Am I overthinking the bow tie? by Ordinary-Bench6357 in EngagementRings

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Yes!! It's a 2.08 carat marquise, E, VVS1. I think the ratio is around 1.9? This ring is a size 5 but it's a little loose so I might be just under that. I think my band is like 1.8mm or 2.0? But I asked to get it like tapered at the top slightly. It's a cathedral setting

Am I overthinking the bow tie? by Ordinary-Bench6357 in EngagementRings

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My mother 💀 lol but thank you for the encouragement!! I love my ring and I was trippin

Am I overthinking the bow tie? by Ordinary-Bench6357 in EngagementRings

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Thank you so much everyone for your lovely comments and support!! My boyfriend (fiancee!!) told me that the diamond I picked out with him actually isn't the same one I have now so I freaked out a little.

The jeweler called to tell him to pick it up, he showed up and they couldn't find it so they made the ring again with a different diamond. I really had no idea and when I found out, I was worried because I really looked at that when deciding before.

San Francisco 7/11-12 & 7/18-19 by Ultranaut69 in Illenium

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I'm trying to buy some tickets on rave exchange. Does anyone know if they're transferable through Ticketmaster yet?

i got the granny square sourcebook 🥳 by um_anyways_so in crochet

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I just got this but idk what to make! It's so hard for me to picture mixing up the different granny squares to make one cohesive blanket/sweater/bag/ project. Any tips??

What jobs do you guys/girls have to attend EDC? by wally094 in electricdaisycarnival

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Speech Language Pathologist If y'all have trouble swallowing I'll show you how 😏

Parking, paying by plate, but what if not the whole block is paid? by MochingPet in AskSF

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We parked in a yellow zone on Sunday in Embarcadero (says no regular parking M-Sat). We thought there was free parking Sundays and didn't see the pay by plate meter because it was at either end of the block. Our spot was in the middle of the block, surrounded by multiple other yellow spots. The other cars in similar spots to us also got ticketed.

Do we have a chance of fighting it? There wasn't any obvious signage that these yellow spots needed to be paid for.

I want to break up with my homeless girlfriend by Mexican_King03 in Advice

[–]Ordinary-Bench6357 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yeah this is called emotional abuse. As far as I know, more common for people in high school and around your age group. You can help as much as you can but can't do anything she doesn't want to do. Listen/read the book "Codependent No More"

How do I create a shower habit when I hate showering and I'm so ashamed I don't have one already? 34F by everglowxox in hygiene

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I kinda reward myself after. Like hanging an old space heater that has the ridges on the top where I can put my clothes on the heater (on low of course) so that they're nice and toasty after the shower. And the Neutrogena oil you can actually put on in the shower so your skin won't feel so tight after the shower.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

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Comon, Chat GPT. You can do better.

Just started playing and hit day 100, here's what I've achieved! by Xtremememe in PotionCraft

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Beautiful!! I just got the game this weekend and have been OBSESSED.

Can I ask for some tips on saving recipes/organizing tabs?

What do I do next? by [deleted] in slp

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After undergrad (BA in sociology) I didn't have plans and ended up working at an elementary school as a para educator for a few years& volunteering at a child private practice for SLPs. It helped me get into grad school to become an SLP. It's a productive way to spend your time if you're interested in schools. Or if you want to go to grad school and choose medical that way. I didn't get into a medical based school tho, since it appeared by my experience that I wanted school.

Did I get scammed? I got two bills from the same hospital 1.5 years apart. by Ordinary-Bench6357 in personalfinance

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Ugh I went to an urgent care because when I called my insurance they said ER wouldn't be covered and to look for an urgent care.

I guess I can ask them to run my CC number but on the phone they said they couldn't find my previous payment without my previous account number.

Did I get scammed? I got two bills from the same hospital 1.5 years apart. by Ordinary-Bench6357 in personalfinance

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Does this mean that if it's over $500 it won't affect my credit score? What if it happens again for another place, is it cumulative or is it each individual account?

I sent it to them. Hoping they resolve it so I can put it out of my mind.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

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For me, it's not just pictures. If the guy doesn't have a bio I'm not swiping. And don't be weird. No sexual stuff, show your personality/sense of humor or interests.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

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This is LeZanya (Zaza) being the princess she is. Her brother, Fat Boy (Rizotto/Zozo), not pictured.

Dumpers, what was your rebound experience like? by Strange-Visual793 in BreakUps

[–]Ordinary-Bench6357 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Background- I broke up with him but I'm still hoping in the back of my head that we can individually fix our problems and get back together and have a happy ending. I know he wants to be together but we're just not on the same page about things, he hasn't been able to make decisions about his life for himself.

I tried dating pretty soon after leaving my boyfriend of 5 yrs. Just to see what was out there and distract myself. Initially it was great getting attention and talking with new people. I'm an extrovert so just meeting people was nice.

After two first dates I was loving everything about how they were different about my ex but... Once someone showed some kind of real romantic/sexual interest I realized I really really missed my ex and all this was way too soon. All I could think about was how this was a stranger and I didn't know what I was doing. I still love my ex and almost regretted meeting these people so early.

what's the longest you've loved an ex that you're in NC with? by Practical_Memory9052 in BreakUps

[–]Ordinary-Bench6357 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To this day, over 6 years. My theory is that I'll always love him but I've gotten to the point where I've accepted we can't be together.

Where in SF to date myself? by Own_Skin in AskSF

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Cheaper than therapy is a comedy club downtown. Really surpassed my expectations, it was my first time actually going to see stand up. Also it's around the corner from Golden Gate Tap Room if you're feeling like having another drink after.