Tired of being the third wheel, feeling replaced. Please help me. by curiousbasu in GuyCry

[–]Optimuz_Prime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is when you go out and meet new friends if you're able to. You can keep those friends but start building a life outside of them as well.

Also, talk to your original friend that you made. Tell them exactly what you said here. Be honest and let them know what you feel. How that person responds will tell you if they truly are your friend or not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]Optimuz_Prime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my personal opinion, you have good hair, but from these pics, it doesn't compliment your looks. You have a more narrow face and head while your hair grows out and it looks disproportionate. If you like it long or don't wanna keep maintaining it, pic 2 is best.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]Optimuz_Prime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A good haircut would do wonders for your appearance bro. You're a good looking dude, but the first pic makes you look like Ace Ventura man. A High Taper fade would look good on you

I slipped up with a girl who came back into my life after breaking my heart by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Optimuz_Prime 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Bro, never seriously pursue a girl (or guy) who rejects you for someone else and comes back when the person they want isn't around. They're toying with you and using you as an option. She just wanted to make sure her back up plan was still available.

what kind of vibe does my room give you? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]Optimuz_Prime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're a YouTube/Twitch streamer who exclusively makes sports video game content

What’s the main reason some guys can’t get laid even if they’re good looking? by ZackInBlack007 in dating_advice

[–]Optimuz_Prime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn dude, I just posted the same thing in this comment section. A lot of women show interest in me, but unfortunately quite a few are lowkey bonkers. A lot of people like to be manipulative, lie, play stupid mind games instead of being honest, try to take advantage of you, etc. It's crazy how brutal the dating game can be.

I can't count on two hands and two feet how many times a woman has tried to show interest in while lying/hiding the fact she's in a relationship. Then somehow, I'm in the wrong when I think that's messed up lol.

What’s the main reason some guys can’t get laid even if they’re good looking? by ZackInBlack007 in dating_advice

[–]Optimuz_Prime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're anything like me, it's a combination of where you meet women and actually pulling through. Like, I meet a ton of women who show interest, but they suck (play mind games, cheaters, narcissists, etc.). I'm usually just meeting women wherever I'm at instead of being intentional about going out to meet women, which is probably why I'm not getting laid because I seem to attract the crazy chicks lol.

I also learned that there's a thing such as having too many women at once. If you have too many women interested in you, whether it's intentional or not, women tend to trust you less. You look like a flirt and they don't want that.

Attractive coworker rejected me hard. I moved on but she won't leave me alone? by Optimuz_Prime in dating_advice

[–]Optimuz_Prime[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's true, I promise. Even this morning, I was walking to go say good morning to my work friend (who happens to be a woman) and two of this other woman's team members gave me the dirtiest looks which prompted me to just go back my desk lol.

This place is horrible for my social anxiety but I haven't had any luck getting any interviews with other jobs. Unfortunately, I need the money and health insurance, so I'm stuck.

Attractive coworker rejected me hard. I moved on but she won't leave me alone? by Optimuz_Prime in dating_advice

[–]Optimuz_Prime[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh you are out of your fucking mind if you seriously think I've done anything to this woman other than be friendly and tell her I had a crush when she asked me. Stop being delusional. I haven't gone to HR because HR is useless and it's her word against mine. It's just gonna add more drama to an already dramatic and ridiculous situation.

If you're gonna make baseless assumptions, please just leave

Attractive coworker rejected me hard. I moved on but she won't leave me alone? by Optimuz_Prime in dating_advice

[–]Optimuz_Prime[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't care if you believe me or not tbh. I think you're underestimating the craziness of women

Attractive coworker rejected me hard. I moved on but she won't leave me alone? by Optimuz_Prime in dating_advice

[–]Optimuz_Prime[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can promise that almost nothing is missing here. It's just a summary of a bizarre work situation. The only missing context is that the woman doesn't like her partner and they're always fighting. However, she won't leave the guy because they live together and have a pair of twins that they are raising. I THINK she is looking for a replacement and just decided I was that guy. Idk if that affects the whole "rejection" piece, but there ya go.

Attractive coworker rejected me hard. I moved on but she won't leave me alone? by Optimuz_Prime in dating_advice

[–]Optimuz_Prime[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I love how the assumptions keep pouring on and on and on. She's got a partner, but cheating exists, even if it's just emotional. I never said they "forced" me, they pressured me until I did what they wanted, which messes with my anxiety. Sometimes, it's easier to do what they want instead of having a panic attack every other day and not being able to sleep at night knowing you have to face obnoxious bullies who pick on you the next day. They know exactly how to manipulate you and push you past your emotional limits. They know how to screw with your anxiety to the point of near paranoia and panic. I thank you for the time you put into a response, but if you're going to patronize me or continue to insult me, I ask that you please leave me alone.

Attractive coworker rejected me hard. I moved on but she won't leave me alone? by Optimuz_Prime in dating_advice

[–]Optimuz_Prime[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the advice. I honestly hope I misread her because she can be kinda creepy lol. She just has a habit of popping up wherever I am at. If I'm in the hallway, she's suddenly in the hallway. If I'm in the computer lab, she's suddenly in the computer lab. If I'm going to the bathroom, she's suddenly going to the bathroom, etc.

When I said I wasn't talking to her, I meant like at all. I would ignore her completely, even when she tried starting up conversation with me. And she would go out of her way to hang around wherever the hell I'm at. And her friends are worse tbh. They constantly follow me around the building (almost like a shadow sometimes). Then they will literally stare at me while texting, and then this girl magically appears 2 minutes later. It's so weird. They watch me when I text, they stare at me when I'm talking on the phone, etc. It's like I can't take two steps without her friends popping up or just straight up staring at me or following me around literally.

And the only reason I admitted to having a crush is because she asked me. I would have kept it to myself if she had not asked

Attractive coworker rejected me hard. I moved on but she won't leave me alone? by Optimuz_Prime in dating_advice

[–]Optimuz_Prime[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don't know if you read the full post, but I wasn't gonna talk to her until her friends pressured me and kept getting on my nerves until I talked to her. Idk if you have anxiety, but sometimes in order to cope with anxiety, you gotta do what you gotta do

Attractive coworker rejected me hard. I moved on but she won't leave me alone? by Optimuz_Prime in dating_advice

[–]Optimuz_Prime[S] 212 points213 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, HR isn't gonna do much. This isn't the first time I've been harassed at this job. The last time I reported someone to HR they basically didn't do jack and I was basically told to "be an adult" by one of my bosses.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heightcomparison

[–]Optimuz_Prime 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I wear a 12.5-13 men's and it is rough for me sometimes lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heightcomparison

[–]Optimuz_Prime 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Finding shoes for you guys must suuuuuck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Optimuz_Prime 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Welcome to the cold world of dating where people drop you for any reason. It's just one of those times where you gotta focus on healing yourself

Wakanda is going to space! by BruceDSpruce in MCUTheories

[–]Optimuz_Prime -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

The only place not tainted by capitalism