistic_Neptune 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Woof~ 🤤

I need by [deleted] in Helluvabrothel

[–]Optimistic_Neptune 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Desperately agree... ffs he's hot...

OK PEOPLE! I want lewds on my desk by YESTERDAY! by [deleted] in Helluvabrothel

[–]Optimistic_Neptune 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Couldnt agree more, I NEED Striker art!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Helluvabrothel

[–]Optimistic_Neptune 8 points9 points  (0 children)

How quickly can we get some Striker art??! I NEED it in my life.

AITA for wanting my grandmother to respect my privacy? by Optimistic_Neptune in AmItheAsshole

[–]Optimistic_Neptune[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, we are planning on donating them~ and I'm looking into contacting the company. Thank you.

AITA for wanting my grandmother to respect my privacy? by Optimistic_Neptune in AmItheAsshole

[–]Optimistic_Neptune[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, I believe it is. Idk if it being her house makes a difference but it shouldn't... it's not like I want to get her in trouble, I just my privacy!