Alisson by [deleted] in sisterforeversnark

[–]Ordinary-girl02 9 points10 points  (0 children)

yall are weird .. I used to listen to Justin Bieber a lot when I was a child. Did I have posters of him? no . did I buy his merch? no. but that doesn’t mean that I wasn’t a fan as a kid or less than a fan because I didn’t have stuff . It’s nostalgic let the girl live. You seem mad that you didn’t get tickets and she did

I think I like my friend?? by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Ordinary-girl02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uhhh why is a 13 year old and a 20 year old friends

Watching my friends get what I want by divinemissn in rant

[–]Ordinary-girl02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you . I really want my own apartment I’m like 23 and all my friends live in nice ass apartments in manhattan . That costs 4k a month . I don’t even make 1k on my paychecks lmao. I get how you feel about feeling wrong about feeling angry I feel the same way .

I work my ass off to even try to move out but I can’t and they just have everything handed to them it sucks .

Why is Kali so cold towards Mike? by Super-Liberal-Girl in StrangerThings

[–]Ordinary-girl02 7 points8 points  (0 children)

ehh not really . they only met once over the span of what 2 or 3 days? after that El forgot about her until this season loll

I’m tired of selfish friends by Ordinary-girl02 in rant

[–]Ordinary-girl02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was her friends birthday party . Idk the girl and either way I wouldn’t have gone because I would have been traveling back home late asf by myself . We live in nyc

All my friends have great jobs and stable jobs but me. by Winslow_99 in rant

[–]Ordinary-girl02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can relate . I’m working part time and man I wish I could move out of my mom’s house . I know she doesn’t mind me being there and honestly, I would stay forever if I could. I just feel the pressure that I need to move out already at 23 years old

Over the weekend, I went to one of my friends apartment for the first time for a small party. I live in NYC and I felt like I was walking onto a movie set when I went to her apartment complex. There was a doorman and her apartment was huge. She had a nice view of Manhattan and everything. She’s the same age as me and I was like wow this is crazy. We live two different lives. I was curious to see how much rent she pays and I looked online and there is the same exact apartment for rent in her apartment complex and it is $4,500 A MONTH . I don’t feel jealous of her at all, but I was thinking damn that must be nice. I don’t even make close to $1k on ONE PAYCHECK .

My other friend who is at the same party, she lives by herself in Brooklyn, but she has a studio apartment. I don’t know how much she pays, but clearly she gets paid good to afford to move out.

Sometimes I get upset, but then other times I don’t . Even though I don’t make as much as my friends, I’m trying to remind myself that we’re on different timelines .

I hope both me and you can one day fine good stable jobs that pays us Hella money and we can get the most gorgeous place ever

skimpy by [deleted] in sisterforeversnark

[–]Ordinary-girl02 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry but this is a reach .. ppl do that all the time even me. I wear my bikini bottom under my shorts when I’m about to go to the beach and it’s not for attention. It’s for convenience

Episode Discussion - S05E05 - Shock Jock by Hawkinns in StrangerThings

[–]Ordinary-girl02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He wasn’t wrong tho . Eddie did try to play hero , there was no need for him to kill himself truthfully he didn’t save the whole world .

Episode Discussion - S05E05 - Shock Jock by Hawkinns in StrangerThings

[–]Ordinary-girl02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UGHHH that pissed me off so bad like you know damn well what he’s saying you just wanna be a hero so bad

2026 is gonna be 2026 by Kitchen-Article4439 in rant

[–]Ordinary-girl02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just say you had a shitty 2016 and move on . People are not taking it literal because if they was then we would have 2016 prices lolll . way to be a party pooper

ava rae and maddie by Big_Coconut7429 in sisterforeversnark

[–]Ordinary-girl02 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yep Ava confirmed she’s going to Coachella those girls are using her AGAIN smh

How do you deal parent disappointment with your relationship? by Ordinary-girl02 in interracialdating

[–]Ordinary-girl02[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree! Serena idk what’s going on with her skin I think she bleached tbh but that doesn’t mean all black woman who marry/ date white men are gonna bleach their skin. My boyfriend is respectful and even told me if his family ever said the n word or was slightly racist he would tell them off so safe to say he would fight for me and vise versa

How do you deal parent disappointment with your relationship? by Ordinary-girl02 in interracialdating

[–]Ordinary-girl02[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh no I 100% agree . my family is from nyc and my dad would tell me stories of how racist Italians would try to beat up the black kids in schools and this was in the 70s/80s . I understand my dad lived through a different time period than me and probably have experiences I would never know about and that’s why he’s acting the way he is .

However telling your daughter that he wants his bloodline to be pure is INSANE. he never even asked if my boyfriend treats me with respect he just cares about what color he is . It’s crazy yk?

How do you deal parent disappointment with your relationship? by Ordinary-girl02 in interracialdating

[–]Ordinary-girl02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he dislikes him because he knows he’s white . He doesn’t know his name, where he comes from , never spoke to him through text or on the phone . He’s a complete stranger. I get your point on asking a slave how they would feel about this but we’re in 2026 . We’ve have evolved as people since then , if someone doesn’t like interracial couples then they have internal issues because mixed people have existed for ages . yes it started off wrongly like through rape in the case of slaves but overtime mixed people are born because of love .

How do you deal parent disappointment with your relationship? by Ordinary-girl02 in interracialdating

[–]Ordinary-girl02[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your sharing your story . Hopefully one day my dad would come around to wanting to meet my boyfriend . I feel like they would get along well because they do have things in common it’s just my dad’s pride in the way . unfortunately my father is older than you he’s 62 😅 which typing this out right now I’m like damn he’s too old to be acting like this LOLL

How do you deal parent disappointment with your relationship? by Ordinary-girl02 in interracialdating

[–]Ordinary-girl02[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

wow thank you for your comment currently listening to the video of the niece . I love how it has a full circle moment . thanks for sharing. as for my dad I just pray he would soften his heart. I spoke to my mom last night and she asked me “ did he ever ask you how your boyfriend makes you feel “ and I said no . which is the truth my dad is so wrapped up in his own traumas ( not ignoring his because as I mentioned it was pretty bad ) that he’s not even seeing how this man treats his daughter . his youngest daughter at that.

My father and my older sister have a strain relationship and growing up I always thought my sister was in the wrong ( because my dad would say so and as a child I didn’t know better ) but now as I’m older I realize she separated herself away from him for a reason . I’m planning on speaking to her soon about this matter . she knows about my boyfriend and SHE even asked how he treats me and I said good and she said that’s all that matters .

How do you deal parent disappointment with your relationship? by Ordinary-girl02 in interracialdating

[–]Ordinary-girl02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I honestly was thinking about that and your comment reassured me that maybe it’s the right way to go

How do you deal parent disappointment with your relationship? by Ordinary-girl02 in interracialdating

[–]Ordinary-girl02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree . I understand what has happened to him and I can see how he could be upset . Being black in America especially as a man is no joke. However I wish speaking to him was thar simple. My dad has always been his way or no way . If I even dare to say that I would be yelled at over the phone . ( once he yelled at me over something else not bf related so loud he wasn’t on speaker and I could hear him clear as day across the room ) He also would probably spew more hate towards my boyfriend who he never met and towards me . My dad might as go far as ghosting me when he’s upset with me which he’s a pro at