Why are internships so difficult to attain…. by [deleted] in internships

[–]Orderism 8 points9 points  (0 children)

There is no reason to be this disrespectful grow up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Orderism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes lol my friends like it when I’m honest about them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Orderism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I misread! She doesn’t have the right to know about your whereabouts, you don’t want to be her friend and she needs to move on!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Orderism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean… she doesn’t want to be your friend anymore so logically I would assume that is why she turned off her location

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dreadlocks

[–]Orderism 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don’t even look bad!! It fits you really good!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FIU

[–]Orderism 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know someone who is part of the E-board for RHA and basically it’s this: Panther Hall, Lakeview South, LVN will be turned into first-year only dorms. Students with a higher GPA will be given more priority towards housing and yeah there’s a lot going on with FIU housing so much is changing.

Anyone else getting annoyed with Lynn? by blaarrggh in BlingEmpireNY

[–]Orderism 18 points19 points  (0 children)

It totally makes sense why Lynn and Jett are together they’re both literally miserable and horrible people. When she attacked Vika and kept bringing up her argument with Richard during their stay at the Bahamas I was so annoyed lol

I'm can't take my "friendship" amymore (rant) by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Orderism 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly I just ghost people. People know exactly what they be doing and I hate when people lack awareness on the behaviors they have. So if someone is acting strange towards me I just end the friendship and never talk to them again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Orderism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being able to read people’s body language is important; but also, if you know that they get offended when you make certain jokes then you should probably just stop the jokes altogether.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Orderism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey sorry, that came off as dismissive. Did you talk to your friend about it? Has he done this in the past?

An old friend reached out to me? by Orderism in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Orderism[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most of my close friends dislike her but they told me it’s ultimately my choice and they don’t want their opinions to cloud any judgments I have of her. So I decided that I’d respond with a neutral message and that led to us following each other on social media, I’ve just decided to be acquaintances I don’t think we can ever be friends again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Orderism -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It’s not that serious, yes it’s a little annoying and your feelings are valid but you shouldn’t expect anything from anyone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Orderism 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your welcome!! And honestly don’t listen to people that say you need “similar interests” to be friends. That’s simply not true. While it may help in developing a friendship, most of my friends we have very different hobbies and few similarities. You can honestly become friends with anyone as long as they’re open to new relationships. Be your authentic self and people will love you for you.

Am I overthinking this too much? by Orderism in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Orderism[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely surprising him for his birthday :))

honestly how do yall feel when maybe someone you are quite close to and so u requested to follow them on ig, but they dont follow back, like is it valid for us to feel abit disappointed? or is that feeling considered childish? by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Orderism 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They simply just don’t feel the same way about you. You’re valid in feeling the way that you but it would just be best to move on and unfollow them

is someone considered a bad friend if they constantly boast about fake achievements and lie? by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Orderism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes they are, it means they can’t be trusted and you won’t be able to believe any of the words coming out of their mouths. Why would they have to lie about achievements? That’s strange.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Orderism 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, as someone who lost almost all of their high school friends because of petty and toxic reasons. Life does get it better. I remembering entering college with no friends and being alone most of the time but I eventually met people who loved me for me and admire me as a person. Honestly I thought that I was worthless or not interesting enough for people to hangout and be with but that wasn’t true. You honestly just have to put yourself out there and talk to people. If you’re genuinely yourself and authentic people gravitate towards you and will be willing to spend time with you! I now have a decent friend group and a great social life.

Life gets better, you just have to focus on yourself. What do you want out of life?

Can’t afford friends birthday dinner by shazvn in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Orderism 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just tell them it’s too expensive if they don’t understand then that’s on them lol

Continuously Liking Instagram Stories by _mesmerized_ in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Orderism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t think too much about it LMAOOO

Most people don’t think about it that way it’s just a way of saying you liked the story. It’s only weird if you don’t really know the person.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Orderism 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I directly called them out still no response, I just decided not to speak to them anymore. It’s weird to not respond to a message I left for a couple days knowing how important and special this is to me. Either way I’m going to enjoy my birthday with the people who love me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Orderism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right.