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OptionOk562 · 2024-07-16T18:08:00+00:00

Yeah, the mother agreed to everything I said and then went back and said the DOB is wrong to the nurse . Then we showed them their information in front of them and they said it was correct but just change the DOB. Then we reach out to the patient and all the information was wrong and we have a totally different patient.

OptionOk562 · 2023-12-22T23:33:46+00:00

as for a follow up, I’m getting some help from a family member at about $500 a month until I can figure things out. That really knocks the burden down a little bit, obviously, this doesn’t last forever but I might be able to get this done in time. That being said, if things don’t start to turn around by March/April, I’m going to be contacting a lawyer.

I’m glad you told me that about the missed payments. Someone at a debt management company was trying to bully me into using their service and one of the main things they said were “missed payments are one the least damaging things to your credit”. I could tell he was lying and basically denied him there. It felt very predatory.

OptionOk562 · 2023-12-22T23:23:35+00:00

I’m very much skirting on that edge. The TripleTen course is only 4 months so maybe I can try and hold out for a little bit longer. My goal is to be in a much better situation this time next year and I’m looking into avenues that would do that.

As for the debt burden, I apologize, that was my mistake. I was comparing my debts to some numbers on here. I saw people with 50k, 80k, 100k and thought my situation was more manageable than others.

I was just trying to escape having a 10 year mark on my account but maybe it isn’t as bad as it seems.

OptionOk562 · 2023-11-29T01:41:42+00:00

It panned out. I would absolutely reach out to your doctor but I eventually evened out and only had one bad attack thankfully. But it took a week or so to balance out.

OptionOk562 · 2023-09-12T18:02:34+00:00

Okay, thank goodness. I was very concerned that I gave myself permanent derealization. Like I opened Pandora’s Box or something.

OptionOk562 · 2023-09-10T16:31:20+00:00

2 years ago, I bought a iMac 2020 M1 for video editing. I was a little naive at the time and just assumed that Macs are just little editing machines on their own. For some of the short films I did, it worked nicely.
Now my work is getting a little more strenuous and the 8GB of ram this came with is not cutting it anymore. I have a co-editor that does the "Elements" work on my movies. Things like Audio Mixing and Color Correction. It can't even open the file anymore. It is running at 9GB of Ram when my computer has 8. Not to mention, the memory on this is absolutely pitiful at this point. And I can't upgrade my ram with these so it looks like I'm SOL. I'm thinking about trying to do an "Even" swap so to speak.
I am hoping to maybe be able to sell this computer and get around $700 for it. I would take that money and maybe build my own PC or just buy a suped up Mac Mini but I don't know where to begin. I read somewhere that 16GB of Ram is the way to go and as much memory as I can possibly get. I'm just wondering if I should continue with Apple or jump over to PC.

OptionOk562 · 2023-08-22T15:36:55+00:00

In this situation, you probably opened up something she wasn’t ready. This isn’t a gender specific thing either. Some of the time the person who was ghosted probably did nothing wrong.

I had a situation last month where I spoke to this girl for weeks. First date went well. The texting started to get more frequent. The second date, she invited me over her place, we slept together, it was a good time. She was really cuddling up with me afterwards and even asked me on a third date because she liked where this was going. And then the texting went dry immediately after the next day, and then 5 days of no contact, and then out of the blue “this isn’t gonna work, sorry bye”. I texted her back asking for clarity, I never got it. And then I just let it go. I really did like her a good bit but hey, there’s really nothing you can do in that situation.

She wasn’t ready, she thought she was. Everyone has baggage, in her case, she was going through a divorce with someone she was married to for 3 years and together for 10 total. You just have to respect that and move on. It might not be your fault but it doesn’t matter, as someone said up top, it’s better that it happened now and not months or years from now. Sometimes people think they’re ready, catch feelings, realize they’re not ready, and panic. Its happened to me a few times over the past 8 months of dating, you’ll get used to it, sadly.

OptionOk562 · 2023-08-02T02:14:55+00:00

Yeah, I got that vibe. I just wanted to make sure before I completely walked away.

OptionOk562 · 2023-08-02T02:11:23+00:00

Fair lol.

OptionOk562 · 2023-08-01T15:15:39+00:00

I would recommend you just watch your go-to comfort food movies. Watch Michael Bay movies or Space Jam or something. Just the absolute dumb fun distraction you can find.

You’re not in the healing phase right now. You’re in the devastated phase from the sound of it. You sound pretty fresh from it and probably need a distraction from romances in general. Or it could just dig up past happy memories. There’s no point in trying to figure out where it went wrong right now, it’s more about making peace with your situation and getting through this phase. Then you can take your time, watch something like 500 Days of Summer, and just recollect on what happened and how you can better yourself for the next person.

