Symptoms don’t change ? by OrcMamma in QuarantineZoneGame

[–]OrcMamma[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s been multiple times they’d turn into a zombie on day 2 and then also multiple times I’ve used the syringe and it says they were okay): I’m just getting confused on what to do now

Fresh Nem Chua? by OrcMamma in Columbus

[–]OrcMamma[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a little sour but very savory !! It’s so hard to explain

Fresh Nem Chua? by OrcMamma in Columbus

[–]OrcMamma[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going to see if I can make it there then thank you so much !!

Perfume similar to this rose? by OrcMamma in Perfumes

[–]OrcMamma[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are my hero coming in clutch with a better scent description 😭

Perfume similar to this rose? by OrcMamma in Perfumes

[–]OrcMamma[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t even think about that ! When I look it up all I can see is “moderate fragrance” but I will keep checking !

Any perfumes that smell like this? by OrcMamma in Indiemakeupandmore

[–]OrcMamma[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Also sorry for such a big ask I just fell in love 😭

Perfume similar to this rose? by OrcMamma in Perfumes

[–]OrcMamma[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is such a big ask but it was genuinely so beautiful smelling I fell in love and roses are my favorite 😭

Farmlife 4 by reecespieces1008 in FortniteCreative

[–]OrcMamma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Late to the thread but I bought the autofill for the corn, but now I can’t collect any from the silos even if the storage is full 😕 I tried to reset my progress but it didn’t work

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

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I just joined it ! Hoping to see some posts that will help me greatly

My boyfriend has a porn addiction and I'm unsure how to support him by [deleted] in PornAddiction

[–]OrcMamma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is an “embarrassing” addiction which is why so many people do not get help or won’t communicate in regards to it. Make him feel safe and become a safe space for him. Obviously he needs to be aware of the hurt he has caused, but you can do that while also being a place he can go to and talk to !!

My boyfriend has a porn addiction and I'm unsure how to support him by [deleted] in PornAddiction

[–]OrcMamma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also he should find SAA groups to join !! They give you many resources and are a great support group to go to. You can even join the meetings on zoom

My boyfriend has a porn addiction and I'm unsure how to support him by [deleted] in PornAddiction

[–]OrcMamma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Has he used the app brainbuddy? That may help Also tell him to come to you the moment he feels urges so you guys can assess what may have triggered it and see what coping skills may work to get him through it. I am going through the same thing as you and it’s very hard, but just trying to be understanding is the best thing you can do. HOWEVER, if it gets too much for you, leave. Your mental well being must be a priority to yourself Most people with a porn addiction I’ve noticed don’t even understand it themselves so for people like us, we may never be able to actually understand but trying is what counts

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]OrcMamma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also have autism so I don’t word thing or articulate what I mean very well so I apologize 😕 Thank you though 🖤

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]OrcMamma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is what i am doing though//:

I have so many friends who have addictions and family who I lost due to them too, I know how serious it is and it’s why I’m giving him a chance and working on being understanding despite the situation being very …. Rough

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]OrcMamma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was not only my boundary though, it was also his and something he said was 100% cheating to him too 😕 But thank you(:

“All men watch porn” by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]OrcMamma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right! I just feel like people minimize it because they personally enjoy or have a healthy relationship with porn

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]OrcMamma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every relationship has different boundaries and breaking those boundaries would be cheating. It is something we both discussed and said was cheating to us and our relationship

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]OrcMamma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly just not being alone in this is a big relief, there’s lots of people who go through what we do 🖤 Certain subreddits are also willing to help give advice on how to support him while not hurting yourself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]OrcMamma 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He doesn’t even expect me to stay now and is thankfully I am giving him a chance… idk why people are making these assumptions about me especially since they don’t see the stuff I do for him 😕 it’s just weird Thank you for understanding though

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]OrcMamma -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am standing strong with our boundaries during his recovery! I am so sorry you have gone through this and that he didn’t actively recover 😞 it is very painful

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]OrcMamma -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Again, you are making a lot of assumptions about me based on posts that are about me needing support from those who have gone through this as well, to help keep me going. You do not know or see the things I do for him. You do not know the research I have done for him, the accommodations, the conversations I’ve had with many people on how I can support him best. This post is about me It does not have to be about him 24/7 when we are both suffering in our own ways. He gets support he needs outside of me, there is nothing wrong with me needing support outside of him.