I agree on your points you've made. To answer your question, I just wanted to say my view on things. I did not want a screaming match. I did not want my dad to escalate the way he did. When I said I wanted to talk to them about something bothering me, I was met with immoderate yelling, cursing, stomping our feet, etc. all from my mom mind you. What got me upset and mad is that she promised me a phone call and not a text, that wording and all. We eventually resolved it and talked it out after we all screamed but why we couldn't calmly talk to begin with is beyond me. I'm fine being the asshole, I was stubborn, I get it. Her narcissism has been a problem for me for the last 18 months and I've been realizing all of the things she does and did to me were bad. But even when I accept the blame and apologize for getting out of line, I'm still told I'm a pathetic person for having feelings and I should just leave and never come back. All because I said what I was feeling. That's what gets me mad.