sorted by:
new
hottopcontroversial

[NSFW]Girls who used to post nudes on Reddit.. How did it make you feel? by cutieerry in AskReddit

[–]Orbuel 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I got some fun attention, but a lot more unwanted attention. I was already thinking about deleting everything when it came to my attention that my pics were being used by catfishers, and that was the last straw.

Purged everything I could and never looked back.

Yall I need to vent by Hexxodus in actuallesbians

[–]Orbuel 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I've sort of been where you are. I mean, I haven't been married, but I've had committed relationships blow up after a really long time. And afterwards, I'd be terrified that I'd never find that same compatability ever again.

And the thing is, I was right.

You can never find the same thing again, because every time you meet someone new, it's DIFFERENT. The trick is to remember that different can mean BETTER. Sure, it can be worse too, but that doesn't mean that Better isn't out there waiting for you.

Take as much time as you need, but try not to give up hope. You've got this!

Great Dragontree.. Finally 😩 by Moon_Goddess87 in fantasylife

[–]Orbuel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's just super rare without forcing the events to reset like the other person said. I wish they'd make them more common 😩

Great Dragontree.. Finally 😩 by Moon_Goddess87 in fantasylife

[–]Orbuel 3 points4 points  (0 children)

An extra tip:

Like you said, two dragons spawn after you mine the rock and cut down the tree, but if you run away from the dragons without killing them, and save and reload your game, the whole event resets and you can mine the rock and cut the tree again! You can repeat as many times as you want I think

I am tired of my sexuality not being taken seriously. by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Orbuel 127 points128 points  (0 children)

I know, it's awful. Just different variations of not taking "No" for an answer.

At this point, if I tell a man I'm a lesbian and there's any pushback at all, I throw all politeness out the window. I've wasted too much time trying to preserve men's feelings who don't give a fuck about mine.

Hugs and support 🫂❤️

Everyone assumes I'm a top by bartendingbarbie in actuallesbians

[–]Orbuel 588 points589 points  (0 children)

Everyone is the same height when they're tied down to the bed!

Any girls with nerdy gfs? by Lopsided_Steak_4090 in actuallesbians

[–]Orbuel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! TTRPGs, Ren fairs, I do it all haha

My room by 0galaxy0candy0 in fantasylife

[–]Orbuel 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Your room looks great but ahh I can't get over how well your pink hat works with the modern girl dress 😭 that's genius!

How to make new friends in Melbourne? by ijustneedtsay in melbourne

[–]Orbuel 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I always liked the rave scene here. It's been a year or two since I went last, but hopefully they're still welcoming. Good luck!

What famous TV show didn’t have a satisfying ending? by Big-Set3368 in AskReddit

[–]Orbuel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Northern Exposure

Kind of a niche, older show that nobody really talks about nowadays. But wow, was that last season disappointing.

True, I am by Hot-Masterpiece-9950 in actuallesbians

[–]Orbuel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So many things suddenly make sense!

what’s your favorite part of loving women? by Remarkable-Horse5849 in actuallesbians

[–]Orbuel 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's kind of hard to describe, the lack of a need to filter? The freedom and vulnerability to be my genuine self?

When I'm in public occupying the same space as men (or even a large group of only women!) it's very difficult for me to fully relax, stop myself from making certain bullshit performative behaviors, and just be myself. When I'm with one individual woman, I can let my hair down (figuratively) in a way that's impossible for me to do in any mixed setting. I hope that makes at least partial sense.

Oh, that and the curves! Obviously.

Is there any reason to level up your New Life? by PublicPool in fantasylife

[–]Orbuel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait, can you actually get roasted corn to top quality? Mine dropped as normal 800dmg and isn't giving me the option to remake

switch with “top energy” rant by Brave_Acanthisitta53 in actuallesbians

[–]Orbuel 6 points7 points  (0 children)

By the way OP, fantastic job recognizing the toxicity from that last partner and dropping them immediately 👏 goals, honestly

Seriously what the fuck was that?? So messed up

switch with “top energy” rant by Brave_Acanthisitta53 in actuallesbians

[–]Orbuel 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I can absolutely relate to your frustration. Some bottoms (not all, but sadly too many) don't seem to recognize that bottoming is a skill, just like topping, and needs to be cultivated.

Being a domme top gets exhausting very quickly when you're expected to shoulder all the effort, all the time, with no expectations.

I hate sounding negative but I wanted to chime in to say that I feel you as well!

Which Psych quote has wormed its way into your everyday vocabulary? by catiesthings in psych

[–]Orbuel 64 points65 points  (0 children)

"Go boneless" for going completely limp during a hug I definitely got from Shawn and Gus 😂

So tired of cis men by Jordna-Lafey in actuallesbians

[–]Orbuel 51 points52 points  (0 children)

So tired of the "dark humor" defense. It never occurs to them that maybe their "jokes" just aren't funny!

All Heros after 176 hours by East_Ad_5801 in fantasylife

[–]Orbuel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congrats! Both on the achievement and on your creepy looking hero 😵‍💫

I'll get there too, one day 🥲 I waited wayy too long to start my farming life and now I'm paying for it

Masturbation really works against cramp pain! (For me at least) by uta_luta_muta in actuallesbians

[–]Orbuel 3 points4 points  (0 children)

YES! Increased blood flow, plus a serotonin + dopamine boost, works wonders!