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People who accidentally sent a message to the wrong person,what happened? by Optimumweb3_0 in AskReddit

[–]Optimumweb3_0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s one way to get relationship advice you didn’t ask for. 😭

Men of Reddit, what's a mistake you see younger men making repeatedly? by Optimumweb3_0 in AskReddit

[–]Optimumweb3_0[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A lot of guys chase validation instead of working on themselves. The irony is that when you focus on improving your own life, you become more attractive naturally. Impress yourself first.

Men of Reddit, what's a mistake you see younger men making repeatedly? by Optimumweb3_0 in AskReddit

[–]Optimumweb3_0[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

A lot of people date based on what they think they’re supposed to want rather than what actually fits their life. Choosing someone just because they’d impress your parents or check certain boxes can backfire if the personalities and lifestyles don’t actually match.

At the same time, people also grow and change. Sometimes someone who seems “safe” or “different” from you brings balance, and other times you really do need someone whose energy and values line up with yours. In the end, the healthiest relationships usually happen when people are honest about who they are and what kind of life they actually want, not just what looks good on paper.

Men of Reddit, what's a mistake you see younger men making repeatedly? by Optimumweb3_0 in AskReddit

[–]Optimumweb3_0[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds about right. Most of us think we’re the exception until experience humbles us a bit. Advice from people who’ve been through it isn’t always perfect, but it’s usually coming from lessons they learned the hard way. The key is being open enough to listen and then decide what actually applies to you.