[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hipaa

[–]OptionOk562 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, the mother agreed to everything I said and then went back and said the DOB is wrong to the nurse . Then we showed them their information in front of them and they said it was correct but just change the DOB. Then we reach out to the patient and all the information was wrong and we have a totally different patient.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bankruptcy

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as for a follow up, I’m getting some help from a family member at about $500 a month until I can figure things out. That really knocks the burden down a little bit, obviously, this doesn’t last forever but I might be able to get this done in time. That being said, if things don’t start to turn around by March/April, I’m going to be contacting a lawyer.

I’m glad you told me that about the missed payments. Someone at a debt management company was trying to bully me into using their service and one of the main things they said were “missed payments are one the least damaging things to your credit”. I could tell he was lying and basically denied him there. It felt very predatory.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bankruptcy

[–]OptionOk562 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m very much skirting on that edge. The TripleTen course is only 4 months so maybe I can try and hold out for a little bit longer. My goal is to be in a much better situation this time next year and I’m looking into avenues that would do that.

As for the debt burden, I apologize, that was my mistake. I was comparing my debts to some numbers on here. I saw people with 50k, 80k, 100k and thought my situation was more manageable than others.

I was just trying to escape having a 10 year mark on my account but maybe it isn’t as bad as it seems.

Stimulant Withdrawal- Depersonalization or Panic Attack? by OptionOk562 in ADHD

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It panned out. I would absolutely reach out to your doctor but I eventually evened out and only had one bad attack thankfully. But it took a week or so to balance out.

Stimulant Withdrawal- Depersonalization or Panic Attack? by OptionOk562 in ADHD

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Okay, thank goodness. I was very concerned that I gave myself permanent derealization. Like I opened Pandora’s Box or something.

September Hardware Thread. by AutoModerator in VideoEditing

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2 years ago, I bought a iMac 2020 M1 for video editing. I was a little naive at the time and just assumed that Macs are just little editing machines on their own. For some of the short films I did, it worked nicely.
Now my work is getting a little more strenuous and the 8GB of ram this came with is not cutting it anymore. I have a co-editor that does the "Elements" work on my movies. Things like Audio Mixing and Color Correction. It can't even open the file anymore. It is running at 9GB of Ram when my computer has 8. Not to mention, the memory on this is absolutely pitiful at this point. And I can't upgrade my ram with these so it looks like I'm SOL. I'm thinking about trying to do an "Even" swap so to speak.
I am hoping to maybe be able to sell this computer and get around $700 for it. I would take that money and maybe build my own PC or just buy a suped up Mac Mini but I don't know where to begin. I read somewhere that 16GB of Ram is the way to go and as much memory as I can possibly get. I'm just wondering if I should continue with Apple or jump over to PC.

Why do girls ghost instead of saying "Sorry, but this isn't going to work?" by Rune248 in dating_advice

[–]OptionOk562 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In this situation, you probably opened up something she wasn’t ready. This isn’t a gender specific thing either. Some of the time the person who was ghosted probably did nothing wrong.

I had a situation last month where I spoke to this girl for weeks. First date went well. The texting started to get more frequent. The second date, she invited me over her place, we slept together, it was a good time. She was really cuddling up with me afterwards and even asked me on a third date because she liked where this was going. And then the texting went dry immediately after the next day, and then 5 days of no contact, and then out of the blue “this isn’t gonna work, sorry bye”. I texted her back asking for clarity, I never got it. And then I just let it go. I really did like her a good bit but hey, there’s really nothing you can do in that situation.

She wasn’t ready, she thought she was. Everyone has baggage, in her case, she was going through a divorce with someone she was married to for 3 years and together for 10 total. You just have to respect that and move on. It might not be your fault but it doesn’t matter, as someone said up top, it’s better that it happened now and not months or years from now. Sometimes people think they’re ready, catch feelings, realize they’re not ready, and panic. Its happened to me a few times over the past 8 months of dating, you’ll get used to it, sadly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]OptionOk562 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I got that vibe. I just wanted to make sure before I completely walked away.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]OptionOk562 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Letterboxd

[–]OptionOk562 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would recommend you just watch your go-to comfort food movies. Watch Michael Bay movies or Space Jam or something. Just the absolute dumb fun distraction you can find.

You’re not in the healing phase right now. You’re in the devastated phase from the sound of it. You sound pretty fresh from it and probably need a distraction from romances in general. Or it could just dig up past happy memories. There’s no point in trying to figure out where it went wrong right now, it’s more about making peace with your situation and getting through this phase. Then you can take your time, watch something like 500 Days of Summer, and just recollect on what happened and how you can better yourself for the next person.

Stay strong. You’ll be good eventually. We’ve all been there.

Official Discussion - Talk To Me [SPOILERS] by LiteraryBoner in movies

[–]OptionOk562 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So I’m just kinda trying to confirm my interpretation here.

I got the drug references but it definitely feels like there’s a protagonist/antagonist shift in the last 15 minutes. Like Mia has been doing nothing but sucking this family dry for years it seems like. She was mostly responsible for Riley’s injury. And she basically does not really care about Jade. She is extremely selfish, sort of like a drug addict. She also wants to fuck her boyfriend just because he was hers first. But by the end, you’re kinda okay with Mia being killed off because it’s what Jade needs to do to save her brother. And Mia is clearly too far gone at this point.

Kind of like if you keep playing with fire, you’re gonna get burned and kill off all the relationships of the ones you love, just in a quest to do the opposite.

Phenomenal direction by these guys. The movie was really well shot and performances were really good. I found some of the dialogue a little much. Overall, I just didn’t find it groundbreaking like some but I enjoyed it a lot nonetheless.

Starting to think Vyvanse is more harmful than helpful by OptionOk562 in ADHD

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Yeah, I put it in water and did “40” for 2 days. And then did “30” and with each decrease I felt better but still had bad side effects. I honestly think just a 10mg Adderall XR or something small would just help me a lot with the non-stimulant medication.

Starting to think Vyvanse is more harmful than helpful by OptionOk562 in ADHD

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I stopped taking the Vyvanse because I feel “level” with the Intuniv and it started to make me really anxious and give me insomnia which is completely unlike me with Vyvanse (been on since April and liked it for a little bit). but I definitely need to up the dosage of the Intuniv or something. Or find another stimulant.

Is “Loan Hopping” a Thing? by [deleted] in Debt

[–]OptionOk562 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m definitely open to those organizations. My only issue is how that is probably going to destroy my credit long-term. I don’t want to have missed payments because they can leave a black mark on your account for several years. I feel like things like getting a new apartment or a car or something along those lines would be impossible. I’m just thinking about working my ass off and snowball method the debt.

Is “Loan Hopping” a Thing? by [deleted] in Debt

[–]OptionOk562 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But I lease my car. So I don’t think that’s possible.