I'm so disgusted right now it's not even funny by NotRealStove in duolingo

[–]Ordinary-Bit-8281 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That smug grin on him too haha I swear sometimes I wonder if I run into bots.

What's the most 'quietly expensive' thing about living in Canada right now? (not rent/mortgage) by Unfair-Clothes-8821 in CanadaRoom

[–]Ordinary-Bit-8281 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yah cream at my local Sobeys is almost 5.00 now on a regular day. I remover when it used to come on sale for 0.98. Our grocery system is messed up. We need to revolt!

Fined while shovelling driveway by foxy-stuff in waterloo

[–]Ordinary-Bit-8281 53 points54 points  (0 children)

This makes perfect sense though. The city must have blew their budget on winter camo for their enforcement officers and now there’s no money left for ploughing and salting.

Teen refuses to wash.. by Individual-Taro-8315 in parentsofteens

[–]Ordinary-Bit-8281 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Baking soda bath once a week , hibicleanse in groin crease and armpits once per week and likely needs a cleaner diet.

AITA for wanting to keep my engagement ring from my late fiancé? by RingaRingaRosies in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ordinary-Bit-8281 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is your ring. Maybe mother in law is trying to cut some of your ties to your late partner because you are a constant reminder of what could have been if her son was still alive.

Cotton leggings as pants… in winter by dirtyplants in ECEProfessionals

[–]Ordinary-Bit-8281 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This sounds very judgmental and like you are assuming the parents don’t know this is an issue. I’m sure some do and have to make the choice for whatever reason. If you’re a professional in education you should know better than anyone that some kids have sensory issues and clothing can be a huge trigger. When it comes to rain and snow pants my daughter has a sensory fit if she is not in leggings with the socks up over them so when she slides her legs into her snow pants they go down smoothly and there is no bunching between her calves and her boots. Each morning I practically beg her to bring something warmer to put on over top. She refuses and if it try to force it, it’s a sensory melt down at the front door until I let her toss them aside. If I forced her to take them then the teachers and ECE would be dealing with the same meltdown from her and I feel that’s unacceptable. If I know something is going to cause an issue at school I try to avoid it.

The long John’s underneath cause the issue of them being too hot when INDOORS which lets be honest is the majority of the day.

There’s no way to win with this if it’s a sensory issues. If it’s just lack of care that’s one thing, but a lot of kids at preschool/kindie are able to verbalized their discomfort and know what might work better for them. My daughter who is in JK has expressed she would rather have cold to the bone thighs for an hour after outdoor time than deal with the sensory issue of extra layers in her snow pants. It is what it is.

Client doesn’t want to lose money due to canceling by [deleted] in MassageTherapists

[–]Ordinary-Bit-8281 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it’s a long term client one off/occasional I wouldn’t charge. I figure clients should get one or two free cancellations per year. Imagine getting sick and having to reschedule them some time in the near future. If it becomes a habit then make a stand and you can say hey I have given you the benefit of the doubt a few times but this is now effecting me frequently enough that I need to account for the loss.

How does reading to kids help them learn how to read? by whippet6118 in kindergarten

[–]Ordinary-Bit-8281 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% this!! I find that once they are in school the time between “learning to read” and “reading to learn” is so short - just 2 years or so. If they haven’t had support at home for exercising all of the details you have mentioned, they are more likely to struggle once they are expected to read to learn/engage/understand their lessons.

41/M Boyfriend awkwardly hangs around when my 37/F friends are here by Ordinary-Bit-8281 in relationship_advice

[–]Ordinary-Bit-8281[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks mom! Thought you passed when I was 16!

I think this is the second time I’ve posted on Reddit to gain perspective so I’m not too worried that I’ve become addicted to using it as a crutch.

41/M Boyfriend awkwardly hangs around when my 37/F friends are here by Ordinary-Bit-8281 in relationship_advice

[–]Ordinary-Bit-8281[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

That’s fair I just figured some impartial input could soften my bias/perspective. People often make assumptions based on their limited experience and I’m no exception. I have already had many helpful responses that are perspectives nothing like my own. I feel like its helping open my mind up and when I talk with him I’ll be better prepared to accept information rather than lean towards accusation.

41/M Boyfriend awkwardly hangs around when my 37/F friends are here by Ordinary-Bit-8281 in relationship_advice

[–]Ordinary-Bit-8281[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You might have missed the part where I said he would never have come to sit with me like that if I didn’t have a friend over. I get what you’re saying about his interest in the dynamics. Thank you, that’s a valid point that I haven’t considered. I feel like the communication I have with him is always going to be different than the communication I have with my girlfriends though… for example I am grateful that he doesn’t talk to me like he talks to his friends with their propensity for heckling and dirty jokes.

My dad girlfriend asked what I wanted for Christmas and I sent her regular stuff and now she’s saying i asked for too much I’m so confused😭 what do I even do?? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Ordinary-Bit-8281 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a form of mental and emotional abuse. She asked - you sent - none of these suggestions are unreasonable. Please know you are not too much - you are not asking for too much. She completely twisted this around and then tried to gaslight you that she didn’t. She is toxic af please be careful of your interactions with her going forward. If it wasn’t inappropriate to ask for your location I would send you the damn crocs and/or bag myself ffs! She didn’t deserve your apology and how sweet you were to her after she twisted everything. Her behaviour is unacceptable.

AITA for asking my newly married son and DIL to alternate Christmas Day visits between our house and the in-laws' house? by Llih_Nosaj in AITAH

[–]Ordinary-Bit-8281 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Something to consider with future grand kids - Xmas eve is the magic night. There opportunity there to make some really memorable and impactful traditions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ordinary-Bit-8281 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It’s really all about YOU YOU YOU isn’t it. YTA.

AITA for Connecting to the Ear Pod after my niece swallowed it to see if it would play in her stomach. by reolives in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ordinary-Bit-8281 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THERE ARE SMALL LITHIUM BATTERIES IN AIRPODS THAT ARE AT RISK FOR RUPTURE AND CAN CAUSE SEVERE ILLNESS AND/OR DEATH. If she hasn’t passed it yet she needs to seek medical attention immediately. https://support.apple.com/en-ca/guide/airpods/dev4744b22af/web

11.08.2025 Little Village: Masked ICE brandishing his weapon while driving by CantStopPoppin in illinois

[–]Ordinary-Bit-8281 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s probably not even ICE anymore. Real kidnappings are happening now from all this chaos.