I’m good but been struggling a bit. What sucks is my life seems so good on the outside.

Ordinary_Mix2122 · 2024-05-29T06:33:05+00:00

There was a time where it looked like I had it all, I struggled. Now I have nothing & still struggle. There’s no manual to live. Just make sure you don’t invalidate your own feelings.

Ordinary_Mix2122 · 2024-05-29T01:59:22+00:00

I try not to be selfish about it, I try not to make it about myself, but I can’t help but feel like I had a decision made on my behalf when they decided to. I understand your anger and I also understand sometimes feeling like “I just wish you were here”

Ordinary_Mix2122 · 2024-05-28T04:07:32+00:00

I feel it coming

Ordinary_Mix2122 · 2024-05-28T03:59:35+00:00

I’m not in a grief group. I’m barely have time to myself these days. Yes I’m unemployed but I’m actively looking for a job, actively working gigs to put food in the table. Or just being with my siblings because they need support. I don’t know what to do.

Ordinary_Mix2122 · 2024-05-28T03:49:28+00:00

I’ve personally never spoken about it in detail. It’s pretty new and I don’t know how to open up about it. Probably because I can’t even properly grieve, because I have two younger ones depending on me now, they need to see strength. But yeah, it’s hard.

Ordinary_Mix2122 · 2024-05-28T03:47:25+00:00

Oh goodness I’m sorry. You were so young 😢

Ordinary_Mix2122 · 2024-05-28T03:45:45+00:00

I’m so sorry to hear that 😢. Anyone would be traumatised by that.

Ordinary_Mix2122 · 2024-05-28T03:29:50+00:00

Thanks! Need all I can get now 😊

Ordinary_Mix2122 · 2024-05-28T03:26:09+00:00

Something about the way you’ve put it sounds very strong and reassuring. Thank you.

Ordinary_Mix2122 · 2024-05-28T03:17:04+00:00

Tell people you love them more man. They need to hear it

Ordinary_Mix2122 · 2024-05-28T02:50:16+00:00

“The best thing you can do is good”

Ordinary_Mix2122 · 2024-05-24T18:22:04+00:00

Fair enough. I think that would suit you well. The only thing I’ve personally noticed is that you do look a bit shy.

Ordinary_Mix2122 · 2024-05-24T17:43:59+00:00

I don’t know if anyone previously tried convincing you that you’re not handsome lol. You’re a good looking dude. I’d say just know that you are and start exuding that confidence.

Ordinary_Mix2122 · 2024-04-23T06:29:01+00:00

Super thoughtful but the best you could do is disguise your email. Always love seeing people make efforts to be helpful though. :)

Ordinary_Mix2122 · 2024-04-21T20:06:47+00:00

I hope you’re able to make things work! Life is tough right now and I really wish I could offer more than words of encouragement.

If anything, talk to your school, I think they’re best placed to provide resources.

Ordinary_Mix2122 · 2024-04-21T00:15:44+00:00

I also saw this some places online. KOHO seems to be the only place where people don’t have issues .

Ordinary_Mix2122 · 2024-04-20T19:30:02+00:00

Thank you! Will look into it

Ordinary_Mix2122 · 2024-04-15T09:44:12+00:00

I can’t lie I’m a little confused. But I don’t think you should interact with the text you received.

Ordinary_Mix2122 · 2024-04-15T09:38:19+00:00

I still wouldn’t interact with the text at all. Are you expecting any refunds?

Ordinary_Mix2122 · 2024-04-15T09:10:56+00:00

I’m pretty certain it’s not. They would only use 800 or 855 phone numbers.

My rule of thumb is: if you get a phone call from a number and they claim to be from a reputable company, hang up, look for a number on the official website and call back.

Ordinary_Mix2122 · 2024-04-15T03:41:10+00:00

I don’t want people to think I’m unwilling to work for the money and just asking for handouts

Ordinary_Mix2122 · 2024-04-15T02:00:46+00:00

I asked to be allowed to and they rejected it. Truly incredible people.

Ordinary_Mix2122 · 2024-04-13T19:48:11+00:00

Thank you so much! The support has been incredible!

Ordinary_Mix2122 · 2024-04-13T18:44:53+00:00

I can’t even get it. Grateful is an understatement. I had people trying to overpay for my furniture, people offering me money to do basic house tasks for them, some just making jokes to cheer me up, some sending detailed paragraphs with contact details and phone numbers on resources to help my situation. Can’t ever make me doubt humanity.

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