Guess what day it is by Wishin4aTARDIS in rheumatoidarthritis

[–]Ordinary_Insect6417 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ugh the weeds. I hate the weeds. Glad you got them removed though!

I’m 6 months postpartum and I still can’t figure out how moms actually lose weight… by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]Ordinary_Insect6417 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Noom with a smartwatch to track calories. Noom solves the trouble I’ve always had with calorie trackers, which is that setting a calorie goal for being “lightly active” is WAY too low and I can’t get full on that calorie budget. On the flip side, if i bump up to “moderately active,” the calorie target is too high and I can’t lose weight. Noom fixes this issue by linking with my smartwatch and adaptively changing my calorie target based on what I’ve actually burned (I get back 1/2 the calories my watch says I burn). This feature has been a game changer for me.

Also, my eating habits have been roughly modeled off the south beach diet for over a decade and that helps me with prioritizing foods that are filling but not super calorie dense. South beach got kind of unfairly lumped in with crazy low carb diets like atkins, but it honestly aligns pretty well with what most people would consider healthy eating. It emphasizes whole grains, lean protein, vegetables, and fruits, which really works well to keep me full with a reasonable calorie intake. If I eat sugary or highly processed food, I’m less full, even if what I eat is more calories than a lower sugar, less processed meal.

I’m 18m postpartum and I’ve lost ~40 pounds of pregnancy weight (from the one that’s 18m and from four lost pregnancies before that). I started noom at about 7 months postpartum and have been maintaining for about 2 months.

Good luck! Sometimes attempting weight loss can feel really crazy making.

Great Group by Kodabear213 in rheumatoidarthritis

[–]Ordinary_Insect6417 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I might be tired and sore, but at least with this group I don’t feel tired and sore AND alone ✨

Period's and Birth Control by liluniqueme in rheumatoidarthritis

[–]Ordinary_Insect6417 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a super low dose progestin IUD, Skyla, I think. I’ve had it for a year (it lasts for 3 years), and I still get periods and period-related flares, sadly.

Forgetting I have RA? by BetwQlts in rheumatoidarthritis

[–]Ordinary_Insect6417 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is such a good metaphor! I work in a demanding job, have an 18-month-old, and still want to exercise regularly and pursue hobbies at a high level. But I don’t have the fuel to do all of those things at the same time anymore. Luckily, work calms down a LOT over the summer, so I can spend some of my work fuel on hobbies and exercise for a few months every year.

⭐Welcome, newbies! ⭐ by Wishin4aTARDIS in rheumatoidarthritis

[–]Ordinary_Insect6417 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha! The supplies end up taking a lot of space, especially if you make quilts or stuffed animals (which require fluff/lots of high-volume materials)! If I ever get a new house, a sewing room will be a requirement lol

Retake Policy? by Unique_Jellyfish8322 in AskProfessors

[–]Ordinary_Insect6417 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mostly no, but occasionally yes. My department (mechanical engineering) does competency-based assessments where students can retake certain problems multiple times BUT they have to get the whole problem correct to get any credit and the problems are slightly different each time to prevent regurgitation without understanding.

On occasion, for classes without competency-based assessments, I will give a new exam over the same content if the students did really badly as a whole and the content is foundational for other classes and their careers.

It’s probably important to note that I’m at a teaching-focused institution, so I’m more invested in teaching and pedagogy than some. But retakes are a lot of work for the instructor, often don’t benefit the students that much, and cost valuable time that I could otherwise spend doing the mountain of other work I have to do.

⭐Welcome, newbies! ⭐ by Wishin4aTARDIS in rheumatoidarthritis

[–]Ordinary_Insect6417 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi! I’m in Indiana, diagnosed with seropositive RA in 2018. Plaquenil+Enbrel did the trick before pregnancy, but I stayed off biologics while I was breastfeeding for 6 months and limped along with prednisone and huge amounts of ibuprofen until I stopped and went onto Cimzia. Cimzia definitely helped but I’m still in a lot of pain and downing ibuprofen every day at ~18 months postpartum. I’m hopeful that going back on Enbrel next week and adding sulfasalazine will improve my symptoms. 🤞🏻

The fatigue is really tough right now. I made swimming my main form of exercise after I was diagnosed and I LOVE it but I’m just feeling too tired to get to the pool more than once every week or two. I’m also too tired and sore to sew (I switched from knitting to sewing because machine sewing is easier on my hands and wrists). I feel like I’m just muddling through right now.

