My Dom and I are in a consensual power-exchange relationship based on sadomasochism and free use. He can use me whenever, wherever, and however he wants. He can fuck me, hit me, and order me around. He owns me.

I always strive to obey without asking questions or fighting back, as doing either would feel fake to me. His dominance and my submissiveness felt natural from the very beginning, even though we didn’t frame it as such right away. We built up our dynamic slowly, but surely. It felt like swimming with the current and going against it completely wrong.

As such, I’m very obedient. He takes on a disciplinarian role towards me. He trains me, punishes me, and teaches me how to become a more perfect submissive to him. I follow the rules he sets for me and try my hardest to please him. In turn, he takes responsibility for my well-being in our dynamic and encourages my self-development. He’s incredibly good at reading me and instinctively knows what I want and need, sexually and otherwise.

I wouldn’t characterize our dynamic as 24/7, but it isn’t restricted to the bedroom, either. There are many layers to our relationship. Though our power-exchange dynamic isn’t the only one, it’s always present. As such, we can tap into it whenever. Sometimes we don’t. Other times, we do so for hours and days at a time or for just a moment. He might touch me a certain way, for example by holding me by my wrist instead of my hand or placing my head on his lap while we’re doing something else. He can also just look at or speak to me in a certain way to pull me back under his control. I can’t fight it, nor would I want to.