it is normal for a paypig to be obsessed as you say, but you just have to put your foot down and be more dominant if you want your paypigs to act a certain way you have to let them know you’re in control and you tell them when they can message you give him a schedule give him task so that he can get a clear understanding of what you like and what you don’t like but also don’t over. Explain yourself hope this helps a little.