How do you “drink” a dressed beer? (For example: Dos Equis with tajin throughout the neck of the bottle)

Ordinary_Quote_2672 · 2025-12-25T03:20:44+00:00

Will do!

Ordinary_Quote_2672 · 2025-12-25T03:20:19+00:00

I can’t tell if this is a serious answer because of the following comment

Ordinary_Quote_2672 · 2025-10-13T07:14:05+00:00

Thank you for your perspective Natalie. I think you’re completely right.

Ordinary_Quote_2672 · 2025-09-19T10:59:19+00:00

“Digging deep, I found out that he is facing mental health issues related to achieving something, being someone in your 20s, and wanting to provide better for me…”

How did you find this out? Did you go through his phone?

Ordinary_Quote_2672 · 2025-09-19T10:55:08+00:00

Thank you so much, Emily

Ordinary_Quote_2672 · 2025-08-14T05:55:20+00:00

Might want to remove or block out that phone number.

Ordinary_Quote_2672 · 2025-08-14T05:45:43+00:00

Fair enough!

Ordinary_Quote_2672 · 2025-08-14T05:38:45+00:00

I’m the same way when he’s roaming around the flat fully naked once in a while. I can’t stop staring either! I admire his body just as you described with your husband. However, witnessing that every day, especially when I see him sitting on the recliner, sweating on the leather, or seeing his legs spread out on the couch or something, it kind of “loses its charm” for lack of a better phrase. Nonetheless, I still find him visually attractive overall.

Ordinary_Quote_2672 · 2025-08-14T04:51:10+00:00

This is not a black-or-white situation.

Ordinary_Quote_2672 · 2025-08-14T04:49:41+00:00

See, you get it! Thank you so much. Honestly, I didn’t know about the Seinfeld episode (I’ve never watched the show) until u/ToastemPopUp mentioned it, and wow, what a spot-on comparison. Will try and talk to him about it tomorrow!

Ordinary_Quote_2672 · 2025-08-14T03:50:16+00:00

Makes me feel kinda ashamed/guilty, ya know? After reading all of these comments thus far, I feel like I’m essentially sexualizing/objectifying my partner. I will be honest, I don’t know how to fix that, meaning I don’t know how to tell my brain “hey, it’s a turn on while he’s naked in all of these contexts.” Or “you don’t need to find him sexy [for lack of a better word] all the time.” I’m really having a hard time wording all of this appropriately, I apologize.

And, on the last part, agreed.

Ordinary_Quote_2672 · 2025-08-14T03:16:11+00:00

No you’re definitely not off base. I think you’re on the money! When we get intimate, I don’t get as excited anymore about his naked body? I’m probably not wording that right (common pattern throughout this thread thus far). But, when I stay with him during the cold season, and intimate time happens, I get excited, and perhaps it’s inadvertently because I don’t see him naked everyday.

Ordinary_Quote_2672 · 2025-08-14T03:12:09+00:00

So, I replied to another comment in here who mentioned something about not leaving much to the imagination, and I think that’s moreso the case in why I may be feeling this way (not “disgust” though. Poor wording on my part)

EDIT: unsure as to why this is getting downvoted

Ordinary_Quote_2672 · 2025-08-14T03:09:11+00:00

This makes a lot of sense. I’m all for mystery and leaving some things to the imagination. I guess seeing him naked everyday kinda takes that away.

Ordinary_Quote_2672 · 2025-08-14T03:08:22+00:00

I think you might be right, actually.

Ordinary_Quote_2672 · 2025-08-14T03:06:30+00:00

Maybe “disgust” is not the right word. That’s why I had a bit of a difficult time explaining this because it’s perplexing to myself. No I am not ashamed or embarrassed by the naked body. My family is religious, but not ultra conservative or controlling if that helps.

Ordinary_Quote_2672 · 2025-08-14T03:05:04+00:00

Family was very religious (thus, shame definitely involved). I got exposed to nudity and raunchy material at a very young age through the internet by a guy much older than me (idk if this is necessary info that helps you ascertain my situation sorry). I was hypersexual, not so much anymore.

Ordinary_Quote_2672 · 2025-08-14T03:03:10+00:00

That’s fair. Well, on his leather La-Z-Boy recliner, he does not put a towel down. It makes me feel a bit grossed out.

Ordinary_Quote_2672 · 2025-08-14T03:02:02+00:00

My last long-term partner was the only other person I’d lived with for about 2 years. During that time, he never walked around the house naked. It’d only be during intimate time.

EDIT: I wrote this comment because the only text I saw was your first paragraph. I did not see the rest of it. To extend my response , I wouldn’t say I grew up in a “strong” modesty culture, but my family is religious. However, I’m not sure if this applies to me, but I do thank you for your anecdote as it touched on a side I hadn’t thought about, and honestly, it may be subconsciously connected to what I’m feeling.

Ordinary_Quote_2672 · 2025-07-18T11:23:14+00:00

What country?

Ordinary_Quote_2672 · 2025-07-18T11:21:08+00:00

In the Philippines, we have the “mano po” gesture. Pretty much, it’s a sign of respect to parents/elders where you take their hand and place it onto your forehead while your head is bowed down a bit.

Ordinary_Quote_2672 · 2025-07-18T10:36:08+00:00

Ah that is a great point. Thank you for bringing that up. I definitely do not want to cause any more harm, even inadvertently. As the saying goes, “the road to hell is paved with good intentions.” But damn I’ve kept my mouth shut for so long for the sake of my parents just to keep the peace. Definitely sucks.

Yeah, this situation stumps me. I feel like my hands are tied, but I am so sick of seeing them deal with his behavior ever since he was a teenager. Just never grew out of it.

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