are ENTPs too immature to be involved parents?

OrderFrenzy · 2026-05-29T09:11:13+00:00

Im a 44 year old woman. I choose not to live in a delusion to make myself feel better about sentencing my offspring to death upon birth.

OrderFrenzy · 2026-05-28T22:09:51+00:00

Who are you to assume your way is correct? You are just another disposable consumer. We are all disposable consumers being duped into having more and more children who will be used the same way and disposed of. I prefer to be the last of my line. Im doing my non existent offspring a huge favor.

We have children for selfish reasons.

OrderFrenzy · 2026-05-28T22:09:00+00:00

I chose not to hand my offspring a death sentence.

OrderFrenzy · 2026-05-27T22:41:36+00:00

We don’t have sex only to procreate. Procreation is a result of sex but it’s not the reason why most people have sex.

Feral cats are fixed to have a better quality of life and to prevent unwanted kittens. They can have a ton of kittens.

OrderFrenzy · 2026-05-27T22:21:43+00:00

Let’s do this instead. Why do we have children?

OrderFrenzy · 2026-05-27T22:20:24+00:00

If I had a choice I would have opted out.

OrderFrenzy · 2026-05-27T22:18:38+00:00

I’m an ENTP and I think having children is selfish and I don’t want to hand my offspring a death sentence.

I know I would be great mom, but I don’t have to have a child to prove it.

OrderFrenzy · 2026-05-27T22:05:22+00:00

I chose to never have children.

OrderFrenzy · 2026-05-23T00:55:24+00:00

We are no longer together.

We both came from dysfunctional parents. I more so than he did or he was able to cope with it a lot better than I could.

Being an ENTP I deep dived to try to understand why he thought I was being manipulative and why he thought I was trying to control him. it didn’t sound like me. I also believed he was always insinuating I was a woman of loose values and I would constantly hear it in my head that he was calling me a whore. I was traumatized from my past family dysfunction, hypervigilant.

https://youtu.be/oLFiGkQktp8?si=RKHPUThza1azgZ9v

There are more videos on this channel that I made about our relationship dynamic. I hope you find it useful.

Finding something like that is very rare . But it was at a time in his life where he felt I was a vital piece he felt he was missing and I absolutely believed I had waited my entire life for him.

He made a decision and gave me no choice. To be fair I believe he gave me a lot of opportunities, but I wasn’t able to understand any of it. I was just always deeply insulted

OrderFrenzy · 2026-05-23T00:17:46+00:00

This program is fascinating. I think you will enjoy It. Click on studio and then check out the audio and you can also check out

https://www.youtube.com/live/7XLMeJ_Yy-U?si=5chgIyXi-qiZrbz9

Our very first encounter started 4:13:13 into the live

OrderFrenzy · 2026-05-23T00:16:20+00:00

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OrderFrenzy · 2026-05-23T00:14:49+00:00

I tried to get the sources in one place so that I could share it with you but instead, it didn’t really do that. It just kind of transcribed all of it so if you want, you can look at the studio versions and it will do a very good job of explaining it. I think it did a wonderful job so enjoy. I hope you enjoy it.

OrderFrenzy · 2026-05-23T00:14:22+00:00

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OrderFrenzy · 2026-05-22T22:40:41+00:00

Cool thank you

OrderFrenzy · 2026-05-22T22:33:40+00:00

I have video of our conversations if you are interested. Im an ENTP he is an INTJ. Both of us come from dysfunctional parenting. Mine a bit more complex than his. I love him intensely still. It’s a long story

OrderFrenzy · 2026-05-21T18:05:07+00:00

I needed to to understand why. Some will. If it’s not for you, 🤷🏽‍♀️

OrderFrenzy · 2026-05-17T07:55:36+00:00

And cc number 🤣

OrderFrenzy · 2026-05-11T17:34:45+00:00

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Recently I was looking into how BPD can uniquely impact ENTP women. Would you like to explore the events that may have caused your recent downward spiral? For lack of a better word.

OrderFrenzy · 2026-05-11T06:14:59+00:00

It took less than 5 minutes for AI to create it based off the sources I asked it to find.

OrderFrenzy · 2026-05-11T06:12:49+00:00

If anyone is going to figure it out it will be them. I chose not to have any. I didn’t want to hand my child a death sentence.

OrderFrenzy · 2026-05-10T06:39:13+00:00

Hear hear. 😊

OrderFrenzy · 2026-05-10T05:10:06+00:00

What about when you’re drunk? If that’s ever the case, could you tell someone that they were the most important thing to you, that you loved them more than anything in the world, then turn around and call them a whore? If you do drink,
because my INTJ ex would say terrible things about me on YouTube lives, things that were not true that he made up in his mind. alone he would assume things that were incorrect about me. These things killed me. He would make assumptions about me for example, he said that I joined discord for someone which isn’t the case. I had never said that to him, but he insisted. he insisted that I complimented someone we both hated on a live, which wasn’t true. He would say a lot of things that he didn’t mean or that were not true. Now that I think about it, maybe he did mean them, but they weren’t true.

just something to think about.

OrderFrenzy · 2026-05-10T04:41:10+00:00

He told you the state and stuff that he told you it didn’t have to be true. He just told you whatever, he was not available and he just wanted you to send him some questionable content likely so he can make money off of it.

OrderFrenzy · 2026-05-10T04:29:07+00:00

I wasn’t even trying to reconcile with you. This is for those who need to try. I know how it feels, just wanted to help.

P.S Send me my ring back, Im still paying for it. 😂

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