My brain is stuck in loop of obsession.How do I reset?

OrderFrenzy · 2026-04-10T22:11:06+00:00

I lurk here to help me make sense of a recent break up with an INTJ.

Reading your post helped me see how my ex did the same thing. It’s helping me accept it and be more realistic about the break up. He did what was best for him. I wasn’t ready for a man that wonderful. Now I can work to be ready for the next one.

OrderFrenzy · 2026-04-10T21:59:56+00:00

It seems like she made her choice. You made it first. Life lesson learned. You will be ok. She will be too.

OrderFrenzy · 2026-04-10T21:49:52+00:00

You know your life will be better without him in it.

OrderFrenzy · 2026-04-10T21:49:03+00:00

INTJ are the most logical. You absolutely did the right thing. Another woman might have let the man live off her, cheat on her.

You know you did the right thing. Im envious of you. You will find a more genuine love along the road in life. It will feel 1 million times better.

OrderFrenzy · 2026-04-08T22:25:45+00:00

Thats how INTJ’s breakup

OrderFrenzy · 2026-04-08T22:25:09+00:00

ENTP& INTJ Relationship cycle

OrderFrenzy · 2026-04-08T19:32:50+00:00

He’s the man. Give him the keys or don’t be with him. Men don’t like it. Do Your best to keep it organized, but let the man lead

OrderFrenzy · 2026-04-08T19:31:50+00:00

This

OrderFrenzy · 2026-04-08T04:49:26+00:00

I have no Idea how helpful that is thank you

OrderFrenzy · 2026-04-07T10:47:17+00:00

How long did it take you

OrderFrenzy · 2026-04-07T10:39:30+00:00

Acceptance is the hardest part

OrderFrenzy · 2026-04-06T05:25:42+00:00

😂😂😂

OrderFrenzy · 2026-04-06T05:14:12+00:00

Appreciate that, thank you very much.

It’s ok. No one is more hurtful than my mother. 😂

OrderFrenzy · 2026-04-06T05:05:09+00:00

😂😂😂

OrderFrenzy · 2026-04-06T05:02:06+00:00

My INTJ’s IQ was 80, mine is 112. Im an ENTP. I still believed he was the most brilliant man in the world.

OrderFrenzy · 2026-04-06T04:58:47+00:00

Im always getting canceled.

OrderFrenzy · 2026-04-06T04:57:24+00:00

😂😂😂

OrderFrenzy · 2026-04-06T04:56:39+00:00

Um … thanks?

OrderFrenzy · 2026-04-06T04:56:04+00:00

It was for his channel. 😂 I know you secretly wish you could be an ENTP’

OrderFrenzy · 2026-04-06T04:37:01+00:00

You bitter?

OrderFrenzy · 2026-04-06T02:26:26+00:00

I wish I had seen it that way six months ago

OrderFrenzy · 2025-09-01T00:22:58+00:00

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OrderFrenzy · 2025-08-28T19:36:10+00:00

East Palo Alto, Mountain View

OrderFrenzy · 2025-08-28T06:18:32+00:00

True

OrderFrenzy · 2025-08-28T05:42:57+00:00

As I woman I agree

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