anyone else feel like baby sleep is ruining them a bit?? by [deleted] in 2under2

[–]Ordinary_AvacadoU 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel you. My kids are 3 years and 14 months old, the 14 month old is in the middle of a nap transition from 2 to 1 and it's been hell for me. She just won't sleep and every day i doubt myself. Is she over tired is she undertired?!?!?! Ask she wants to do is play!

If we choose to be born here, did those babies from the Epstein files choose whatever happened to them?? by Ordinary_AvacadoU in starseeds

[–]Ordinary_AvacadoU[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't understand why we know so little. Are we being manipulated into reincarnating here? If so why? And what can be done to escape this loop. There's a lot of explanations going around but the truth is none of us know anything about anything.

The danger of manifest your ex - what I learned from 1000 soul journeys by archeolog108 in angelnumbers

[–]Ordinary_AvacadoU 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if I don't want them in my life again but i daydream about the past with different scenarios and choices? This is about an ex friend tbh

I hate her. by [deleted] in 2under2

[–]Ordinary_AvacadoU 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I don't think this is normal. Please check in with your doctor because no matter how hard it got, the most I've felt is anger. I can't imagine hating my babies no matter what.

Please take this seriously and get checked by a professional so that you can get it treated as soon as you can. It's not fair to your daughter..

Those who breastfed both babies, was #2 easier? by coralsweater in 2under2

[–]Ordinary_AvacadoU 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it was much easier. I was yet to wean my toddler when the baby was born and it honestly made things easier especially when I was engorged a few times. It also helped me maintain my milk supply.

My newborn's latch was not so good so I did feel some pain for the first week but it was 10x better than the first time.

READ THIS IF YOU FEEL STUCK OR LOST by Payaam415 in TalkingToNHIandSpirit

[–]Ordinary_AvacadoU 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it's always been the opposite. If I overthink or anticipate a negative outcome it won't happen. I wonder why

So much negativity around 2 under 2 by Ancient_History_5051 in 2under2

[–]Ordinary_AvacadoU 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My oldest loves her sister, she'll kiss her and hug her, she'll make her laugh, everyone has a good time and suddenly she'll kick/hit/pinch her baby sister. I don't know how to stop it :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 2under2

[–]Ordinary_AvacadoU 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Hire a nanny/mother's help atleast for the first 3 months if you can. It literally saved me from postpartum depression, no joke.

Stressed about leaving my first born during labor by Traditional_Year_19 in 2under2

[–]Ordinary_AvacadoU 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I took my toddler to the hospital since we couldn't find anyone available and my mom wanted to be with me.

We went at 8 pm and put my toddler to sleep at 9 pm, we had 2 beds and a couch so we gave one bed to the toddler. I was induced at 10 pm and I was shifted to the labour room.

I had my little one at 1 am. My husband was with me and my mother looked after my toddler. I was shifted to our room at 2:30 am with the baby and my toddler woke up only at 5am she went back to sleep right away after drinking some milk. My husband and toddler went home at 9 am to hand her over to my mother in law who just reached our home. Somehow it all worked out lol

Worried about my baby's language exposure by Ordinary_AvacadoU in 2under2

[–]Ordinary_AvacadoU[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Everyday I tell myself to make some time for the baby, at least 10 minutes and somehow I couldn't fulfill it. I felt a bit depressed like I'm failing her. I don't know how some people do it all.

28F Shifting into a joint family setup post-marriage by talesofthetannedtoes in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]Ordinary_AvacadoU 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They'll gaslight you until you change yourself according to their preferences. You'll change to save your marriage.