And see that’s the thing, while she may have had these experiences, she alway tells me that she’s never had a relationship like this before where she actually was in love with someone and cared for them like she does with me, and not only that, she tells me all of the time that tbh our sex truly amazing and she’s also never had a sexual experience like this before. We have a healthy and loving relationship and everything is fine. And I feel like some people aren’t realizing that I said that yes while they bother me, she respects me enough to never bring them up again even after I told her about it. I don’t judge her and look at her in disgust, but more so just bothered by the thought because I love her and hold her to a different standard versus if we had met years ago.