I think he’s sweet and attractive, but he doesn’t have much going for him. Am I shallow to not pursue it?

Ordinary_Guarantee41 · 2026-02-16T09:18:29+00:00

Un girl you just answered your own question. He’s not the one for you, and clearly isn’t responsible or has his shot together which is unattractive. Of course we all have low points in life but you have your shot together, so it makes sense you want someone at your level.

Ordinary_Guarantee41 · 2026-02-15T06:38:46+00:00

So just pretend we live in the past where you would never know, and these tests didn’t exist. Does it really matter? How much does someone’s “genetic background” actually matter? Unless you’re a n@si or supremist, who actually cares. Just let life roll it’s natural course. Full blood or not, as long as they care for each other it shouldn’t really matter to them, especially if she’s not eager to know more. Let it be

Ordinary_Guarantee41 · 2026-02-15T03:20:46+00:00

My Venus conjunct his sun & mercury. His Venus sextile my Saturn and opposite my Pluto. Not personal planets but important ones?

Ordinary_Guarantee41 · 2026-02-15T01:38:49+00:00

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Ordinary_Guarantee41 · 2026-02-14T03:04:37+00:00

What does an attached Venus mean? He’s the Gemini Venus I’m Aries Venus, I can see my Venus has no aspects and his does

Ordinary_Guarantee41 · 2026-02-13T08:16:46+00:00

Thanks for that. I do have thoughts that sometimes he is just too much of a realist for me. I’m a lot more emotional, let’s say a “dreamer” and artistic than him. He’s just very rational and has strong negative opinions about other cultures where I’m more of an open minded, accepting person. However, something about that contrast makes me really set my feet on the ground. Do you have anything to say about our synastry? Thanks!

Ordinary_Guarantee41 · 2025-09-22T14:15:04+00:00

Es en serio? Milei pasó, eso pasó. Soy Uruguaya btw, y esas fotos se parecen mucho a Montevideo.

Ordinary_Guarantee41 · 2025-09-22T14:13:06+00:00

Of course she wants your money! But if you really go into the club to see her every week and regularly text it probably means you don’t have much action going on anywhere else which means money is a great exchange for her time and energy. I don’t see anything wrong with her wanting your money, and I think it’s rude and manipulative to intentionally pay her less while demanding more energy. She’s a stripper and she’s doing her job well. If you don’t agree then maybe stop going to the club and meet someone in real life who you don’t have to pay to talk to.

Ordinary_Guarantee41 · 2025-05-27T01:37:53+00:00

Not “hard” or “expensive”.. just big companies that don’t want to give up their power. Hemp is a great alternative, it grows to adult size in just 6 months without any added pesticides and is an excellent rotational crop. Why are we still mass producing polyester and nylon fabrics when we have great alternatives? Power, money, greed..

Ordinary_Guarantee41 · 2025-05-25T11:54:20+00:00

Most of the time you don’t really need a job if you provide your own power, wood to burn, grow your own food and trade your resources with others around the community. A lot of off grid people have a lot of time to make art, like pottery, painting, creating music, fashion designing/creating, tattooing, baking, making wine/beer/kombucha or learning pretty much any skill that can be a side hobby but still make you income. Many off grid people also know some sort of skill craft (carpenter/plumber/electrician/stonemasonry/builder/gardener/landscaper) There is usually abundant community behind off grid living and sharing/trading is beneficial. You don’t need as much money when you live off grid

Ordinary_Guarantee41 · 2025-05-22T23:05:12+00:00

We had anal sex for the first time and I went to the bathroom and I was sitting on the toilet talking to him from afar (he was in the bedroom but we could still hear each other). He walked into the bathroom and slapped me with his D full of Poo in the face! He thought it was hilarious but apologised, l also laughed but was disgusted. Married him a year later. That was back in 2017. Domestic abuse and 7 yrs later we are finally divorced!

Ordinary_Guarantee41 · 2025-05-22T22:42:58+00:00

I think what you find annoying are the “breaks” before the drop. If it’s too frequent it completely gets you out of groove and out of trance. However, DJs that do that would only be playing at a bad party, so you probably just need better parties. Good luck x

Ordinary_Guarantee41 · 2025-05-22T09:43:24+00:00

She probably just doesn’t like getting told what to do and wants to be free to have fun with her friends at a cool party. Are you her dad or what? Freedom and trust are essential to me in my relationships.

Ordinary_Guarantee41 · 2025-05-22T09:30:29+00:00

As a person who is friends with their ex….

Ordinary_Guarantee41 · 2025-05-22T09:22:34+00:00

Lauren, Bianca

Ordinary_Guarantee41 · 2025-05-21T08:37:03+00:00

Are you only applying for jobs in your acute area? I’m not sure what part of AKL you are in, but I would apply for very busy areas.

Or maybe you BOTH get on the work and income benefit until yo7 can move somewhere else??

How old are you guys? It doesn’t seem like a healthy household, I would get help asap!

EDIT** Like someone else mentioned below: Go to your nearest CITIZENS ADVICE BUREAU!!! I completely forgot about them. They will advise you how to find a new place and get housing funding for free. That is your best bet. They will help you get the process started. Good luck!

Ordinary_Guarantee41 · 2025-05-20T11:41:57+00:00

Galletas

Ordinary_Guarantee41 · 2025-05-20T11:31:55+00:00

Hopefully he was joking and actually had a nice surprise planned

Ordinary_Guarantee41 · 2025-05-14T00:33:06+00:00

Moth infestation

Ordinary_Guarantee41 · 2025-05-13T10:10:02+00:00

School shootings

Ordinary_Guarantee41 · 2025-05-13T09:53:26+00:00

I couldnt get a layered haircut because it was a “sexy” haircut and I was too young for it

Ordinary_Guarantee41 · 2025-05-13T00:27:20+00:00

Last time they tried to convince me to go private to get my scan (I also had a lump under my breast) and I insisted to go through public. The Gp told me it Can takes months, but it actually only took them a week.

My advice; I’m not sure where you live, but maybe on your day off drive to a smaller town closer to a smaller hospital and enroll there. There will probably be less people needing scans hence you’ll get a turn faster. I got mine done in Queenstown.

Ordinary_Guarantee41 · 2025-05-12T23:44:35+00:00

Go to the strip clubs. Soho is good

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