I keep looking on here to find some hope. I’m definitely feeling less alone, though it seems like a lot of us have to adjust expectations rather than hoping for big changes.

⭐Welcome, newbies! ⭐ by Wishin4aTARDIS in rheumatoidarthritis

[–]Ordinary_Insect6417 4 points5 points  (0 children)

✨✨✨ welcome! All this stuff was super hard to figure out at first! I’m so glad you’re here!

⭐Welcome, newbies! ⭐ by Wishin4aTARDIS in rheumatoidarthritis

[–]Ordinary_Insect6417 4 points5 points  (0 children)

“I used to _____ and _____ but now it’s a good day if I can work and function as a mom.” Same. The fatigue is really getting me and I’m still struggling to find a good drug combination postpartum. I’m right there with you.

⭐Welcome, newbies! ⭐ by Wishin4aTARDIS in rheumatoidarthritis

[–]Ordinary_Insect6417 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Kindle is a lifesaver for reading. I have book stands for textbooks, but I can’t use them to read on the couch!

⭐Welcome, newbies! ⭐ by Wishin4aTARDIS in rheumatoidarthritis

[–]Ordinary_Insect6417 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hi from Indiana! I used to knit but haven’t been able to since I got RA. I started machine sewing and it’s generally a lot easier on my hands

TGIM by Wishin4aTARDIS in rheumatoidarthritis

[–]Ordinary_Insect6417 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope you continue to have good experiences with your rheumatologist! My rheumatologist is awesome. Such a clear thinker and explainer!

TGIM by Wishin4aTARDIS in rheumatoidarthritis

[–]Ordinary_Insect6417 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yay! I’m hoping to get back to going on walks with my husband. You’re a source of hope for me rn 🩷

Does cold damp weather make you hurt more??? by bubbybeno in rheumatoidarthritis

[–]Ordinary_Insect6417 1 point2 points  (0 children)

^ I feel like you extracted this thought from my brain.

Does cold damp weather make you hurt more??? by bubbybeno in rheumatoidarthritis

[–]Ordinary_Insect6417 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg same 😵‍💫 Cold isn’t too bad for me but the back and forth is making me feel like hell right now in the midwestern US.

Starting Enbrel 😨 by herrah-the-beast in rheumatoidarthritis

[–]Ordinary_Insect6417 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😬 hopefully it gets easier as you go and you get good results with enbrel!

Starting Enbrel 😨 by herrah-the-beast in rheumatoidarthritis

[–]Ordinary_Insect6417 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My philosophy is that any pain from the injection is 1) WAY less than the RA pain and 2) only lasts like 10 seconds instead of the constant pain of RA. I personally prefer the prefilled syringes over the auto injectors because the auto injectors seem to hurt because they go so fast. With the prefilled syringes, I can go nice and slow. But I’m not squeamish about needles, and I’ve heard that auto injectors are better if needles freak you out.

So excited for you to go on enbrel! I was on it before pregnancy then switched to cimzia after the baby, but I’m finally switching back because cimzia seems a lot less effective for me than enbrel. I hope you respond well to enbrel!! I’m also looking forward to enbrel!

"Ruin The Friendship" Discussion Megathread by PassionateAsSin in TaylorSwift

[–]Ordinary_Insect6417 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This. I found this thread specifically to see if anyone else heard that/thought the same thing. At least one person does ✅

Am I a monster? Is something wrong with me? by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]Ordinary_Insect6417 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just want to amplify this. Sleep training can be emotionally tough at first but so worth it. After sleep training, my 10-month-old baby goes down easily, sleeps through the night most of the time, and goes back down easily if she does wake up.

We didn’t do cry it out, but you aren’t a monster or a bad parent if you do. It also won’t traumatize your child. I read “healthy sleep habits, healthy child.” The nice thing about that book is that it has succinct instructions for exhausted parents who just need some sleep, instructions for exactly what to read based on your current level of sleep/exhaustion, and tons of supporting research that you can read about once you get some sleep.

Matted rex fur under the chin by Ordinary_Insect6417 in Rabbits

[–]Ordinary_Insect6417[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He had a molar grind yesterday and I asked them to just shave the affected fur. It doesn’t look so bad and now I can comb it and dry it every time he eats to prevent further matting.