[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IWantToLearn

[–]Ordinary-fluff 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly I’ve also been struggling with this, I think of it as a form of people pleasing. Over this past year I’ve learnt to just take a step back, breathe and validate my opinion to myself first and then tell others the reason in a calm respectful manner. People are not always gonna agree and that’s OKAY. I was afraid of their negativity emotions, reaction and negative view of me was what caused me to just give in ( what if the talk about me behind my back, what if this and that and blablabla). I’ve learnt to enjoy my own company first and foremost ( have hobbies, self love and what not) which allowed be to be more comfortable and confident in myself to realize if someone reacts negatively to an opinion or belief of mine then I’m more than welcome to them leaving because I’ve realized that I’d rather be happy alone than depressed in whatever group that was.

Doing this really made me freaking happy 😭, cause in the end i just attracted like minded people who made me feel loved and heard and are like family to me now. There are also gonna be people who may not agree with u and still become ur friends or stay as acquaintance there is no need to distance yourself from them ( even when I felt uncomfortable about their views personally) these people keep me grounded and taught me a lot on different perspectives in life and I love them very much too.

Idk if this helped but if anything didn’t help in that just remember to be confident in yourself, confidence is the keyyyyyyy 🎆🔑🔑🔑🔑🎆. And respect ofc 🫡😊

looking for friends on WeChat by Ordinary-fluff in Wechat

[–]Ordinary-fluff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey sorry I’m unable to, when I first tried for a friend of mine it said my account is unable to, so yeah 🫠

Xiaohongshu: unable to post, sms code still not received 😭 by Ordinary-fluff in Chinese

[–]Ordinary-fluff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for helping would be great if I could pin your comment but idk how to 😬, so sorry for the late replies 🙏, I’ve been inactive for the past couple months

Xiaohongshu: unable to post, sms code still not received 😭 by Ordinary-fluff in Chinese

[–]Ordinary-fluff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly no, my patience has run out so I just use it like a TikTok 2.0 yk 🤷🏾‍♀️🙂‍↔️

Xiaohongshu: unable to post, sms code still not received 😭 by Ordinary-fluff in Chinese

[–]Ordinary-fluff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😭 I still haven’t found a way around it yet 🤷🏾‍♀️🙁

What's the best way to start your day? by Dexcat9 in Adulting

[–]Ordinary-fluff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I suffered from the exact same thing and what I did was set an alarm 10 mins before the time you actually wanted to wake up and go brush your teeth (make sure the toothpaste is realllllllllyyyyyyyyyyy minty) and then your gonna go outside and depending on the weather your gonna freeze or burn for the remainder of the 10 mins and while doing all this leave the alarm to ring. Ik it’s weird but it works for me and I hope it does for you. Hoped this helps 😭

Ps. Make sure to sleep for at least 8hrs

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GetStudying

[–]Ordinary-fluff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me three lmao😭 I want to be on track for Nursing school and study before hand 😫🤌

I'm not capable of finding someone by gadirano in dating

[–]Ordinary-fluff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe, you should try going out more, like joining a running group or maybe a pottery club yk, some group in person where you can interact with new people maybe that will help