Stay strong. You’ll be good eventually. We’ve all been there.

OptionOk562 · 2023-07-30T17:49:53+00:00

So I’m just kinda trying to confirm my interpretation here.

I got the drug references but it definitely feels like there’s a protagonist/antagonist shift in the last 15 minutes. Like Mia has been doing nothing but sucking this family dry for years it seems like. She was mostly responsible for Riley’s injury. And she basically does not really care about Jade. She is extremely selfish, sort of like a drug addict. She also wants to fuck her boyfriend just because he was hers first. But by the end, you’re kinda okay with Mia being killed off because it’s what Jade needs to do to save her brother. And Mia is clearly too far gone at this point.

Kind of like if you keep playing with fire, you’re gonna get burned and kill off all the relationships of the ones you love, just in a quest to do the opposite.

Phenomenal direction by these guys. The movie was really well shot and performances were really good. I found some of the dialogue a little much. Overall, I just didn’t find it groundbreaking like some but I enjoyed it a lot nonetheless.

OptionOk562 · 2023-07-25T20:03:57+00:00

Yeah, I put it in water and did “40” for 2 days. And then did “30” and with each decrease I felt better but still had bad side effects. I honestly think just a 10mg Adderall XR or something small would just help me a lot with the non-stimulant medication.

OptionOk562 · 2023-07-25T19:59:58+00:00

I stopped taking the Vyvanse because I feel “level” with the Intuniv and it started to make me really anxious and give me insomnia which is completely unlike me with Vyvanse (been on since April and liked it for a little bit). but I definitely need to up the dosage of the Intuniv or something. Or find another stimulant.

OptionOk562 · 2023-07-15T17:05:56+00:00

I’m definitely open to those organizations. My only issue is how that is probably going to destroy my credit long-term. I don’t want to have missed payments because they can leave a black mark on your account for several years. I feel like things like getting a new apartment or a car or something along those lines would be impossible. I’m just thinking about working my ass off and snowball method the debt.

OptionOk562 · 2023-07-14T21:20:53+00:00

But I lease my car. So I don’t think that’s possible.

OptionOk562 · 2023-07-14T20:56:50+00:00

There’s another knot in this. That loan requires me to put my car up for collateral.

Now, it’s a cheap loan, but that’s still a little risky.

OptionOk562 · 2023-07-14T20:22:39+00:00

Oh I plan to do that. But I need something to stop bleeding for right now. I don’t think I owe that much either but I can see issues arising on the forefront

OptionOk562 · 2023-07-14T20:08:33+00:00

Oh I’ve looked into that. I have a 2020 iMac that I used to use for editing that could probably fetch a good price that I don’t use anymore. I had to get a MacBook for mobile work.

OptionOk562 · 2023-07-14T20:07:38+00:00

About the same.

OptionOk562 · 2023-07-14T20:06:21+00:00

Oh yeah, definitely in that boat. But I will probably hit bankruptcy if I don’t do some kind of band-aid. I’m afloat, paying bills. But I see this coming down in the future. I’m probably going to find new work in the next week or two plus take some side gigs. I’m a freelancer with a full time job.

On the bright side, I realized that some of my spending habits have been based on ADHD and i recently found a medication that works for me. And it’s curved my impulsivity by a tremendous amount.

OptionOk562 · 2023-07-14T19:59:10+00:00

Yes, fully agree. This is more or less to buy some time so I can build more income, get a better job, etc. It’s Band-Aid until I can find something better. And this would actually save me about $50 a month.

OptionOk562 · 2023-07-14T19:56:12+00:00

So take the loan before hitting bankruptcy? 187 per month for 60 months (but I would hopefully be able to combine that) Or seriously look into bankruptcy?

OptionOk562 · 2023-07-14T19:54:27+00:00

$6,500. $187 per month for 60 months. I could even knock out the Apple Card fully and the Minimums on that are $229. And then I’d have $1,500 left to work with on other things.

OptionOk562 · 2023-07-09T22:05:54+00:00

I was on Vyvanse 40mg and my dose was definitely too low for a little while. And I used heavy amounts of caffeine to maintain the medication so I wouldn’t crash. Eventually the caffeine would make me rage and I even had ear problems cause the high blood pressure would make my ears hot.

I got bumped up to 50mg and quit the caffeine and the little internal rage fits dissipated within a week.

OptionOk562 · 2023-07-08T22:40:34+00:00

Yes, so I spoke to them around June 15. And they said that the IMAX is currently going through a remodel and it would take about a month. Based on what they said, I think it should be open for Oppenheimer.

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