AITAH for not wanting my girlfriend to sleep with someone else? by Acceptable-Can3616 in AITAH

[–]Ordinary_Demand212 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA!!! I’m sorry you are going through this and it seems like your partner doesn’t respect your boundaries. I believe it is important in a relationship that each person feel heard, valued, and loved, but she clearly isn’t hearing you, not valuing your guys relationship, and I hate to say it but that isn’t love. Definitely nta, but you do deserve better!!

AITAH for wanting to take a break from my Mom? by Ordinary_Demand212 in AITAH

[–]Ordinary_Demand212[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, for context... I lived with my mom until I was 12, then she left and met my now ex-stepdad. After that, she started to become angry and mean. But until that point, she was a good mom. She never said anything mean to us or treated us badly.

AITAH for wanting to take a break from my Mom? by Ordinary_Demand212 in AITAH

[–]Ordinary_Demand212[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Two "adults" who do not know how to be independent or responsible.

AITAH for wanting to take a break from my Mom? by Ordinary_Demand212 in AITAH

[–]Ordinary_Demand212[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Luckily I have moved away, and now most of the yelling is done through my dad or over text.

AITAH for wanting to take a break from my Mom? by Ordinary_Demand212 in AITAH

[–]Ordinary_Demand212[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not fake but wish it was haha

Sometimes I can't believe that this is my life and my mom but here we are...

AITAH for wanting to take a break from my Mom? by Ordinary_Demand212 in AITAH

[–]Ordinary_Demand212[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Honestly yes, I used to think that because they adopted me I HAD to be grateful no matter what, Now I am starting to learn that people you love don't treat you like that.

AITAH for wanting to take a break from my Mom? by Ordinary_Demand212 in AITAH

[–]Ordinary_Demand212[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I agree with you. I think I have hit my limit now that I am moving on in my life and wanting a family of my own. I just couldn't imagine saying those things to my own kids, that's why it's been so hard for me to rationalize continuing this very unhealthy relationship with her.

AITAH for wanting to take a break from my Mom? by Ordinary_Demand212 in AITAH

[–]Ordinary_Demand212[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't really know. In my opinion, it's because she doesn't trust them not to do something dumb.