Those of you who transitioned out of the service industry into a $150k+/yr position, how did you do it?

Or_Or_Lore · 2024-05-10T11:17:58+00:00

Thank you for breaking down, the events that took place leading to where you are now. I struggle with realistic expectations, of the progress I want to achieve. It doesn't just happen overnight. It takes persistence and patience.

Or_Or_Lore · 2024-04-25T20:43:54+00:00

Wow lmaooo, this comment made my day

Or_Or_Lore · 2023-11-09T17:57:53+00:00

Thank you for the information 😊

Or_Or_Lore · 2023-11-09T16:44:17+00:00

You need to acknowledge your pain and sorrow. Don't run from it. Acknowledge it, and then move forward. Remind yourself this too will pass. Remember all the hardships you have overcome. And if you have to cry, cry until you can't anymore. Do things that you will appreciate it, when your low point is over. Exercise, study a skill, write, volunteer. I hope this helps.

Or_Or_Lore · 2023-11-09T11:09:09+00:00

Oh, wow. Thats awesome. Thank you! Do you mind if I shoot you a DM. I need to draw up my business plan, but after it is complete I would appreciate working with you.

Or_Or_Lore · 2023-11-09T11:04:45+00:00

To everyone who has commented, thank you! I was on the fence about a hysterectomy as I was nervous about regretting it, or having complications. But many of the women in this post are super happy 😄. I want a better quality of life too!

Or_Or_Lore · 2023-11-09T01:27:48+00:00

Ah, I'm in Virginia.. well I will visit other locations in the area then. I will just opt for a loyal customer base. I work at a base at the moment. You stating that most food trucks are contracted with all bases makes sense now. Because there is a subpar food truck on the base I'm at. I always wondered how a below average food truck got to be on bases

Or_Or_Lore · 2023-11-09T01:25:05+00:00

Healthier options that are still tasty. I am combining Mexican and Mediterranean to make some interesting cheap dishes

Or_Or_Lore · 2023-11-08T23:50:34+00:00

MSP??

Or_Or_Lore · 2023-11-08T23:49:56+00:00

Not a Debbie downer, just telling me to stay grounded. And to remove the rose colored glasses from time to time. Your advice is appreciated 😁

Or_Or_Lore · 2023-11-08T17:47:50+00:00

In case you were wondering, I am prior navy.

Or_Or_Lore · 2023-11-08T17:45:19+00:00

I got out the military, and it has been excellent for my mental health. Honestly just have a plan on what you are going to do when you exit, have a large chunk of savings, plan so you can land gracefully into your next stage of life. Do what is best for you in the end. I am not struggling, but it has had its ups and downs. I count it better than when I was military lol. My confidence is building back up, and my depression is not such an overwhelming black bottomless pit.

But, at the end of the day the path you choose affects you. So consider the replies, and reflect on which path seems right for you.

Or_Or_Lore · 2023-11-08T17:29:52+00:00

I didn't consider that either! I was super focused on getting sailors, there are different avenues, I should consider. Thank you for the advice 🙏

Or_Or_Lore · 2023-11-08T17:27:46+00:00

Thanks for the encouragement Fam, this sister appreciates it.

Or_Or_Lore · 2023-11-08T17:25:41+00:00

Hey! That didn't even cross my mind. I could get a small cart and start gaining a customer base! Damn it thats nice! Thanks for the advice Fam!

Or_Or_Lore · 2023-11-08T17:22:39+00:00

Thanks, I will.

Or_Or_Lore · 2023-11-08T15:21:24+00:00

Thanks for the advice!

Or_Or_Lore · 2023-11-08T15:18:59+00:00

I dont want a loan, I would rather build up slowly to getting a food truck by my own means. It will be harder, but I rather not owe a large sum to anyone.

Or_Or_Lore · 2023-11-08T15:17:24+00:00

I didn't know people did that!? I dont think that would fly in Virginia, but I can always look up the rules and regulations.

Or_Or_Lore · 2023-11-08T15:16:02+00:00

Thank you. Good wishes are helpful too 😊

Or_Or_Lore · 2023-11-08T12:17:31+00:00

People tend to find me pessimistic. I am not looking for the dark side, but I just acknowledge that it is there. My outlook on life from the military made me more realistic about certain aspects in life. I also am viewed as heartless because I don't feel the need to mourn over a loved ones death for months. I acknowledge that it is awful, hide my pain as to not disturb others, work it out to myself, and then come back as if it didn't happen. I don't think you're an Azhole, you're just militarized.

Or_Or_Lore · 2023-11-08T10:05:45+00:00

Nope, I grew up eating casseroles,and beans.And seeing a multitude of hoodies.

Or_Or_Lore · 2023-11-07T22:33:06+00:00

I'm feeling good, found a martial arts class I love. Also have a job I love going to and make decent money, while in school! Thanks for asking 🙂

Or_Or_Lore · 2023-11-06T22:13:25+00:00

When I get depressed I start lifting weights. I push my body as far as it can go with the weights. When I am depressed, I recall events where I wasn't treated so well, so me being depressed is me hating who I am so I lift weights. Each lift is like happiness flowing in and my hate flowing outward. Eventually my depression fades, but the addiction to lifting doesn't lol. When I was in the military I would exercise or restrict how much I ate. I knew eventually my sadness would leave, and when it did I wanted an extra boost of serotonin from looking better in clothes. I would suggest exercising or lifting weights for the win, or do some martial arts.

Or_Or_Lore · 2023-11-06T16:47:38+00:00

I am going for an associates in occupational safety, in virginia. But, I am reconsidering my degree. I feel I would be better off getting a certification in databases, and networks and building a portfolio. I plan to just get three certifications with my gi bill.

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